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yeah. I feel the same way. however' is it possible to wait too long? ive been emailing with this one girl who seems nice and everything bu iy is dificult to judge when i would be ready to ask if we should meet. ANY SUGGESTIONS?
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I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before.
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<<<<winx>>>> I am I going slow enough?????  I don't know how fast you're going in that car. 
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Most people find me repulsive because I smell like a dog.
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Anxiety and desperation are such turn-offs (do they still use that term?). I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or have that done to me so let's confess our uglies before we meet and save time.
Wait and learn whether it's someone you can appreciate, unless you've a simple mutual understanding beforehand. I like to get my biases, prejudices, and preferences out first. Do you rush out and buy a ticket to a concert for entertainers you've never even heard of? JMO |
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Desperation is indeed a smelly cologne.
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Move at your pace. If you change that for someone now, you'll be forever changing as the relationship forges ahead. You deserve comfort and Mr Right will want that for you. Good to see that there are people who understand  . Not that I expect people in the forums not to understand.. cause these kinds of emails and people aren't ones posting in the forums. TOTALLY You deserve the good stuff. There isn't a girl in this forum not worth waiting for in my experience. That's cause the ones with personalities have nothing to hide by hanging around in here. I just get frustrated, I guess. There are some pretty awesome people here in the forums. None of them live close by though. And the ones who live close by, I have no desire to meet. |
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Anyway... Enough said!
I'm phycologicaly scarred over this BS! nomore meetings after 5 mins of chat! If I die alone! so be it! I'll think of myself as a reformed virgin! or can I do that? 
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<<<<winx>>>> I am I going slow enough????? I don't know how fast you're going in that car. Too fast, look close----No seatbeat 
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Move at your pace. If you change that for someone now, you'll be forever changing as the relationship forges ahead. You deserve comfort and Mr Right will want that for you. Good to see that there are people who understand . Not that I expect people in the forums not to understand.. cause these kinds of emails and people aren't ones posting in the forums. TOTALLY You deserve the good stuff. There isn't a girl in this forum not worth waiting for in my experience. That's cause the ones with personalities have nothing to hide by hanging around in here. I just get frustrated, I guess. There are some pretty awesome people here in the forums. None of them live close by though. And the ones who live close by, I have no desire to meet. We all have that problem. I call it the "Lex Effect." All the keepers are 487,000 miles away. |
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<<<<winx>>>> I am I going slow enough????? I don't know how fast you're going in that car. Too fast, look close----No seatbeat You're such a risk taker!! |
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You think that's awesome... I can do it with no car!
<-------------- mad skillz |
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You think that's awesome... I can do it with no car! <-------------- mad skillz
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I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before. 
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I've also been known to defy the laws of gravity on occasion. The fall isn't so bad, it's the sudden stop at the end that's painful.
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Move at your pace. If you change that for someone now, you'll be forever changing as the relationship forges ahead. You deserve comfort and Mr Right will want that for you. Good to see that there are people who understand . Not that I expect people in the forums not to understand.. cause these kinds of emails and people aren't ones posting in the forums. TOTALLY You deserve the good stuff. There isn't a girl in this forum not worth waiting for in my experience. That's cause the ones with personalities have nothing to hide by hanging around in here. I just get frustrated, I guess. There are some pretty awesome people here in the forums. None of them live close by though. And the ones who live close by, I have no desire to meet. We all have that problem. I call it the "Lex Effect." All the keepers are 487,000 miles away. Yep Im having that problem now. Met a nice man but he's kind of far away. Yet we seem to be very compatible. Right now its almost becoming like we are cyber "mates" but I dont know how long that will be mutually satisfying if you catch my drift. 
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Edited by
michiganman3
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Tue 11/18/08 09:06 AM
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<<<<winx>>>> I am I going slow enough????? I don't know how fast you're going in that car. Too fast, look close----No seatbeat You're such a risk taker!! Dangerous, out of control, reckless and wreckless.
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Edited by
Winx
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Tue 11/18/08 09:06 AM
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I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before. Nooo...Rainbow Trout. Do NOT mention sex in the first IM or email.  Don't even mention it in the 2nd or 3rd email!! It has nothing to do with maturity. It's respectful. Doing so makes the woman think that you are only after one thing. |
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<<<<winx>>>> I am I going slow enough????? I don't know how fast you're going in that car. Too fast, look close----No seatbeat You're such a risk taker!! Dangerous, out of control, reckless and wreckless. You're such a wild man.
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Move at your pace. If you change that for someone now, you'll be forever changing as the relationship forges ahead. You deserve comfort and Mr Right will want that for you. Good to see that there are people who understand . Not that I expect people in the forums not to understand.. cause these kinds of emails and people aren't ones posting in the forums. TOTALLY You deserve the good stuff. There isn't a girl in this forum not worth waiting for in my experience. That's cause the ones with personalities have nothing to hide by hanging around in here. I just get frustrated, I guess. There are some pretty awesome people here in the forums. None of them live close by though. And the ones who live close by, I have no desire to meet. We all have that problem. I call it the "Lex Effect." All the keepers are 487,000 miles away. Oh well. At least I've made some friends here. |
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