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Topic: it sooooo sucks...
7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Fri 09/05/08 06:17 PM
christ, i dated my first high school gf for 4 years and did 3 years of distance and it ended about a month ago. ive gotten a lot of the hurt out of me already, but i still cant completely shake it. it bothers me that i know shes with someone else. that above anything else. Im not a super possessive guy by any means but thats what hurts the most. any advice? i know going around and throwing myself at strangers in hopes of a hookup to get myself over it is stupid and shallow. thats why i havent been out in a while. my ex would tell me "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." i think thats very immature but could it work? im open to any kind of advice that could be offered. thanks for listening to my whining

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Fri 09/05/08 06:19 PM
Whining, in moderation, is good. Helps flush the heart a bit!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 09/05/08 06:19 PM


redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 09/05/08 06:20 PM
getting under someone will definitely not help. I'm going thou the same thing...almost. What I found helps is to just let it all out, just cry. Try not to think bout her, get rid of anything that reminds you of her. Good luck

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Fri 09/05/08 06:21 PM
Two words "Rebound Relationship" One with lots and lots of sex and then you will be ok.........

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Fri 09/05/08 06:21 PM
Wow Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)...

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Fri 09/05/08 06:23 PM
Wow Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... meh, i did say ANY advice. sincere thanks.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Fri 09/05/08 06:23 PM
Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... Uh, yah, that's the spirit!!!

domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Fri 09/05/08 06:24 PM
I am sincere....believe me....it works Wow Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... meh, i did say ANY advice. sincere thanks.

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 09/05/08 06:25 PM
christ, i dated my first high school gf for 4 years and did 3 years of distance and it ended about a month ago. ive gotten a lot of the hurt out of me already, but i still cant completely shake it. it bothers me that i know shes with someone else. that above anything else. Im not a super possessive guy by any means but thats what hurts the most. any advice? i know going around and throwing myself at strangers in hopes of a hookup to get myself over it is stupid and shallow. thats why i havent been out in a while. my ex would tell me "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else." i think thats very immature but could it work? im open to any kind of advice that could be offered. thanks for listening to my whining Everything you are feeling is normal. Its not suppose too feel good. The best thing ttoo do is work on your self. Develope a life that will attract the kind of people that have the same interest. The worst thing you can do too your Ex is too let her know you have moved on too do better things. You may never get over the hurt completely, but as time goes on, and you develope a good life, you will be gald you didnt get stuck with her later in life. Trust me She did you a favor. Good Luck

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Fri 09/05/08 06:27 PM
Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... While his choice of words are his words he is absolutely correct....... So, what he said

domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Fri 09/05/08 06:53 PM
I ROCK.....

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Fri 09/05/08 06:56 PM
Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor?

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 09/05/08 06:58 PM
Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor? symbelmyne is my hero for today.....

domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Fri 09/05/08 07:01 PM
Couples...hell yeah....I don't discriminate....the more...the merrier!! 18, 28 or 80...blind crippled or crazy...if they can't walk...I'll wheel em' in. I'm an equal opportunity "distributor" Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor?

awolf1010 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 7251	Fri 09/05/08 07:05 PM
Couples...hell yeah....I don't discriminate....the more...the merrier!! 18, 28 or 80...blind crippled or crazy...if they can't walk...I'll wheel em' in. I'm an equal opportunity "distributor" Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor? uummmmm!!!! Poooooor doggy!!!!

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 09/05/08 07:10 PM
Couples...hell yeah....I don't discriminate....the more...the merrier!! 18, 28 or 80...blind crippled or crazy...if they can't walk...I'll wheel em' in. I'm an equal opportunity "distributor" Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor? Brian, weren't you banned under your previous profile?

briancarr Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 3310	Fri 09/05/08 07:11 PM
Couples...hell yeah....I don't discriminate....the more...the merrier!! 18, 28 or 80...blind crippled or crazy...if they can't walk...I'll wheel em' in. I'm an equal opportunity "distributor" Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor? Brian, weren't you banned under your previous profile? they wouldnt let me have two accounts. i had too choose one

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Fri 09/05/08 07:14 PM
i dont think dating someone else helps you get over someone else. its not fair to them. ive been there. my ex had dumped his girlfriend of4 yrs 6 months before we started dating. he only dumped her because of her drug use and cheating and he still loved her. yah well we ended up breaking up because he wasnt over her. i think only time can heal all wounds but eh what do i know

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Fri 09/05/08 07:15 PM
Couples...hell yeah....I don't discriminate....the more...the merrier!! 18, 28 or 80...blind crippled or crazy...if they can't walk...I'll wheel em' in. I'm an equal opportunity "distributor" Dude...get over it already (she has). Go rail some random gash....a stiff d1ck in some meaningless clam will clear your head(s)... have you considered a career as a Couples Counselor? Brian, weren't you banned under your previous profile? they wouldnt let me have two accounts. i had too choose one Not you Briancarr.... Domination was Brian6 something and was banned for the same kind of talk that he is displaying now....