I have came across some threads, and I know that I am not the only one
that has. But the basic main question is this, "If you have someone then
why are you still on this dating site?"

I think that just because you have someone you can still stay and enjoy
time with your friends.

(I know that I am going to get some smart remarks, but they need to
showcase their mentality somewhere.)

I agree Fine sis...I'm still here and so is he..we have friends here we
like to stay in touch with

Whats up fine, I came here for whatever reason, be it find someone or
whatever. But after being here for alittle while, I've met so many very
cool, talented, funny, & loveable people ( I like to call them
characters in the play of life).So regardless if I find someone or not ,
there will always be this JSH family. Because after all we are one big,
happy, disfunctional,sappy, loveable family.

why SHOULDN'T you come back when there's SOO many friends here.. just
mark in your profile that your taken and just here for friends.. as long
as your up front about it.. what diff does it make!!

You tell em sis!!

I think that if you have a partner, You shouldn't have to leave the
site. What about all the good friends you met along the way?? What
happens to those friendships??

I have read some of those topics as well, and, I think to myself, So if
I find the man of my dreams I have to leave here?
I wouldn't leave, because of the friendships I have made here.(unless
everyone said they didn't want me here)

I think that people should have more of an open mind. I am friends with
some of the people who have partners now, and I say, LET THEM STAY!!!! I
wouldn't want to lose their friendships, and I look forward to talking
to them every day.

I am sure that they all feel the same way.

Thank you, Fine, for posting this topic. I am curious to see what
everyone has to say about this.

I agree with Scotty, we have found friends here, and I hope we stay that
way no matter what

Hi scotty, I hope that you are doing well.

That is how I see jsh, family environment.

Too bad we can't pick our family like this one

omg I'm dysfunctional and sappy??? *passes out*

my friends are here and even if I had someone I will still be here

I am a newer member here at jsh but just let me say that several of my
online IRL girlfriends are here and several have partners/husband. Just
because you have a partner doesnt mean your life just
stopped.

I'm still here. So I agree that we should stay.Gosh what would I d
without some of you?

I dont have a boyfriend but even if I did i wouldnt not come on here coz
i did. thats stupid just b/c you have a spouse or what not doesnt mean
you are on here oto find what a piece of cyber ass? I have meet so many
awesome ppl on here, Nothing wrong with not being single and still
coming on jsh.

I consider you all here as part of my family.

Thanks guys, this is what I have been saying, that they have so many
friends, and that someone special, why do they have to leave? Because
Just Say Hi is labeled as a "dating site?"

That is silly

I could NEVER leave this site just because I met somebody. And if I am
with somebody that can not see how much that this site means to me then
maybe they are not the right person for me. This place has become a
family a safe place. And if there would ever be people on the site the
does not like the fact that I am on here and taken (when ever that time
may be) Then Oh well that is there problem not mine so they are the ones
that can deal with it.

AUTUMN!!!!

hey there fine, it is true, I have had a lot of good laughs on here,
read some fantastic poetry, gotten to know some people and have seen
some of our friends go through some tough moments, but they shared it
with us and gave us a chance to see into their lives, maybe help them
out or just say a prayer for them.Also have met someone who makes me
smile quite a bit and is as much as punk as I am.You know who you are
sweety.

That is so true Scotty. We all have a bond, we cry together, laugh
together, support each other, congratulate each other, like family does.

I would not trade this for anything.

dysfunctional and sappy???

I'm starting to get alittle teary eyed here now