...if you knew about some messed up crap that your 2 married friends were doing behind each other's backs?
They've both cheated on each other. Neither one of them knows that the other one has also cheated.

I don't even know if I have a right to say anything at all. I've just been staying out of it. It's sad to me because the 3 of us used to be very close friends. Ever since this crap started, though, I've been putting more distance between me & them. Mostly,I guess, because I'm afraid I'll blurt something out or, even worse, discover more about them that I don't want to know. (like finding out that she went off her pill, without telling him, to get pregnant...after he'd said he wanted to wait a couple years before they had kids.)

Would it be worth it to talk to them? Or should I just continue to keep my mouth shut?

I think I'd let them go and find new friends. ASAP.

yea
they sound too far gone to try to 'fix'

Sounds like they deserve each other. I would stay out of it.

it is best to say nothing..other wise you will eventually be caught in the middle...jmo

My question is,

how do you know these things??,

stay the hell out of that, and pretend you never knew. Otherwise you might as well paint a target on your head.

zip your lip !
your better off in the end !

My son is having the same problem with friends of his, each has confided in him...sucks...and as far as I'm concerned...neither of them are much of a friend just because of the fact that they put you in the middle of something like this...let them find out for themselves and keep your distance...if you get in the middle it will all somehow fall back on you

a point to ponder

if they would do this to each other

what would they do to someone else


just a thought

but hey

what do i know

they r both cheating seems like it's working out for them not my cup of tea but i'd stay out of it

In the wrong place at the wrong time, I guess. With her, I noticed a strange man leaving their apt several times while I was on my way in to visit her. (hubby was at work during those times) A couple of those times, she smelled like sex and looked nervous. It was kinda obvious. With her going off the pill, she told me about it. Then laughed about how she was gonna get her way and he could just deal with it. (wth?!)

With him, he propositioned me once when she ran to the store for something.(we were playing cards that night) Of course I said no,lol. He has a lot of single, female friends. I could be wrong, but I don't think I was the first one he asked to have sex with on the side.

Thanks for the advice so far, everyone. I appreciate the input! Keep it coming.

Me personally, I'd out them both. They already got you involved, so why not just tell what's going on, and let them fight it out. And if they deny and put it all on you, you still aren't losing out, because you've already stated you're trying to distance yourself from them anyway. JMHO

Best thing for you to do is just stay out of it. In the long run you will be the bad guy if you open your mouth

See no evil hear no evil speak no evil

Close friend, I would say something. I would be pissed if my friend new something and said nothing to me.

I run from drama

Yeah, I think you need to completely distance yourself from them and stay out of it. I don't see it ending well if you get in the middle of it.

get out the way...you dont need their weight on your mind. just fall off the face of the earth and go MIA for a long period of time.