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Met a sweet guy on here...actually in person and we have so much in common but it's only been a month of talking...he is sweet, funny, honest. The communication and everything is there..I am falling and he has stated he is to but it's only been a month since talking..
What do I do..He just lost his sister to whom was killed in car accident and I am feeling his hurt..I want to be there and hold him tightly in my arms and try to kiss away the pain..what do I do.. |
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paitence, don't rush it. if you do it might fizzle out as quickly as it fired up
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Follow your heart..
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Be there but go slow.
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Go for it.
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be carefull but at the same time if it feels right dont end up asking your self what if ??
some day ..  I hate What if !!  |
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Offer to go with him to the funeral, offer your support in any way. Let him grieve to you and with you. Be his friend.
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Every ones right, Ill tell you this much ur lucky to find a guy who acctually greveas not just blows it off, alot of us Ill admit even though we dont show it are hurting just as much as a women does in those situation, so take it easy on him, let him come to you and just be there youll know when its the right moment!
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take it slow especially at a time like this and just offer ur support
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WTF
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What do I do..He just lost his sister to whom was killed in car accident and I am feeling his hurt..I want to be there and hold him tightly in my arms and try to kiss away the pain..what do I do.. You have doubts. Trust your intuition. It's probably right. |
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Every ones right, Ill tell you this much ur lucky to find a guy who acctually greveas not just blows it off, alot of us Ill admit even though we dont show it are hurting just as much as a women does in those situation, so take it easy on him, let him come to you and just be there youll know when its the right moment! Angel's got it right. Take your cue from your guy. He'll let you know what he feels comfortable with and when. He already said he is falling also. "so take it easy on him, let him come to you and just be there youll know when its the right moment!" |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Tue 04/29/08 06:51 AM
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Why don't you just ask him how you can best support him and what are his needs from you? Tell him how you feel and say you will respect his wishes and boundaries if they differ from yours.
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Why don't you just ask him how you can best support him and what he are his needs from you? Tell him how you feel and say you will respect his wishes and boundaries if they differ from yours. this is why we are friends .. love ya Lilith
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this is why we are friends .. love ya Lilith I love you too, Fade.
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(((((( group hug )))))))
okay enough emotion I'm gonna be late for work .. again  I wonder if that says anything about how we FEEL about where we're going, when we drag our feet to get there  |
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He already left today to go back home to maine...He knows that I am here...This sucks cause I want to hold him and let him know that everything will be okay...But he needs this time...Thank you for all the advice..The funny thing is feelings and emotions are out of control and I could easily fall in lov e with him.
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Well I guess I'm just not meant to be happy...Last time I talked to him was on the 30th by email come to find out yesterday he moved from the place he was living to I don't know where...I just give up
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