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Topic: Men & Women Different "wants..needs..
meanmarthajean's photo
Wed 10/15/08 11:58 AM
Going through changes and relationships I need to ask...what are people really looking for? Is there or can there be happiness again with another? Is the reality of it all just sometimes to much to deal with? Is disappointment here for evermore?

Etrain's photo
Wed 10/15/08 12:24 PM
1. Sex???
2. No
3. Yes
4. Yes
smokin smokin smokin

oldsage's photo
Wed 10/15/08 12:41 PM
Looking for depends on the person.

Happiness with one is different with another.

Reality is always hard to deal with.

Nothing is for evermore, change is the biggest constant I know of.

Greyhound's photo
Wed 10/15/08 02:36 PM

Looking for depends on the person.

Happiness with one is different with another.

Reality is always hard to deal with.

Nothing is for evermore, change is the biggest constant I know of.

Am I thinking about the same 'Depends' as what you're taking about?


I'm I thinking about the same 'Depends' as what you're talking about?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Greyhound's photo
Wed 10/15/08 02:36 PM
blushing

no photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:12 PM
I think your depends is different than Sage's, Grey. rofl

Greyhound's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:29 PM
Hey music.... yeah I know. I'm in one of those crazy mood today.laugh

oldsage's photo
Wed 10/15/08 04:57 PM
TODAY???????????????
rofl rofl

Greyhound's photo
Wed 10/15/08 05:02 PM
:banana: EVERYDAY :banana:

carold's photo
Wed 10/15/08 05:38 PM
Well right now I'm wondering about the happiness again issue with another person. After being widowed and then starting to date this year. Can you find honesty? I must say so far it has been disappointing.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Wed 10/15/08 07:22 PM
A man that can fix me a great Dagwood sandwitch.
Or some great as kicking, BBQ!I LV Fish Boys!
Of course zee Koolaidwoman ahhhhhhh!huh,,,:heart:

KoolAidWoman's photo
Wed 10/15/08 07:24 PM

1. Sex???
2. No
3. Yes
4. Yes
smokin smokin smokin
Dang E-you dog you Koolaidbigsmile

oldsage's photo
Thu 10/16/08 03:03 PM

Well right now I'm wondering about the happiness again issue with another person. After being widowed and then starting to date this year. Can you find honesty? I must say so far it has been disappointing.


Happiness; Yes you can find it.

It will prob. be different than your other marriage

Honesty; Yes, just need to look hard, ask DIRECT questions, make sure the questions are answered in depth & take the time to be careful.

Dating at this age can be very disappointing.

no photo
Thu 10/16/08 03:13 PM
i don't know that my needs are a lot different than those of my male friends. Just not sure I can find what I'm looking for in one person.

carold's photo
Thu 10/16/08 09:34 PM


Well right now I'm wondering about the happiness again issue with another person. After being widowed and then starting to date this year. Can you find honesty? I must say so far it has been disappointing.


Happiness; Yes you can find it.

It will prob. be different than your other marriage

Honesty; Yes, just need to look hard, ask DIRECT questions, make sure the questions are answered in depth & take the time to be careful.

Dating at this age can be very disappointing.
Yeppers smiles :)

RainbowTrout's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:08 PM
I find that I desire leaving my comfort zone less. I may be maturing because when I was younger it didn't matter. Either that or I am getting cantankerous. One person I know keeps saying, "Men!" which I am replying "Women!" We seem to agree on that.laugh

galendgirl's photo
Thu 10/16/08 10:35 PM

I find that I desire leaving my comfort zone less. I may be maturing because when I was younger it didn't matter. Either that or I am getting cantankerous. One person I know keeps saying, "Men!" which I am replying "Women!" We seem to agree on that.laugh


I'm finding I leave my comfort zone MORE...
Just entering a period of life where I have more freedom to do "whatever" without impacting someone else and discovering that (reasonably) impulsive and unexpected or different (than my life's norm) behaviors are okay and terrific! Kinda scares my friends but it's probably good to shake up their paradigms too - LOL!

oldsage's photo
Fri 10/17/08 08:27 AM
Always enjoy watching a paradigm SHAKE.
pitchfork flowers flowers :thumbsup: :angel:

no photo
Fri 10/17/08 11:50 AM
:laughing: :banana: scared :banana:

polypeasant's photo
Fri 10/17/08 01:59 PM
Sheesh...make me get out my dictionary to look up big words.

All these decades and I've never been able to work paradigm into my conversationshocked slaphead

Will I know when mine is being shook? Fireworks and the Earth moving...maybe thats something elsepitchfork

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