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Topic: The EYES have it.
Frankplus1 Joined Sun 09/21/08 Posts: 136	Sat 10/04/08 05:26 PM
I'm definately not an expert when it comes to relationships.I've been married 3 times.My 1st wife was definately NOT ready for a real commitment,she was more ready to be commited(dumber than a bag of hammers),screwed everybody BUT me.My second was money hungry,did'nt last long.I asked her where the money was going,she threw me out.My 3rd was my SOULMATE,she had the most beautiful hands.But what really made me fall in love with her was her eyes.They had TRUTH in them.We dated 3 yrs before we decided to get married.Our 12th aniversary was Sept 14th,she unexpectedly passed away 6 weeks ago.She got a headache,layed down and died of a massive stroke to her brain.She was never sick a day we were together.It devistated me,the reason I'm here is,after her death I realized my ONLY TRUE friend was gone.My phone has rang 4 times in 6 weeks and 1 of them was a wrong number.During our life together she was my BEST FRIEND,I never needed anyone else.I never wanted anyone else.I miss her,especially her EYES.It was her eyes that told me the answers to all the questions my heart could ask.My stepdad told me once,"She REALLY Loves you,I can see it in her eyes".And you really could.I never had a second thought about her feelings for me.For almost 12 years I was the happiest man on this earth and it was all because her EYES told me how loved I was.I guess the moral of this story is,"Read their eyes,they'll tell you everything."

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Sat 10/04/08 05:28 PM
So sorry for your loss.

Twitch Joined Thu 09/27/07 Posts: 6199	Sat 10/04/08 05:28 PM
So sorry for your loss The best to you

laughsandgiggles Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 3560	Sat 10/04/08 05:29 PM
I am truly sorry for your loss- and yes that is a very true statement- the window to the soul is in the eyes. God bless you and give you strength.

me2g Joined Fri 02/08/08 Posts: 1285	Sat 10/04/08 05:30 PM
God Bless. Im sure you will soon find you have many friends here.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 10/04/08 05:30 PM Edited by ArtGurl on Sat 10/04/08 05:31 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories bring you some comfort. Thank you for sharing what you've learned... I agree... the eyes can tell it all ...

Frankplus1 Joined Sun 09/21/08 Posts: 136	Sat 10/04/08 05:31 PM
I am truly sorry for your loss- and yes that is a very true statement- the window to the soul is in the eyes. God bless you and give you strength. Thank You so Much

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Sat 10/04/08 05:42 PM
What a beautiful testimonial to the love that you both shared...I am deeply sorry for your loss and may God hold you in his arms

breathless1 Joined Tue 09/23/08 Posts: 490	Sat 10/04/08 05:43 PM
My sincerest condolences to you, Frank. I hope you shall find peace through your grief, and comfort through your friends and family. I feel confident you will again be blessed with true love in your lifetime. Try to remember: “The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief - But the pain of grief Is only a shadow When compared with the pain Of never risking love.”

Frankplus1 Joined Sun 09/21/08 Posts: 136	Sat 10/04/08 05:51 PM
My sincerest condolences to you, Frank. I hope you shall find peace through your grief, and comfort through your friends and family. I feel confident you will again be blessed with true love in your lifetime. Try to remember: “The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief - But the pain of grief Is only a shadow When compared with the pain Of never risking love.” Thank You,your very kind...All of you are.The main reason I came to mingle is I don't have any family myself,I have some inlaws who've been kind.But besides my 7yr old,I am very ALONE in the world.So I'm adopting all of you kind people as my new family....Frank

Amagurl Joined Tue 08/19/08 Posts: 752	Sat 10/04/08 06:36 PM
I totally agree about the eyes telling all. I'm sorry to hear about your loss.