Topic: is there such a thing?
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Tue 07/08/08 08:02 AM
Is there such a thing as just going cold turkey on someone? My ex sent me an e-mail today, and i somehow always end up talking to her again. there just something that draws me in, i cant escape her. But without fail, somehow, by the end of every conversation, i end up feeling, sad lonely, and hurt all over again. Is it possible to just stop talking, writing, thinking about someone, and never let them bother u again?

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Tue 07/08/08 08:03 AM
Yes, it can be done but it is very hard. Good luck to you.happy

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Tue 07/08/08 08:06 AM
Sometimes the relationship can change to friends if there is no hate involved. drinker

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Tue 07/08/08 08:07 AM
Boy, I'd try to avoid any contact if you always end up feeling sad & lonely. Sounds a bit like a game here.

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Tue 07/08/08 08:08 AM

Is there such a thing as just going cold turkey on someone? My ex sent me an e-mail today, and i somehow always end up talking to her again. there just something that draws me in, i cant escape her. But without fail, somehow, by the end of every conversation, i end up feeling, sad lonely, and hurt all over again. Is it possible to just stop talking, writing, thinking about someone, and never let them bother u again?
yes, hardest thing in the world, but it is possible...the more time you stay away...the easier it gets, you need to find other things to do and become completely unavailable to them...good luck

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Tue 07/08/08 08:13 AM
I forgot to mention i was with this girl for almost 4 years, so there alot of memories attached, but, if others can do it, im sure i can too.

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Tue 07/08/08 08:22 AM
When you notice an email from her, why bother to even open it and read it? Just delete it without looking at it. It will save you a lot of heartache and your wounds will begin to heal without the constant opening of new ones. Good Luck! flowerforyou

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Tue 07/08/08 08:22 AM
ohwell It felt like someone ripped my heart when that happened to mefrown