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Topic: Not sure what to do
raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 07:01 AM
Okay, so I have a date today. I know the place but not the time. And he hasn't said anything to me in two days! I don't know what's going on. And this is someone outside of mingle. Someone that I know in person. He's not one to cancel a date. Especially not by just not talking. I don't know if something happened to his cell phone or what. Advice on what to do please?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/01/08 07:04 AM
If your date is today and you still don't have a time then you don't have a date. If I hadn't heard anything from the guy I would just assume it wasn't happening. And, if he does call you should tell him you'll have to reschedule as you made other plans after not hearing from him. It's just rude to make someone wait until the day of to firm up plans.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Sat 11/01/08 07:06 AM
confirmation is necessary.

raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 07:10 AM
Well, he's been sick so I've been worried. But the only reason why we had not set a time was because I wasn't sure what time my ride would be up and he wasn't sure when his would either (we don't drive and now both live in different towns)

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/01/08 07:12 AM
Call him?

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Sat 11/01/08 07:12 AM
Disregard....I see you already did. Nothing you can do now.

raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 07:20 AM
this sucks =/ lol thanks for advice though..

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 11/01/08 07:49 AM
Weird. I mean, sounds like no date is going to happen. I mean, if he is not one to cancel, then other than alien abduction, their really isn't any excuse to not call you or contact you somehow and sure up plans. Just my thoughts.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Sat 11/01/08 07:51 AM
Call him? that was my obvious thought too

raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 08:40 AM
Call him? that was my obvious thought too i did but no answer

raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 08:42 AM
Weird. I mean, sounds like no date is going to happen. I mean, if he is not one to cancel, then other than alien abduction, their really isn't any excuse to not call you or contact you somehow and sure up plans. Just my thoughts. he could be out of minutes on his phone though. but he knows other ways to get a hold of me. guess no date for me

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/01/08 08:47 AM
Sorry to hear it, but things do come up in life that are unavoidable. I would talk to him before letting yourself draw any conclusions or getting too upset.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Sat 11/01/08 08:51 AM
I remember, once upon a time, when you were asked out for a date, not only did the fellow tell you what time, but usually it meant he'd show up at your house to pick you up...guess times are different, when did women start settling for soooo much less...?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 11/01/08 08:55 AM
When God invented the XBOX and Playstation, man put woman second.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/01/08 08:57 AM
I remember, once upon a time, when you were asked out for a date, not only did the fellow tell you what time, but usually it meant he'd show up at your house to pick you up...guess times are different, when did women start settling for soooo much less...? I still like to be picked up for a date...if I know the man. Someone you are meeting for the first time, who you met online should probably not know your address until you're more familiar with them. Safety first.

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sat 11/01/08 09:01 AM
I remember, once upon a time, when you were asked out for a date, not only did the fellow tell you what time, but usually it meant he'd show up at your house to pick you up...guess times are different, when did women start settling for soooo much less...? I still like to be picked up for a date...if I know the man. Someone you are meeting for the first time, who you met online should probably not know your address until you're more familiar with them. Safety first. Exactly.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sat 11/01/08 09:06 AM
I remember, once upon a time, when you were asked out for a date, not only did the fellow tell you what time, but usually it meant he'd show up at your house to pick you up...guess times are different, when did women start settling for soooo much less...? I still like to be picked up for a date...if I know the man. Someone you are meeting for the first time, who you met online should probably not know your address until you're more familiar with them. Safety first. Exactly. Yup, and I'm really looking forward to the day I can tell my sweetie my REAL NAME too. Just kidding honey!

raynechaotic Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 79	Sat 11/01/08 09:08 AM
did nobody read that neither of us drive? lol. jk. but yeah that indeed is the ideal date but unfortunately times change

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 11/01/08 09:09 AM
did nobody read that neither of us drive? lol. jk. but yeah that indeed is the ideal date but unfortunately times change Well, getting around town via the Jetpack just costs too much these days, and it is still risky to do.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 11/01/08 09:11 AM
Assume there is no date. He has your number. Go on with your day as usual and if it happens be pleasantly surprized. If not......then you buy a ken doll and dip it in hot wax and then chop off its arms and legs!!!