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I don't make animal's my priority, human's are. Animal's are just that, animal's. No, they are not disposible. But human's are more important to me than animal's. fine lets say it was that he wanted you to give up seeing your best friends... would that be alright with you? so if your bf said you cant see your family anymore you'd be completely okay with that? i highly doubt that so why would it be acceptable for someone to tell someone else to get rid of their pets? We're on the same page here... nothing in this quote is acceptible... so if this guy wants you to get rid of your dogs just for him, get rid of him. He is possibly a control freak, and no good for you. The problem you have is finding the priority line between the attempt at romance and your affection for your animals. You can't have your cake and eat it too... either you are going to have to spend time with your man friend... or spend time with your dogs... please don't tell me you are so insecure that you can't live without your dogs for one weekend... oh brother. If this is the case, you simply just need to grow up! |
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in THEIR house they do as they please. THEIR house... like the dogs rule the house... see...??? Game over. It is YOUR house, NOT the dog's house. If you can't keep your dogs in their place, then don't wonder why most people would have a problem with it... And you need to be more respectful to your guests if your dogs are mobbing them at the doorway. That's just simple irresponsibility. I control my dog, she does not control me. I get between her and guests and take control over the situation. It appears you let your dogs run your house... errr... THEIR house any way they see fit. And you wonder why men have problems with your pets..... (?????) youre completely moronic.. yes its their house. they live here 24/7 i am the alpha and i run my house and they listen to everything i say. youre just trying to pick **** up that you think can win your arguement, yet youre not smart enough to answer from a complete post so you just stick with whatever little word you think makes you win i guess i know why youre single now because i dont know a women that would put up with such stupidity. my dogs are like 8 inches tall, they dont MOB anyone. they wiggle their butts as people enter my place and sit at their feet. They lose interest in anyone new like a minute after the person gets there. i guess i just meet men that are ignorant like you and cant stand a woman thats in control of her life and does what she pleases |
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i do what i want when i want and no one is going to tell me what to do. regardless of whether its a man or family or friends Thats not a healthy viewpoint. I am done in this thread. |
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We're on the same page here... nothing in this quote is acceptible... so if this guy wants you to get rid of your dogs just for him, get rid of him. He is possibly a control freak, and no good for you. The problem you have is finding the priority line between the attempt at romance and your affection for your animals. You can't have your cake and eat it too... either you are going to have to spend time with your man friend... or spend time with your dogs... please don't tell me you are so insecure that you can't live without your dogs for one weekend... oh brother. If this is the case, you simply just need to grow up! you really are bipolar are you really saying that you cant have a bf and pets? so if i get a bf do i have to give up my job and friends and everything else? i think you need to grow up and learn to realize when your talking out of you a$$ as long as a person can make time for everything i think they can have anything they want i dont let my relationships suffer because i have pets my SO gets his private alone time and my dogs get theres... and if a man wants to see me more than twice a week then hes sharing his time with the pups or with me doing my work or my chores why should i change ANY aspect of my life for a man? i'm not letting anyones insecurities affect how i live my life |
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i do what i want when i want and no one is going to tell me what to do. regardless of whether its a man or family or friends Thats not a healthy viewpoint. I am done in this thread. so youre saying that if your SO told you NOT to go to school to better yourself you would listen to them? please grow up be your own person and do what you have to do dont listen to mommy or daddy or some "soul mate" that would probably drop you to do what they have to do. |
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Well, I'm not the one asking for romance advice pertaining to dog problems on a public forum...
If you had read what I said... if the guy doesn't like your dogs, then get rid of him. Or if you can put up with him hating your dogs, then bury your head in the sand and dig him, looking blindly at his hate for your animals. Obviously you have problems connected to your dogs or you would have never come on here asking in the first place. Please do not assume everybody is going to jump right in with whatever viewpoint you expect them to give. You need to look in the mirror and ask yourself why you think you have dog problems! If you do not, then you are only posting here to get attention, and not sincerely desiring advice. I don't think you really want to figure out anything. I think you just want attention and for somebody to tell you that your outlook toward your dogs is the only right outlook. Well, welcome to the real world where people view the tiny little dustspecks of truth you dull out to them, and give you honest answers in reply. If you can't take it, then don't ask. Maybe you need to get off the couch a bit more, leave the dogs behind a bit more, and just get out and meet some decent guy that doesn't have any hangups about your stupid dogs!!!!!!! Sounds like the best advice yet... |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise....
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... |
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Well, I'm not the one asking for romance advice pertaining to dog problems on a public forum... If you had read what I said... if the guy doesn't like your dogs, then get rid of him. Or if you can put up with him hating your dogs, then bury your head in the sand and dig him, looking blindly at his hate for your animals. Obviously you have problems connected to your dogs or you would have never come on here asking in the first place. Please do not assume everybody is going to jump right in with whatever viewpoint you expect them to give. You need to look in the mirror and ask yourself why you think you have dog problems! If you do not, then you are only posting here to get attention, and not sincerely desiring advice. I don't think you really want to figure out anything. I think you just want attention and for somebody to tell you that your outlook toward your dogs is the only right outlook. Well, welcome to the real world where people view the tiny little dustspecks of truth you dull out to them, and give you honest answers in reply. If you can't take it, then don't ask. Maybe you need to get off the couch a bit more, leave the dogs behind a bit more, and just get out and meet some decent guy that doesn't have any hangups about your stupid dogs!!!!!!! Sounds like the best advice yet... I have no problem with someone having other viewpoints then mine. But i do have a problem with controlling people. I posted asking if anyone else was in that situation, whether or not pets had any affect on the relationship. Nobodies pets affected me and i'm deathly allergic to cats.. so i'd take 3 benedryls before going over my ex's place.. he had them so i couldnt say anything and i would never tell someone to change anything about themselves to make me happy. My dogs are great and their not a problem for me at all. But then again im more understanding of things. Unlike you. I take people as they are, pets, kids, medical problems and all. Why shouldnt I get the same regard? |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... We were all 22 once, and our priorities at that age were alot different than they are in our 30's and 40's there's nothing wrong with that... |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... grow up? im probably more grown than you are and more educated. youre old and in your own little set ways you cant open your mind to see anyone elses point of view. you definately shouldnt be giving anyone advice. i guess i should up my age range to 60 because even a 45 year old is too childish for me |
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I have had the same experience only Ive dated guys jealous of my cat.....Men...they just dont get it...
Keep the canines and get rid of the DOGS  
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I have had the same experience only Ive dated guys jealous of my cat.....Men...they just dont get it... Keep the canines and get rid of the DOGS ACK!!! You can't have it both ways!!!! lol Unless you meant keep the FELINES and get rid of the dogs....at which point, I would have to tell you that I have a cat and a dog..and neither of them are going anywhere....lol |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... grow up? im probably more grown than you are and more educated. youre old and in your own little set ways you cant open your mind to see anyone elses point of view. you definately shouldnt be giving anyone advice. i guess i should up my age range to 60 because even a 45 year old is too childish for me Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... grow up? im probably more grown than you are and more educated. youre old and in your own little set ways you cant open your mind to see anyone elses point of view. you definately shouldnt be giving anyone advice. i guess i should up my age range to 60 because even a 45 year old is too childish for me Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... The spine, the guts, the brain, the balls..the whole package...what else could a guy want from a girl? 
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Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... It's my experience that the people that have told me i'm not grown (as he's saying) are the ones that are not themselves. I have everything I want which is more than i can say about people twice my age... and i've worked hard for it. You just can't show people over the internet and i'm sick of him telling me that i'm childish and not grown up because i asked if anyone had a similiar situation. He just likes to bait people because he's pathetic.. hopefully when i'm his age i wont be so bitter |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... grow up? im probably more grown than you are and more educated. youre old and in your own little set ways you cant open your mind to see anyone elses point of view. you definately shouldnt be giving anyone advice. i guess i should up my age range to 60 because even a 45 year old is too childish for me Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... The spine, the guts, the brain, the balls..the whole package...what else could a guy want from a girl? 
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Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... It's my experience that the people that have told me i'm not grown (as he's saying) are the ones that are not themselves. I have everything I want which is more than i can say about people twice my age... and i've worked hard for it. You just can't show people over the internet and i'm sick of him telling me that i'm childish and not grown up because i asked if anyone had a similiar situation. He just likes to bait people because he's pathetic.. hopefully when i'm his age i wont be so bitter If you were really grown, you would have stated your case once or twice then LET IT GO... Why do you care what some random on the internet says about you? |
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Hey, the girl is 22, her view and yours are going to be 20 years different... Take that into consideration when giving advise.... My thought exactly about the "grow up" part..... grow up? im probably more grown than you are and more educated. youre old and in your own little set ways you cant open your mind to see anyone elses point of view. you definately shouldnt be giving anyone advice. i guess i should up my age range to 60 because even a 45 year old is too childish for me Awe, honey, I was on your side til now.... If you have to tell someone your grown, your not, if you have to tell someone you're educated, you're not as smart as you think you are... The spine, the guts, the brain, the balls..the whole package...what else could a guy want from a girl? Inside joke dude
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the.....balls?!! Yes, mine are so big they don't fit in my pants, I wear them on my chest... |
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