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Topic: 33 Reasons
lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:05 AM
The person I was just dating is an A-Hole.

Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts?

1. You are a drama king….
2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend.
3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there.
4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject.
5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis.
6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me.
7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING.
8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie.
9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself.
10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded.
11. You have no idea who you are.
12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are.
13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it.
14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter.
15. You give out too much information.
16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met.
17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo…..
18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them.
19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke.
20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along.
21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings.
22. You drink entirely too much.
23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back.
24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention.
25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words.
26. Tuesday you ignore me completely.
27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail.
28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem.
29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to.
30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to.
31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule.
32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that.
33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try.

I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole.


plk1966's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:07 AM
OMG were you dating my ex husband:laughing: :laughing:

RKISIT's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:07 AM
so i guess you dont want to see this guy anymore:smile:

maryelizabeth10's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:07 AM
ooo send it! thats good. and lets just hope the next woman doesnt have to put up with what you did

flowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:08 AM
Yeah, that would be a safe thing to say. Funny thing is I had this partially written out before I got the e-mail.... So it just added items on. I was done with him before he decided he needed to "think about things".

Etrain's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:09 AM
flowers Sorry lilith...looks good though...very...intense...lolflowers

no photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:09 AM
So very sorry this happened to youflowerforyou

textherifleman's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:09 AM
wow.......guess yer pretty pissed at him id say go ahead ant mail it to him but put his address in the to: section of the envelope along with his address on the return: section of the envelope so you dont have to worry about wasting postage on that asshole.

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:10 AM

flowers Sorry lilith...looks good though...very...intense...lolflowers


Would you expect anything less from me?

I mean, why I gave dude so many chances I'll never know. I can be guilty of being too considerate or hopeful.... but really this was the first guy I'd met I wanted to kiss in a long time.

jtip1977's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:10 AM
At least he had a small penisshocked



You deserve much better than that Lilith. Sounds very immature if you ask me.

Peccy's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:11 AM
Just forget about the azzhole Lilith. If you give him that, it shows him you are still thinking of him, which equates into a possible chance. Just drop it like a bad habit.

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:11 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Wed 09/03/08 11:12 AM

wow.......guess yer pretty pissed at him id say go ahead ant mail it to him but put his address in the to: section of the envelope along with his address on the return: section of the envelope so you dont have to worry about wasting postage on that asshole.


Ohhh no, I'm mailing it USPS.

And actually, I was pretty kind about most of it. I could've detailed about how he was selfish in bed... right? :laughing:

It gives me closure to send it. It does.

But JT, it wasn't small.... it was average. That is part of why he was an attention seeking drama king.

lilangel2's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:11 AM
maybe he's just dumbohwell

nah..you're right...he's an azzhole!bigsmile

beachbum069's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:11 AM
flowers I'm sorry for the pain and suffering that this person put you through.
Now if only you had stopped over at my place while you were on vacation.flowers

ledi180's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:12 AM
Such good advice - I agree with this guy.


Just forget about the azzhole Lilith. If you give him that, it shows him you are still thinking of him, which equates into a possible chance. Just drop it like a bad habit.

Jill298's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:13 AM
lol well that answered my question laugh

italio69's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:13 AM
wow thats deep,what an a$$hole

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:14 AM

flowers I'm sorry for the pain and suffering that this person put you through.
Now if only you had stopped over at my place while you were on vacation.flowers


Folks, it really wasn't pain and suffering as there were no deep feelings. We hadn't been dating long and he was drama king from day three. I'm more apathetic than it must seem. I really just want to increase his self-awareness.

Beach~
Shoulda woulda coulda.

I agree. You are right and I am wrong.

shoesmonkey's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:15 AM

The person I was just dating is an A-Hole.

Going to send this via snail mail..... thoughts?

1. You are a drama king….
2. You got ****-faced drunk when meeting my best friend.
3. You told my best friend that I had larger breasts than your ex, while I was sitting there.
4. You repeatedly interrupted our conversations to say they were “too deep” and could we change the subject.
5. You talk about how you think your penis is small on a daily basis.
6. You never asked about me or tried to get to know me.
7. Everything is about you. EVERYTHING.
8. When presented with a topic you often lied and later decided to be honest. After days of a keeping up the lie.
9. You compliment me and then make a self-deprecating remark at the end to draw attention back onto yourself.
10. You are indecisive. Translation: weak spirited & weak minded.
11. You have no idea who you are.
12. You start and end every phone call with what a rough day you had and how tired you are.
13. You have a trousseau of emotional baggage and expect others to deal with it.
14. You are rude and uncouth, with little to no manners or filter.
15. You give out too much information.
16. You are the most selfish person in bed I’ve ever met.
17. You said things to me on the first date you had no right to. Emo…..
18. You said on date two that you meant things said on date one but shouldn’t have said them.
19. Four days later, you said all things said on date one were a joke.
20. You forced me to have the same slow down conversation three times, while I was one the same even keel let’s be friends all along.
21. You yelled at me when I tried to tell you that you hurt my feelings.
22. You drink entirely too much.
23. You have extreme control and anxiety issues, yet try to pass yourself off as laid back.
24. You don’t have a poor memory as you claim, but rather you just don’t give a **** about anyone but yourself so you don’t pay enough attention.
25. You tell me on Monday to come over whenever, that I have carte blanche. Your words.
26. Tuesday you ignore me completely.
27. Wednesday you send a dear Jane letter via e-mail.
28. You are an extremely self-centered person with very low self-esteem.
29. You are single because you want to be, because you really only want to care about other people. You don’t really care…. But you think you want to.
30. If you wanted to change, you would. You choose not to.
31. You think it’s okay to treat people poorly and do not at all live by the Golden Rule.
32. You can only date down, as the strong smart women are simply too complicated for you. We are honest and don’t play games. And you don’t get that.
33. Finally, you are an azzhole because you thought I was upset at your email. You never knew me, as you did not take the time to try.

I took the time to write all this out in the hopes that the next woman you met will be treated better. I know I didn’t deserve the way you treated me, and I don’t want anyone else to have to be subjected to it either. If you’re not willing to change, then just stop dating. Really. You are an azzhole.


Lilth, you are far too sweet and an intelligent person to deal with someone who is sooooooooooo messed up. That kind of person is out there, unfortunately, for great ppl like you to trip across. Remember, you tripped, that's all. Love to ya hon!!!!!!!!!! Wendy:banana: Have a Bananan Split Sugar!!!!!!!

lilith401's photo
Wed 09/03/08 11:16 AM
Thanks, Wendy. Good to see you. flowerforyou

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