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I was what wondering what type of relationship are the majority of are people looking for? Is there anyway we can take a poll? Since I am not ready for anything serious I still would like a fun person to spend time with and have companionship, and a physical relationship. But, I really don't want drama or the pressure of making plans for the future. More of an enjoy the moment type situation. I would think this is a step above friends with benefits, but still would not be considered looking for a serious relationship. I just wonder how many other people are looking for something like this? Please share your thoughts. You could hire a hooker. 
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Hookers always hire me...none of their clients make them feel the way I do.
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I prefer a serious relationship. But that takes so long to get
to that point. Have to be friends to start! 
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I am looking for friends...but if a relationship smacked me in the head...it would have to be all about serious. I'm thinking maxwell's silver hammer would do it.
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I am just here for buddies and fun..thats pretty much it..I gave up on all that other stuff..lol
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i am not thinking about marriage not now not again OH, NO, ROBERT!!! THEY'VE EVEN TURNED YOU INTO A BLUE BOX!!! 
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I want more than a one night stand. I don't know what else?
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Edited by
MAKE_ME_GIGGLE
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Wed 06/11/08 09:41 AM
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I'm tired of the short term leases!! I want my best friend forever kind of guy, but that probably wont include marriage. Been there done that!!!
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im all about having a good time and i dont think a man could handle me or keep up with me
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<<< Sitting back watching this one.  Agreed |
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So what is less than marriage and more than a one night stand considered? Isn't that called dating? |
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friends first then long term.
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I am looking for friends...but if a relationship smacked me in the head...it would have to be all about serious. I'm thinking maxwell's silver hammer would do it. LMAO |
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Edited by
Scinn
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Wed 06/11/08 09:56 AM
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Ok wow...lots of posts to read through lol
I personally always thought that the best way to a long term, committed relationship was through all the hoops. Hoop 1 being a friendship the "get to know you" hoop. Hoop 2 being the "I really like hanging out with you and spending time with you and would like to do more of it on a one on one basis rather than with all our other friends." Hoop 3 is "let's take it a step further and make this more serious, I could see a future with you." And Hoop 4 is all the bells and whistles..the engagement and wedding and planning a life together. I don't really see how you can skip the hoops, I suppose hoops one and two could be combined, but even then you're still at the "getting to know you" stage. I'm a firm believer in starting at hoop 1 and working my way through. You get more time to know the person and make sure that it's exactly what you want before you just keep blindly jumping. So for me, I don't like the casual thing but I'm not "looking" for a committed thing. All good things in due time. As to the sex aspect of things: I don't believe in just jumping into bed with someone. But then, I don't like casual sex. If it doesn't mean anything...what's the point? Just to get your jollies for a couple hours?  There's got to be a connection on an emotional level for me, and that generally means love and seeing something further down the road than just a fork where he goes his way and I go mine.
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I eventually want a serious relationship, but that takes time, i'd be happy with some one to hang out with or talk to once or twice a week, some one to cuddle on the couch with while we watch a movie would be great. It all starts with one step, but I can't even find someone that will e-mail me back, LOL or return a phone call. (((SIGH)))) |
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