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Topic: OK here's the deal...
Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 08:54 PM
I went out with a gal on saturday night, it went well and we have made arrangment for another date. Today another girl asked me out and I said ok....Is that bad? There's nothing seriouos between the first girl and me yet...

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Sun 09/07/08 08:56 PM
i thought you were in love with the first girl. so what happen

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Sun 09/07/08 08:56 PM
why do things have to get complicated - horrible timing - just be honest with both - don't try keeping it secret that you're dating more than one

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 08:56 PM
i thought you were in love with the first girl. so what happen well at this point it's only visual love...know what i mean?

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 09/07/08 08:56 PM
Naw your strait, your just dating,

lgo Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 1824	Sun 09/07/08 08:57 PM
no, just 1 date? I think your ok.

italio69 Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 2247	Sun 09/07/08 08:57 PM
I went out with a gal on saturday night, it went well and we have made arrangment for another date. Today another girl asked me out and I said ok....Is that bad? There's nothing seriouos between the first girl and me yet... nahh i dont think so,if it is just friends going out then its not a problem

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Sun 09/07/08 08:57 PM
Exactly as long as you are honest with both of them. But if things went so well with the first one, then why would you want to add a second one to them mix?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 09/07/08 08:57 PM
Are you complaining

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Sun 09/07/08 08:58 PM
No, as long as there isn't anything serious and you havn't made committments, go4it!

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Sun 09/07/08 08:58 PM
its called playing the field

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Sun 09/07/08 08:58 PM
oh for the love of gods if you have two women then stop complaining. do not ask for advice make me sick

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 08:58 PM
Exactly as long as you are honest with both of them. But if things went so well with the first one, then why would you want to add a second one to them mix? At the time the other asked me out, i didn't know if the first one would go out with me again.....when it rains it pours!

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 08:59 PM
oh for the love of gods if you have two women then stop complaining. do not ask for advice make me sick

TJN Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 6745	Sun 09/07/08 09:01 PM
just be honest with both. I had it happen ot me went out had a second date lined up then didnt hear from her till the day of our second date saying she went out with another guy and wanted to persue him. Nothing I could do I just wish she would have told me sooner. and not keep me guessing.

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Sun 09/07/08 09:02 PM
That depends... If you're the player... Or the played...

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 09:02 PM
That depends... If you're the player... Or the played... Good question!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sun 09/07/08 09:06 PM
Something smells extremely fishy here. I'm not believing this for a minute. At all.

Socratease Joined Wed 07/30/08 Posts: 417	Sun 09/07/08 09:06 PM
If u made arrangements with the first to go out again ,you have to honor that "committment".If it was the first date u went on with the first,and agreed at the same time with the other i would understand..but thats not right to play both sides,thats my opinion

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Sun 09/07/08 09:12 PM
If u made arrangements with the first to go out again ,you have to honor that "committment".If it was the first date u went on with the first,and agreed at the same time with the other i would understand..but thats not right to play both sides,thats my opinion Ya I agreed to a date with the other right after the first date with the first one....before we made arrangements for the sceond date - ok, i'm confused now!