Topic: What's Wrong
pandalady's photo
Wed 11/19/08 08:24 PM
With these 28 and 29 year old guys that keep contacting me?????????? They want a mature older woman and all that other cra*. My skin just crawls. I joke around with my sons friends just cuz I always have with them growing up. I just can not see myself having a relationship with someone not to much older than my kids. I'm new to all this dating stuff, haven't dated for 15 years, is this what it's like?? is this normal?? I find it sick for someone so young wanting to date someone so far there senior. If anyone is out there what do you think????what what what

Greyhound's photo
Thu 11/20/08 04:07 AM
I've had a few of those young bucks emailing me before but not lately. I wonder what is it they want... an older woman or a "Mommy":wink:
Gosh... my oldest son will be 40 next month.

mssilverfox's photo
Thu 11/20/08 04:22 AM
Edited by mssilverfox on Thu 11/20/08 04:22 AM
Good morning everyone.. flowerforyou I know that feeling, get hit on by a lot of young guys... My oldest child (daughter) will be 47 on Monday.. flowerforyou

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 08:44 AM

With these 28 and 29 year old guys that keep contacting me?????????? They want a mature older woman and all that other cra*. My skin just crawls. I joke around with my sons friends just cuz I always have with them growing up. I just can not see myself having a relationship with someone not to much older than my kids. I'm new to all this dating stuff, haven't dated for 15 years, is this what it's like?? is this normal?? I find it sick for someone so young wanting to date someone so far there senior. If anyone is out there what do you think????what what what
They want free sex, thinking a older lonely lady with more experience will be and willing. Be very very careful on the net

no photo
Thu 11/20/08 02:14 PM
yea i get guys the age of my kids contacting me. that's disgusting. they just want free booty. i block them.

Greyhound's photo
Thu 11/20/08 02:22 PM
Yeah I block them also. I ain't that lonely yet and never will be.
:banana:

no photo
Thu 11/20/08 03:01 PM
That's for sure.

horsegirl55's photo
Thu 11/20/08 03:17 PM
Don' want to rob the cradle. If they come sniffing just block. They just think we are so lonely. ( Well I am but not that lonely).

polypeasant's photo
Thu 11/20/08 03:34 PM
AMEN to not that lonely...

What I notice the most...if they click who is on-line....the young ones seem to pick on the people who are on-line now....
instant gratification and all that..
do think that they think that older women are experienced....and worse...grateful....eeuugh..

Strange though...

pandalady's photo
Thu 11/20/08 04:45 PM
Thank you so much for letting me know I am not alone in feeling the way I do. My friend that I have know for 35 years was here today. She got divorced 2 years ago. When I told her about it she gave me this shi**y grin and said not to knock it until I've tried it. ill ill ill She sat here and told me she's been playin' around with her oldest sons best friend. I feel bad she left here so mad at me. I just lit into her. I'm with the rest of you and I'm not that lonely to fall to robbing the cradle.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Thu 11/20/08 04:48 PM
When I get mail from "a man in training" who says they want to talk to me... I always ask "why, do you need some motherly advice?" Here's some... get your brain back in your big head and leave me the heck alone!

carold's photo
Thu 11/20/08 07:11 PM

Thank you so much for letting me know I am not alone in feeling the way I do. My friend that I have know for 35 years was here today. She got divorced 2 years ago. When I told her about it she gave me this shi**y grin and said not to knock it until I've tried it. ill ill ill She sat here and told me she's been playin' around with her oldest sons best friend. I feel bad she left here so mad at me. I just lit into her. I'm with the rest of you and I'm not that lonely to fall to robbing the cradle.
Don't be to hard on your friend people make mistakes. Maybe you have talked some sence into her.

oldsage's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:39 AM
Arm candy is always nice to look at, but I preferr mature companions. Life needs a certain communication level, that doesn't work with people much younger.

Your friend having the fling, is prob. trying to find herself, after the divorce. Call her & let her know your still friends; just have to disagree on this subject. Someday she may need to know, you two can still talk.

Old saying; "Walk a mile in my moccasin's."

no photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:44 AM
money? sexual experience? a mother?

carold's photo
Fri 11/21/08 07:51 AM

money? sexual experience? a mother?
There you go short and sweet :)

motowndowntown's photo
Fri 11/21/08 03:50 PM
laugh

yea i get guys the age of my kids contacting me. that's disgusting. they just want free booty. i block them.
free booty???? You mean if they offered to pay you would???? Just kidding. :smile:

Greyhound's photo
Fri 11/21/08 04:01 PM

When I get mail from "a man in training" who says they want to talk to me... I always ask "why, do you need some motherly advice?" Here's some... get your brain back in your big head and leave me the heck alone!


I tell them to get their brain back in their pants
rofl :banana: