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Topic: really needing to let this out
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Mon 11/17/08 02:50 PM
So I am not trying to be all self involved, but it IS my birthday and it seems that the ones who like to throw 'I love you' in my face have COMPLETELY crapped on me. Let's see, all year long I have done everything I could to help you out, I have done almost EVERYTHING I have ever been asked. I have been supportive, I have given space, I have been caring and NOT ONE FRIGGING WELL WISH. And this goes to the current 'interest' and my ENTIRE family. I am so pissed I dont know if I want to break something or cry! Does this mean that none of them even care? I mean they KNOW it is today and not even a phone call or a flippin TEXT! When they want something or they want me to make them feel better, it is all but my battery dying in mid call. I am just so tired of having and letting people into my heart that stomp all over it. I am officially back in my shell and thanks to those who have shown me why I probably shouldn't have come out in the first place.

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Mon 11/17/08 02:53 PM
Im sorry that they all are perhaps self absorbed or maybe gonna surprise you- you never know

but for whatever its worth- I hope you have a Happy Birthday!!!flowers

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Mon 11/17/08 02:57 PM


68chevy's photo
Mon 11/17/08 02:57 PM
I am sorry.....I hope this helps.
Happy Birthday...flowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 03:01 PM
Don't go back into the shell. You don't belong there.flowers

Happy Birthday!!!!!!!

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Mon 11/17/08 03:02 PM
I sure do hope someone in your family wish you a Happy Birthday. That would not be right if they didn't. All in all...Happy Birthday to you.

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Mon 11/17/08 03:02 PM
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flowers flowers HAPPY BIRTHDAY! flowers flowers
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Mon 11/17/08 03:03 PM
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
happy birthday!!!!!!!
:banana:

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Mon 11/17/08 03:05 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!


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Mon 11/17/08 03:05 PM
Edited by beachbum069 on Mon 11/17/08 03:06 PM
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flowerforyou bigsmile HAPPY BIRTHDAYbigsmile flowerforyou
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Mon 11/17/08 03:07 PM
AAAHH..so sorry,if i could i would give you a big birthday hug....i have a big family and i know the feeling....celebrate you..eat icecreamflowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 03:07 PM
flowerforyou HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY flowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 03:09 PM
Edited by maxxximus007 on Mon 11/17/08 03:10 PM

So I am not trying to be all self involved, but it IS my birthday and it seems that the ones who like to throw 'I love you' in my face have COMPLETELY crapped on me. Let's see, all year long I have done everything I could to help you out, I have done almost EVERYTHING I have ever been asked. I have been supportive, I have given space, I have been caring and NOT ONE FRIGGING WELL WISH. And this goes to the current 'interest' and my ENTIRE family. I am so pissed I dont know if I want to break something or cry! Does this mean that none of them even care? I mean they KNOW it is today and not even a phone call or a flippin TEXT! When they want something or they want me to make them feel better, it is all but my battery dying in mid call. I am just so tired of having and letting people into my heart that stomp all over it. I am officially back in my shell and thanks to those who have shown me why I probably shouldn't have come out in the first place.
maybe they might surprise you, i hope they do

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Mon 11/17/08 03:12 PM
sorry to hear i know how you feel one birthday not one of my 3 children remembered nor my mother no one at all... what a blow that is!!! then around the same yr because i didnt have thanksgiving and christmas at my house for the first time in ohhhh 18 yrs! i did not get invited to one place and no one even asked if i was doing anything... kids were at dads that holiday and i spent it alone no call or nothing... that was 6 yrs ago.. since then ive been invited 2 times somewhere else.. and i had it at mine maybe 10 times... funny how when you are all worn out from giving so much and no one helped me even clean up.. that you notice how much you were appreciated by all the invites you recieve in return.. just remember this..... you are a good person and some day you will find someone to appreciate youflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

happy birthday to u!flowers

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Mon 11/17/08 03:15 PM
no hun ,maybe there just a tad selfish..like my family & such,well most anyways..there the kind that give things that they like & say that I should like it,if I dont then they get hurt,and say its the thought that counts,well there was no thought of me in it..so on & so for it goes & goes.Seems endless,I want to Cry, Scream,Whatever on a daily basis..rant sad

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Mon 11/17/08 03:16 PM
I hope that someone you care for will wish you a Happy Birthday.

God gives us two families, the one we're born into and the one given to us along life's journey. Maybe it's time you stepped out into your own life's journey and make your NEW family of those who care for you because you ARE, not for what you do for them.

Happy Birthday!!!!flowers flowers flowers

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Mon 11/17/08 03:17 PM
Happy Birthday! I feel really badly for you. My daughter just got off of the phone with her 16 year old gf, who lives alone with her granddad, and he forgot her birthday today. Must be going around. But I am sure the Mingle family will try to make it up to you.

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Mon 11/17/08 03:17 PM
flowerforyou HAPPY BIRTHDAY..HOPE YOUR HAVING A GOOD OR ATLEAST A BETTER ONE NOW..WE LOVEW YAflowerforyou

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Mon 11/17/08 03:18 PM
I wish you the best birthday EVER!!!! flowerforyou flowerforyou

However, I must say, and please do not take this the "wrong" way *ducks behind the couch*....

You may just want to look inside yourself as to why you do all these nice things for others. Are you honestly coming from a place of ingenuity with your spirit, or do you have an emotional agenda for something in return?

I'm just saying, if you had posted that no one in your direct life was recognizing your birthday yet and you were hurt...albeit all you supposedly have done for them, I likely wouldn't point this out to you is all. flowerforyou

Now, let's party in your honor because you deserve it! :banana: :banana:

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Mon 11/17/08 03:20 PM
Edited by yogabug on Mon 11/17/08 03:24 PM
Maybe just maybe that's what they want you to do, for you to go back into your shell that is? Maybe they don't like the new you? Family and friends have a way of trying to keep you from growing sometimes. Do Not give them your power to make good choices for yourself. There are taker's and there are giver's, you are a giver and taker's love giver's. Emotional vampires they can be, sucking vital life force so long as you let em. Wisdom comes from recognizing them early on and protecting your self from being drained. Learning to say no, another great lesson. Don't be afraid of letting them know how hurt you were that they didn't recognize your day of birth and that it puts into question how strong your relationship really is.
Give yourself a gift and recognize yourself and keep getting stronger and wiser. Attract like minded individuals to yourself and let the ones who are special to you worth keeping even after they forgot about you that you will give them the opportunity to make up for it. Forgiveness, ohh my, that one is my hardest lesson, how I like to hold a grudge.

Happy Birthday all the best for your new year, make it what you will.

Namaste
flowerforyou

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