Topic: girls, need your help
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Wed 11/19/08 01:48 AM

ok, girls say they want a caring, understanding guy, but
what Iam sensing is that this is still just like high-school.

even at 40+, us guys still want the hot girls, and the girls
really dont care how a guy acts as long as they have money.


after 30 years, boys & girls havent changed at all, at our core
we r still the same ?



am i right ?????



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Wed 11/19/08 01:49 AM
No

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Wed 11/19/08 01:51 AM
Edited by OneMoreTimeAround on Wed 11/19/08 02:11 AM
I don't think so. Maybe from your point of view. I've been out of high school a long time, I'd hope most of us have grown out of that mentality.

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Wed 11/19/08 02:13 AM
Well...I would say some yes.... I've seen a couple that would JUST talk about money, financial state, how much they make a year and one even mentioned what she was going to do with her money when her father died....talk about a selfish, rude and careless act!!! They are out there and I've met a couple. This girl that said this I met on Mingle and was 28 years old. I won't say any names though....can't do that. But, I will say, I'm 32 years old and am looking for the heart. I do have to be attracted to her but, that's number two.... But, to a point, you ARE correct.....

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Wed 11/19/08 02:42 AM
Edited by papersmile on Wed 11/19/08 02:43 AM


ok, girls say they want a caring, understanding guy, but
what Iam sensing is that this is still just like high-school.

even at 40+, us guys still want the hot girls, and the girls
really dont care how a guy acts as long as they have money.


after 30 years, boys & girls havent changed at all, at our core
we r still the same ?



am i right ?????







it sounds to me as though you've already formed an opinion in your mind and i won't bother to try and change it.

our own perception IS reality anyway, isn't it?

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Wed 11/19/08 04:27 AM
Edited by s1owhand on Wed 11/19/08 04:35 AM


ok, girls say they want a caring, understanding guy, but



laugh

as long as he's HOTT



even at 40+, us guys still want the hot girls, and the girls
really dont care how a guy acts as long as they have money.



laugh

as long as they're nice and HONEST



after 30 years, boys & girls havent changed at all, at our core
we r still the same ?



or after 1000 yrs....all the same - we have learned

:wink:

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Wed 11/19/08 04:48 AM


ok, girls say they want a caring, understanding guy, but
what Iam sensing is that this is still just like high-school.

even at 40+, us guys still want the hot girls, and the girls
really dont care how a guy acts as long as they have money.


after 30 years, boys & girls havent changed at all, at our core
we r still the same ?



am i right ?????





You've only been on this site for 4 days. That really hasn't given you a chance to meet a lot of women on here, so I think that is being just a little judgmental, don't ya think?

Granted, there are some women out in this world who are selfish and looking only to fulfill their own desires, but most of us aren't like that.

Yeah, we want a guy that has money, but not in the sense that he is rich and will buy us everything we want. What we want is a guy that has a job where he can support himself. The last thing anyone needs is to have a person in the relationship not pulling their own weight.

Oh and you bet I want a hot guy. But that "Hottiness" is made up of ninety-five percent personality and five percent outward appearance. Just cause you got a hot body, doesn't mean your "all that".

Stick around on the forums and get involved so we can get to know you and you us. Trust me, there are a lot more genuine women on this site then you've even begun to get to know.:wink:

Good luck in your search and welcome to the site. flowerforyou