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Topic: Love.....
Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Sun 08/03/08 03:59 AM
How do you post "Looking for the someone to be with forever" Or "Spend the rest of my life with" You can't go looking for love you can date & meet people & see where things go. You need to be friends & get to know womeone. Yes I will agree that some people can just click right away! My point is just don't be so desperate and just let things happen!

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sun 08/03/08 04:08 AM
I think some people just feel they NEED to have that special someone in their life as of yesterday and then feel the need to throw themselves out there.

Down2earthdebbie Joined Tue 12/05/06 Posts: 6097	Sun 08/03/08 04:09 AM
Yup your young but, smart! That's a good thing!

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sun 08/03/08 04:11 AM
Yup your young but, smart! That's a good thing! Travel around the world... Meet some people... Do some things... And one will learn a lot fast.

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sun 08/03/08 04:12 AM
Still learning though...

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Sun 08/03/08 04:14 AM
All that Can be Avoided with Masturbation and Prostitution

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sun 08/03/08 04:18 AM
All that Can be Avoided with Masturbation and Prostitution Masturbation is boring and prostitution is illegal, therefore people search out for creatures known as "mates." A rare species I'll have you know.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sun 08/03/08 04:19 AM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that?

Sluggo Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 6396	Sun 08/03/08 04:25 AM
Amen Down2Earth

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Sun 08/03/08 04:26 AM
All that Can be Avoided with Masturbation and Prostitution Masturbation is boring and prostitution is illegal, therefore people search out for creatures known as "mates." A rare species I'll have you know. Finish Your Fillet O' Fish

CaptainSpaz Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 636	Sun 08/03/08 04:26 AM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that? Because guys don't want to hear "I want to get married and have kids" on the first date or even the second. It's to soon to be thinking of committing ourselves.

Sluggo Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 6396	Sun 08/03/08 04:30 AM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that? Because it takes the enjoyment out of getting to know someone. You're instantly trying to judge the person you're going out with to see if they're "Marriage Material" before you know if you have anything in common with them (besides what gets her off).

boredinaz06 Joined Sun 10/15/06 Posts: 22764	Sun 08/03/08 04:30 AM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that? Many Guys are immature until Sometimes 30 and Wanna Play and Not Be tied Down with Wife and Kids! You Have to Take it Slow and ease into it. You Should Early on if it's Gonna Happen With Someone, Unless You are in Fact Desperate.

Sluggo Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 6396	Sun 08/03/08 04:33 AM
Hey! Some of us are immature into our 40's damnit...lol

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 08/03/08 04:46 AM
How do you post "Looking for the someone to be with forever" Or "Spend the rest of my life with" You can't go looking for love you can date & meet people & see where things go. You need to be friends & get to know womeone. Yes I will agree that some people can just click right away! My point is just don't be so desperate and just let things happen! I agree. Forever is a long time. 8000 nights may be ahead of me. 4,000 is more likely. If love grows and abides with me for 2,000 nights then I am blessed.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sun 08/03/08 07:50 PM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that? Many Guys are immature until Sometimes 30 and Wanna Play and Not Be tied Down with Wife and Kids! You Have to Take it Slow and ease into it. You Should Early on if it's Gonna Happen With Someone, Unless You are in Fact Desperate. That's the whole problem right there... of course you wouldn't want to tell an immature guy that, but who wants to date someone that's immature anyway?

Nursenell76 Joined Mon 06/09/08 Posts: 630	Sun 08/03/08 10:43 PM
Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic. Why do so many people criticize people for that? Many Guys are immature until Sometimes 30 and Wanna Play and Not Be tied Down with Wife and Kids! You Have to Take it Slow and ease into it. You Should Early on if it's Gonna Happen With Someone, Unless You are in Fact Desperate. That's the whole problem right there... of course you wouldn't want to tell an immature guy that, but who wants to date someone that's immature anyway? You have a valid point Ethereal. Not all men are afraid of marriage no matter what their age. Sifting through the BS is the hard part. Being honest is always the best policy, if a man can't respect that then they are not marriage material anyways. And when did wanting marriage become desperate? If that is your goal then why desperate? Doesn't make any sense, then again this is a dating site....... If any of us were experts on relationship issues we sure as h*ll wouldn't be here now would we?