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Topic: girlfriend smokes
Balky's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:46 AM
Smoking is a turn off of mine. Last night I found out she smokes cigarettes. She told me she doesn't do it except for when she's drunk or stressed out, I asked her to not smoke around me and she said ok. We've only been dating a month, is it right for me to have her quit right away?

My ex wife used to smoke all the time and she quit for me after a few months of dating.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:47 AM
i only smoke after sex...SMOKINNNN....bigsmile

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Sun 07/06/08 11:47 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


good luck , there smokey

Cambolaya65's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:47 AM
huh?>>>>>smokin

Tankk's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:47 AM
YOu can't make anyone do anything they haven't done on their own...either accept her the way she is or move on. Good thing she doesn't smoke after sex or she'd be smoking nonstop.

mcattygarnett's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:48 AM
really she needs to do it for herself and for her health otherwise she will sneak around and smoke.

ledi180's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:48 AM
Have her quit? grumble You think you can make her? If she wants to she will, if she doesn't she won't. Good luck.

Lord_Psycho's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:49 AM
dude if the smokin bothers u that much n she wont stop smokin near u. well find some1 else that doesnt smoke! she may be a great girl but if somethin like that bothers u well move on they are plenty of fish in the sea my friend!

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Sun 07/06/08 11:50 AM
I hate smoking and anyone who wishes to smoke ought not to smoke near me .

prettylady4's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:50 AM
well you new that straight up in the beginning i think after she gets to know ya better she will make her decission but if you accept her all good and bad habits are something you have to deal with is she worth it. dont exspect to change her it would not be right to try and change you right maybe she feels you need to change somethink she does not like are you willing?:wink:

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Sun 07/06/08 11:50 AM

Smoking is a turn off of mine. Last night I found out she smokes cigarettes. She told me she doesn't do it except for when she's drunk or stressed out, I asked her to not smoke around me and she said ok. We've only been dating a month, is it right for me to have her quit right away?

My ex wife used to smoke all the time and she quit for me after a few months of dating.
Have her quit???? fsdhjsdfkah dfsahjksadfhjkadfs hjsadfk ksafdhjdsafjksadf who are you to MAKE someone do anything???? If you dont like it then go find someone else!!!noway

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Sun 07/06/08 11:51 AM
smokin smokin smokin smokin smokin smokin smokin

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Sun 07/06/08 11:53 AM
would you rather her smoke or chew? laugh laugh laugh laugh drinker

Balky's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:53 AM

well you new that straight up in the beginning i think after she gets to know ya better she will make her decission but if you accept her all good and bad habits are something you have to deal with is she worth it. dont exspect to change her it would not be right to try and change you right maybe she feels you need to change somethink she does not like are you willing?:wink:


I didn't know she did at the beginning, she randomly texted me last night saying she needed a cigarette when she went out drinking. Yes I'd be willing to quit a habit of mine for her.

Cambolaya65's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:53 AM
Changing the ones we "like" shows them we care......<<WTF?noway

justme659's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:54 AM
Have her quit???? fsdhjsdfkah dfsahjksadfhjkadfs hjsadfk ksafdhjdsafjksadf who are you to MAKE someone do anything???? If you dont like it then go find someone else!!!noway



ditto, ditto, rasafrasam, radda,radda, ditto, ditto

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Sun 07/06/08 11:55 AM


well you new that straight up in the beginning i think after she gets to know ya better she will make her decission but if you accept her all good and bad habits are something you have to deal with is she worth it. dont exspect to change her it would not be right to try and change you right maybe she feels you need to change somethink she does not like are you willing?:wink:


I didn't know she did at the beginning, she randomly texted me last night saying she needed a cigarette when she went out drinking. Yes I'd be willing to quit a habit of mine for her.

a person should quit for themselves, not for someone else because they don't like it........that's a red flag for controlling............grumble grumble

robert1652's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:55 AM

Smoking is a turn off of mine. Last night I found out she smokes cigarettes. She told me she doesn't do it except for when she's drunk or stressed out, I asked her to not smoke around me and she said ok. We've only been dating a month, is it right for me to have her quit right away?

My ex wife used to smoke all the time and she quit for me after a few months of dating.
smoking is an issue if you have been a smoker and quited
I dont know about you I would want my girl not to smoke

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:55 AM
Holy CONTROLLY Batman!!! noway

crazysillygirl's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:56 AM
oh jeezz.......huh

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