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Topic: How long do you think......
whispertoascream's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:18 PM
How long do you think it takes to fall for somebody? How long do you
think it takes to know that the feelings that you have for a person are
real?

A couple of questions that my friend asked me. And thought it would be
kind of interesting to find the opinion of Just Say Hi.

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:18 PM
4 minutes, 35 seconds.

whispertoascream's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:19 PM
LOL wow you have it marked down right to the "T" don't you Glenn...lol

burgundybry's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:21 PM
yep, thats the same answer i came up with...good job bg

no photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:22 PM
I think alot of it has to do with the reciprocity ( is that even a word
??.. lmao ) ... but you get it ... if the other person feels EVEN the
slightest in the same way, then IT can be quick ... maybe 5 minutes and
38 seconds ... :)

no photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:30 PM
it actually takes a good 6 months or so to get to know someone, but i
also beleive in "love at first site" too..

:tongue: :tongue: love love

no photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:36 PM
In the right situation, it can be quick as a llama jumping through a
hoop....

burgundybry's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:40 PM
hold on..lemme input all this data into my machine

burgundybry's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:40 PM
ahhhh!!!overload!!

burgundybry's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:42 PM
...and the answer is...."how many licks does it take to get to the
center of a toosie pop???? alright, who wrote this...excuse me, gotta
fire some people..

buttons's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:43 PM
wow u guys are quick!

evangeline's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:45 PM
I think it depends on if there is still a spark when you meet them for
the first time,
how long you have been seeing them or talking to them.
but i too still believe in love at first sight.

mes61's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:54 PM
Varies by goal viability. Obviously goals such as "commitment"
take more time to confirm viability. Equally obvious, goals such as
"control with impunity" take less time to confirm viability.

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 03/26/07 03:57 PM
depends on the situation and the people involved..etc

buttons's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:01 PM
i think how well u communicate is the key.... so it would be different
with one as it would be the next..deb

buttons's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:03 PM
without knowing their insides... and with communication u learn those
things is how u learn one another to fall in love with them... lots of
communicating.. faster medium communication..takes a lil longer
no communication..will probabaly never happen

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:06 PM
O.K., Seriously,
22 minutes, 57 seconds.
But only in March. July is a whole other curve.

daniel48706's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:14 PM
how long does it take to fall for somebody? as fast or slow as it takes
for your copmuter to connect to the persons pic and bio. lol.
Seriously if there is no spark are you likely to step up and write to
someone you dont know unless they wrote first? And if there is a spark
then there is interest.if there is interest then you have fallen.

newguy's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:17 PM
Falling for someone can happen at anytime...anywhere...to anyone.
Knowing if your feelings are genuine toward that person can not be put
into a time frame. I can say this from my own personal experience how I
know mine are real.
I think of her before going to sleep.
I think of her once I wake up.
The sound of her voice gives me butterflys in my stomach.
The smile on her face lifts me up and gives me strength.
When I find myself doing those 4 things? There's no doubt in my mind
that I love that lady.

shenadra's photo
Mon 03/26/07 04:36 PM
Aww, Newguy. That is so sweet. I know someone else who does those things
too. :wink:

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