Topic: why,, can anyone tell me ?
buttons's photo
Sun 03/25/07 11:47 PM
no pic of me in my bra lmaolaugh laugh

mes61's photo
Sun 03/25/07 11:50 PM
Maybe he wants you to take pictures of him wearing it.

buttons's photo
Sun 03/25/07 11:52 PM
laugh laugh laugh

Sluggo's photo
Sun 03/25/07 11:55 PM
LMMFAO!!!! I just looked closely: I thought that was a bra..lmao!!!

mes61's photo
Sun 03/25/07 11:55 PM
Seriously though, did you ever have relations with Clint Eastwood?

Morena350's photo
Mon 03/26/07 07:49 AM
how did we end up looking for a date online. That is the question
hummmm what has happened to us?

Greyhound's photo
Mon 03/26/07 08:20 AM
noway That is a very good question.laugh

CATBW56's photo
Mon 03/26/07 08:37 AM
my thoughts on this question are, we all lead such busy lives (well most
of us do), jobs, kids, events with kids etc. I know when my son was
alive between work and running with him I didn't have much of social
life..can't say that I have much of one now either. I'm not exactly sure
why we have ended up on dating sites. Whatever happened to friends
hooking you up with somebody they know is single? I know a lot of my
friends are married, have their own families, or they have significant
others with their own things that they do with them. So that kind of
throws you into a group of "one", you're left to kinda go it by
yourself. Since the internet and dating sites are so excessable to most
it's the easy way to find a date.

Droxfo's photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:06 AM
How did we end up looking for dates online?

For me it, my online dating career if it can be called that, started at
the first forum site I joined. It wasnt purposely done. I got along
really well with someone and we decided to meet and from there date.
Then I moved on to chat rooms to pass a little time each day and boom
same thing again and again.


Ive joined a few dating sites, but never really did anything with that.
This is the only one Ive participated in in any way shape or form. And
even here Im not looking persay for a girlfriend online, if it happens
it happens if not no big deal. Im here to put a smile on my face, and
hopefully the face of others as well

no photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:11 AM
Hi Buttons and everyone. Morena, do you think online dating is a cause
of fewer happy marriages?
I can't see that, my thinking is 'too many people marrying for the wrong
reason ie lust instead of love'.
With online dating the field is much broader. But, I live in a small
town and have met, online, and dated a few women within a 50 mile
radius, that I would never have met otherwise.
JSH is a great site...still can't believe it's free....all others will
let you post a profile free but non-paying members cannot send emails.
Not many ladies from my area on here, maybe more and more will fid it.

no photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:16 AM
BTW, Buttons would look great in any clothes, or no clothes at all. imo

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:18 AM
Humm it could be we have found it much easier to deal with others from
our side of the computer screen. We feel safer at times and even boulder
with the questions we ask of each other. We have found what we see as
our own safe littel world. Others can not get too close to us if we
chose not to let them. And for some they can be who they want to and
hide all there fears or issues. Cause you can not see there expressions
in order to figure out if one is lying to you or not. And also due to
people have busy schedules now it is impossible for some to meet others.
So they log in and do the checking while eating or taking a break. More
and more do not want to go to the bars and alot has no clue were is the
best to meet others at. So we leave it up to the inernet, we can log on
and browse through our matches and the others sites and profiles all
along sitting in our relcliner or even in our PJ's lol so ya guess
Sluggo is right we have gottong lazy lmao

daniel48706's photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:21 AM
ROFLMFAO

I guess sluggo and I prove where men's brains really are, cause I had to
take a second look to buttons. All this time I was thinking it was a
bra, especially since you switched to it during joshys towel rage.

sushi's photo
Mon 03/26/07 01:20 PM
My guess is that the best chances of finding a mate are in school, where
you get to know someone a little at a time. By the time we're in our
late 20s we have all sorts of expectations and preconceived notions as
to what our perfect match might. The we start looking and realize that
he/she is just down right hard to find. Certainly not in a bar, dating
services in chat room are a better bet, but still rare. Church--probably
not; blind dates, maybe.

buttons's photo
Mon 03/26/07 01:43 PM
thank u morena... and back to the subject.. i think that also alot of
times too meeting on the internet people arent as shy.. as in person..
and a lot of the real person within comes out in a person on here.
pretty easy to weed out the bad apples that would of been a waste of
time to go meet..for some u can see why they would want to go on a date
with you for.flowerforyou

Americanangel101's photo
Mon 03/26/07 01:48 PM
Personally, I am shy in person and on here not so much.
Plus with my schedule its not possible to meet someone decent unless
they are married.
The only problem I have about online dating is I'm always afraid that I
am going to find the only psyco on the site.sad grumble That's just
my luck though.
Great question though.

buttons's photo
Mon 03/26/07 01:49 PM
meaning there are lots of disrespectful men out there... just as there
is online. At least on here u already know who alot of them are. and u
can choose to toss those type aside..debflowerforyou

slimshady2007's photo
Mon 03/26/07 07:03 PM
Because we,ll lazy and shallow, and want what we want right now.

MikeMontana's photo
Mon 03/26/07 09:30 PM
Morena! Tell me you're joking with you post. I couldnt imagine you
asking such a question(thats serious not a poke).

I would say that we're all "here" because we all realize that most ppl
our age (mid 30s+) are already married. I feel really STUPID asking a
seemingly single Soccer Mom out on a date to find out she's happily
married. At least here, we're among ppl who are more or less looking to
meet other single ppl.

mdl7070's photo
Mon 03/26/07 10:30 PM
cause we dont know where to meet singles in our area. we know they must
be out there but are clueless as to a location.