Topic: If you're meeting local people
wiley's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:07 AM
So much for being up front and honest. :tongue:

Winx's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:08 AM

I've also been known to defy the laws of gravity on occasion. The fall isn't so bad, it's the sudden stop at the end that's painful.


Ouch.

wiley's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:08 AM
Edited by wiley on Tue 11/18/08 09:09 AM


I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before.


Nooo...Rainbow Trout.

Do NOT mention sex in the first IM or email. noway scared
Don't even mention it in the 2nd or 3rd email!!

It has nothing to do with maturity. It's respectful. Doing so makes the woman think that you are only after one thing.

flowerforyou





Don't listen. I'm all for thinning out the herd. More for me. laugh

Krimsa's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:09 AM


I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before.


Nooo...Rainbow Trout.

Do NOT mention sex in the first IM or email. noway scared
Don't even mention it in the 2nd or 3rd email!!

It has nothing to do with maturity. It's respectful. Doing so makes the woman think that you are only after one thing.

flowerforyou





I agree with this advice. I think I know what he is trying to convey but to mention sex right away is a no no and I will tell you why.

Because women are approached over an over and over again by men who desire nothing more than to masturbate to their photos.

You will simply be thrown into that heap and avoided like the plague.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:10 AM


I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before.


Nooo...Rainbow Trout.

Do NOT mention sex in the first IM or email. noway scared
Don't even mention it in the 2nd or 3rd email!!

It has nothing to do with maturity. It's respectful. Doing so makes the woman think that you are only after one thing.

flowerforyou





It isn't that women can't handle the word sex. Or talking about it. It's more than most men don't have any idea when to bring it up. First email/conversation is probably not the best time.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:10 AM



I have found that if the two of you choose to meet locally it is best to be the same person you are always are around your friends. Make sure to mention sex in the first instant message or email. That way you will find if she is mature or not. Mature women can handle that word and it doesn't scare them off. They probably have had sex before.


Nooo...Rainbow Trout.

Do NOT mention sex in the first IM or email. noway scared
Don't even mention it in the 2nd or 3rd email!!

It has nothing to do with maturity. It's respectful. Doing so makes the woman think that you are only after one thing.

flowerforyou





I agree with this advice. I think I know what he is trying to convey but to mention sex right away is a no no and I will tell you why.

Because women are approached over an over and over again by men who desire nothing more than to masturbate to their photos.

You will simply be thrown into that heap and avoided like the plague.


Yup. Pretty much.

oldsage's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:11 AM
I try to meet those close to me, just for conversation. Many are younger & don't chose to have coffee. I offered & that is all I can do.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:13 AM

I try to meet those close to me, just for conversation. Many are younger & don't chose to have coffee. I offered & that is all I can do.


Yes, but how long do you wait before asking to meet?

wiley's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:13 AM
Just make sure you put in the headline "Will you touch my pee-pee?" Women like stuff like that. laugh

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:14 AM

Just make sure you put in the headline "Will you touch my pee-pee?" Women like stuff like that. laugh


That's the way to go, for sure. :wink:

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:17 AM
Usally if us guys get an email with that word we are ask to pay or to those wonderful questionable website. =/

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:17 AM

Usally if us guys get an email with that word we are ask to pay or to those wonderful questionable website. =/


huh

wiley's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:18 AM
I'm convinced some guys have never even spoken to a woman without giving out their credit card number first.

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:18 AM
It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake.

no photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:19 AM

It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake.


So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake?

Krimsa's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:19 AM

I'm convinced some guys have never even spoken to a woman without giving out their credit card number first.


I will generally demand a major credit card before a first date. laugh :wink:

wiley's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:20 AM


I'm convinced some guys have never even spoken to a woman without giving out their credit card number first.


I will generally demand a major credit card before a first date. laugh :wink:


Prepaid is the way to go these days. laugh

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:21 AM


It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake.


So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake?


Exactly.

lilith401's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:23 AM



It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake.


So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake?


Exactly.


WTH IS WRONG WITH YOU?

Krimsa's photo
Tue 11/18/08 09:23 AM
Edited by Krimsa on Tue 11/18/08 09:24 AM



It helped me. I was being myself and talked her just like any of my friends. Your right. I got a response back like I was a pervert. It showed me right there that she was fake.


So, a woman who isn't into talking about sex with you from the start is fake?


Exactly.


What the fuk?

laugh laugh

You look like Bill Clinton by the way.