Topic: women who do not work.
franshade's photo
Fri 06/06/08 01:58 PM

well us single parents have no choice but to work unfortunately so being a stay at home mom is out of the question.
I will say to the women get an education because it will bode you well if something happens in the relationship.


disagree with this message - an education is a great thing to have period. Not just in case something happens in a relationship.

Why make plans for things to fail, ladies make positive plans in your life.

Stuff (:wink:)will always happen, so what, brush it off and continue the journey. Dont focus nor live life with the "just in case" mentality.

Be the very best 'you' you can be - and everyday will be great!

flowerforyou

franshade's photo
Fri 06/06/08 01:58 PM


Izzziiiieeee

did u see this post... hilarious

and poor ikes timing was way offfffff.


laugh laugh laugh laugh
im always off or to late,story of my life,lol


but you have a great sense of humor Ike, have a great weekend.flowerforyou

littleike's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:03 PM



Izzziiiieeee

did u see this post... hilarious

and poor ikes timing was way offfffff.


laugh laugh laugh laugh
im always off or to late,story of my life,lol


but you have a great sense of humor Ike, have a great weekend.flowerforyou
thank you franshade

no photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:03 PM


women who do not work hurt themselves in the end. women out there, you have to maintain your independence from your man and work or else one day he is going to walk out with someone who does, that is, if he is not already doing that. i see too many women suffer for it.


how about people like my who cant work?? due to medical conditions ??

If you can not work ,you are entitled to a disability pension .
So you get a cheque too .

Sharris's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:04 PM
Why are we content to base decisions on generational, rationalizations? I believe it has nothing to do with any choices.

franshade's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:04 PM

Why are we content to base decisions on generational, rationalizations? I believe it has nothing to do with any choices.


please clarify?

lilith401's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:07 PM
I think it is up to each couple, and each member of that couple, to decide what is right for them. As people, and in their marriage/family.

It is not for us, or anyone outside their relationship to say. It is not our business.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:07 PM


well us single parents have no choice but to work unfortunately so being a stay at home mom is out of the question.
I will say to the women get an education because it will bode you well if something happens in the relationship.


disagree with this message - an education is a great thing to have period. Not just in case something happens in a relationship.

Why make plans for things to fail, ladies make positive plans in your life.

Stuff (:wink:)will always happen, so what, brush it off and continue the journey. Dont focus nor live life with the "just in case" mentality.

Be the very best 'you' you can be - and everyday will be great!

flowerforyou

very nice..drinker

franshade's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:08 PM

I think it is up to each couple, and each member of that couple, to decide what is right for them. As people, and in their marriage/family.

It is not for us, or anyone outside their relationship to say. It is not our business.


My idol surfaces {{{{lilith}}}}

Been saying its an individual choice, individual cases and situations.

Have fun w/Lily grumble grumble

lilith401's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:10 PM

My idol surfaces {{{{lilith}}}}

Been saying its an individual choice, individual cases and situations.

Have fun w/Lily grumble grumble


Fran! We are meeting up at seven, my son is so excited to meet her daughter. I told him she was blonde and he rubbed his hands and said "all right"....:tongue:

You are right, of course. It is not a societal issue.... it is based on what is right for each couple and their choice of lifestyle.

franshade's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:11 PM
let me find out that 2 jsh moms (have a hand in hooking up the younguns) lol

Have a blast!!! (:wink: wtg to ur son woohooo) a man that knows what he wants from early on in life!!!

Hugs & kisses to all

flowerforyou


lilith401's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:13 PM

let me find out that 2 jsh moms (have a hand in hooking up the younguns) lol

Have a blast!!! (:wink: wtg to ur son woohooo) a man that knows what he wants from early on in life!!!

Hugs & kisses to all

flowerforyou


Putting them in my pocket right now!!!smooched

Drivinmenutz's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:13 PM
Having independence is a good thing. It is important to be self sufficient. However in relationships, it is also important to be codependent. Without any codependence long term relationships usually fade with time.

Anyway, there is also nothing wrong with one parent working while the other takes care of the home, and kids. It's all about both partners giving it their all. Although, i guess in my full opinion i do consider the stay-at-home mom or dad to be a full time job. Depends on how you look at it i suppose. The whole point is, do your part.flowerforyou

DestinysDream's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:15 PM


now go make my dinner and shut up


men like you deserve to be alone.

Sporky? Is that you?

Sharris's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:17 PM

Why are we content to base decisions on generational, rationalizations? I believe it has nothing to do with any choices.


I believe it has nothing to do with choices brought on by a group.(edit)

I have heard a lot lately about this up and coming generation, their strengths and weaknesses in the future ability to change the world. A classification of a generation,,I believe I can do more by doing right in my life, up close and personal. In regards to this thread. I live as I have to and more openly now, as I want to. It is circumstantial, more so than generational.

no photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:23 PM
lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao @ this thread!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Cambolaya65's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:27 PM
what was this about?Women hurting themselves in the end?I would like to see THAT!!!

Sharris's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:30 PM

lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao @ this thread!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


what does that mean?

lilith401's photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:31 PM
L = laughing
M = my
A= azz
O= off

no photo
Fri 06/06/08 02:32 PM


lmaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao @ this thread!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


what does that mean?
Sorry wasnt laughing at your post.......just the entire thread!!!laugh noway laugh