Topic: How Do You Know....
Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:24 PM
I have been married and divorced 3 times LOL I am well trained ..... ummm I mean versed in what it takes to show your love and live it not just say it and be happy. It is a two way street and your actions show just as much as his

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:29 PM
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When he takes out the trash without being asked. when he turns off the television so he can go shopping with you, when he helps with the house work, when he puts the toilet seat down, when he cancels his plans to go with your plans, when he accepts the children you have from a previous relationship as his own, when he writes poetry to you (no matter how bad and cheesey) when he continues to suprise you even after a year in the relationship, when he looks you in the eye with tears in his own and says you have nade him the happiest man in the world, when he gives you the last bit of chocolate, when he cooks for you, when he holds you and kisses you passionately and does not make love to you when he calls you everyday on his lunch break, when he understands why you are crying for no reason and comforts you,
when he shows his love to you not just say the words. Anyone can say the words but it is in his actions not his words when you can tell a man loves you. Ya but, how long does that last?????????

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:34 PM
How long depends on the two people. My grandparents were married for 78 years. I personally do not think the world today makes it easy for people to stay together for that long.
Simplify your life and stop sweating the small things and take a REAL truthful inventory on what is truely improtant in life

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:36 PM

A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?
...nope. None.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:38 PM
Anything he does to let you know he's thinking of you, considering your feelings, giving you support where you may need it and is appreciative of the support you offer him too.

Those things say it all as far as I'm concerned. Hearing it once in a while is always nice too...but these are the main things that make you FEEL that love every day. flowerforyou

sweethouston713's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:47 PM

The way you know, is you never have to 'wonder' if he is -

Someone who truly loves you, it's obvious by just the way they look at you, and the way they treat you all the time (not just part of it).


I think someone mentioned in their post that some people play mind-games, something like that..., so it can be hard to tell -- If a person does such things, it's the furthest thing from "love".

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/01/08 09:51 PM

A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


When he asks you....nicely...to sign a pre-nup.bigsmile

usernamefayou's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:00 PM
After he realizes he's not going to live for forever and abandons all hope of anything

sexybabyforu's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:01 PM
i think u knw if a guy in love with u by thelook.there is a look others see it before u do.that omg shes wonderful.its too me not a saying but a look or gesture...

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:05 PM

i think u knw if a guy in love with u by thelook.there is a look others see it before u do.that omg shes wonderful.its too me not a saying but a look or gesture...


Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot

Goofball73's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:07 PM

i think u knw if a guy in love with u by thelook.there is a look others see it before u do.that omg shes wonderful.its too me not a saying but a look or gesture...



offtopic I wanna edit your post and put the right punctuation marks where they belong.:laughing: :laughing:

On topic....I do understand what you are saying. And "that look".....it does exist.

Socratease's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:12 PM
By the way he treats and talk to you over a long period of time,you wont know really until they show how much crud they are putting up with, of differences or etc..if they are nice for a short time means a booty call,if they are nice and understanding far after ,thats love

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:27 PM

By the way he treats and talk to you over a long period of time,you wont know really until they show how much crud they are putting up with, of differences or etc..if they are nice for a short time means a booty call,if they are nice and understanding far after ,thats love


well put and cool name

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:37 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sat 11/01/08 10:38 PM
by the way he stalks you and threatens to kill himself if you leave him

Haloheldbyhorns's photo
Sat 11/01/08 10:39 PM

by the way he stalks you and threatens to kill himself if you leave him
laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 11/02/08 05:24 AM

Yes others always see it before you do the way a man looks at a woman when he thinks no one else is noticing can tell alot


Sigh......that only happens in fairy tales, right?

adirtygirl's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:04 AM
Edited by adirtygirl on Sun 11/02/08 08:06 AM

A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?


Thats easy...They tell you..Come on we know "MEN DON'T LIE!!!!..They are sincere and say what they feel. They call when they say they will, they dont cheatslaphead slaphead slaphead

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:06 AM



No idea!
Unfortunately there are a few guys out there that have practiced enough to mislead women...
Those are the pricks that have ruined it for everyone else.

I can say, when my husband would look at me, I felt his love. That man was head over heels inlove with me. It would hurt his heart to touch me because he knew just how much damage I could do to him...little did he know, he had me the same.


That's so cool! I soooo want that! :smile:


I know it!
Sad thing is, once you've had it, you spend the rest of your life hoping to get it againbrokenheart



agreed

no photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:07 AM
Edited by GeniuSxBoY on Sun 11/02/08 08:07 AM

A friend and I were talking about this earlier today...how do you know if a guy is really in love with you? Any thoughts?




when he proposes? :banana:

no photo
Sun 11/02/08 08:14 AM
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