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Topic: What is your biggest problem in relationships?
bohemianbugeater Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 5903	Mon 12/15/08 10:22 AM
i also make a point to hear you out and try to reciprocate what you feel is best for you....i like to focuse on an actual issue and what it will take to get through it (not over under around it etc etc - it only just reoccurs then) and dont like when my sig other consistently cant follow thru on this or do the same for me i validate your feelings and actions....im human too!lol

TheOriginalFuzzy Joined Mon 12/15/08 Posts: 42	Mon 12/15/08 10:23 AM
i dont like when the other person gets intimidate becaus ethey flip out easily and im hard to shake up i also dont like dishonesty....especially petty dishonesty i normally recieve a lot of attention and the last few guys i dated had some problems with that...they werent paying any attention to the fact that i wasnt reciprocating or engouraging/enabling aforementioned unwanted attentions i also have a penchant to date guys that are hung up on their ex...they seem to think a date is a great therapy session...i know im less expensive and easy to talk to but cmon fellas....if the same type of girl keeps breaking you...find a different type of girl and move on! they are the dating worlds equivalent of cutters! +1 on the honesty... therapy sessions? it seems they think I'm Dr. Fuzzy!!! lol

bohemianbugeater Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 5903	Mon 12/15/08 10:29 AM
lol! im actually usually very happy in my relationships...most of the past ones have ended due to my moving or just the wrong timing in life....but there have been some bad seeds lol i tend to remain friends with all my exes...some guys are intimidated by that...but once they open their eyes and take a look they see its nothing to worry about... i enjoy being single though also....and right now there are plenty of great guys trying to date me just the chemistry isnt there and im not one to try and force it

freeonthree Joined Tue 06/19/07 Posts: 2407	Mon 12/15/08 10:35 AM Edited by freeonthree on Mon 12/15/08 10:41 AM
Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together. Oh, was this about past relationships ? Then I would have to say that I get bored because they never have any interest in my favorite hobby, building and riding VW Trikes. If you want to be and stay with me, you gotta look cute with the welding hood and gloves on. Dennis

bohemianbugeater Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 5903	Mon 12/15/08 10:36 AM
Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together. Dennis

Ron1218 Joined Sun 11/30/08 Posts: 1246	Mon 12/15/08 08:41 PM Edited by Ron1218 on Mon 12/15/08 08:41 PM
Hmm, I'd have to say that my fear of her breaking my heart or cheating on me. I've been hurt in the past and it's made me really uneasy when first getting into a relationship. I'm generally very cautious and though I try not to fall off the deep end right away, it does happen sometimes. And it always seems like when I find the girl that fits me, something in my life bars us from being together and there I am left alone again. Most women can't handle the fact that I'm in the military and travel a lot either. I won't always come home 365 days a year and certain bases don't allow you to bring your spouses/children along. I'm going to South Korea in June for a year and that's one such base. So in many ways, the military is one of my greatest problems to finding the woman for me.

bohemianbugeater Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 5903	Mon 12/15/08 08:56 PM
Me, definently... Im holding out for a lady who doesn't exsist, but when I find her, were going to build her VW Trike together. Oh, was this about past relationships ? Then I would have to say that I get bored because they never have any interest in my favorite hobby, building and riding VW Trikes. If you want to be and stay with me, you gotta look cute with the welding hood and gloves on. Dennis have i got some pictures for you!

bohemianbugeater Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 5903	Mon 12/15/08 08:57 PM
Hmm, I'd have to say that my fear of her breaking my heart or cheating on me. I've been hurt in the past and it's made me really uneasy when first getting into a relationship. I'm generally very cautious and though I try not to fall off the deep end right away, it does happen sometimes. And it always seems like when I find the girl that fits me, something in my life bars us from being together and there I am left alone again. Most women can't handle the fact that I'm in the military and travel a lot either. I won't always come home 365 days a year and certain bases don't allow you to bring your spouses/children along. I'm going to South Korea in June for a year and that's one such base. So in many ways, the military is one of my greatest problems to finding the woman for me. good luck. most people forget that justbecause we have a cease of fire that we are still at war in korea. be safe. and that sux dude.

HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Mon 12/15/08 08:59 PM
Small penis. on them or you? cause for some reason, I see you as a John Holmes

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Tue 12/16/08 06:26 PM
As a relationship ages, changes occur. Those changes can lead to drifting apart, and that becomes a big problem. Trying to overcome or adapt to those changes is probably one of the hardest things to do in any long term serious relationship.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 12/16/08 06:26 PM
In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky.

Daybrightener Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 254	Tue 12/16/08 06:29 PM
I am my worst enemy. I overthink it and complicate it to excess.

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Tue 12/16/08 06:30 PM
In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky. same here

special_guy Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 6513	Tue 12/16/08 06:30 PM
As a relationship ages, changes occur. Those changes can lead to drifting apart, and that becomes a big problem. Trying to overcome or adapt to those changes is probably one of the hardest things to do in any long term serious relationship. There you have it in a nutshell.... as I get older I find that I am like a good wine. I get better with age. More open minded less uptight... more go with the flow. My X's on the other hand have always seemed to be more like cheap watches... wound up titghter than a 3 dollar watch

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Tue 12/16/08 06:32 PM
Dependency issues......... I'm self reliant and most times that turns men off.......I seem to not need them enough

diesel_hunter Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 58	Tue 12/16/08 06:33 PM Edited by diesel_hunter on Tue 12/16/08 06:34 PM
I'm not the one with problems, its all the women I've had relationships with that flip out and have issues, it's funny how I never change, but that is always their excuse hmmmmm.

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Tue 12/16/08 06:35 PM
I had someone tell me once that I am too independent, strong willed and stubborn

catwoman96 Joined Thu 08/14/08 Posts: 5848	Tue 12/16/08 06:35 PM
Im not sure...i gonna say for the most part...I was never the problem in any of my relationships. except one perhaps. but he had more issues than me.

special_guy Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 6513	Tue 12/16/08 06:37 PM
Dependency issues......... I'm self reliant and most times that turns men off.......I seem to not need them enough I like independence in a woman... but there is a big difference in that and felling shunned

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Tue 12/16/08 06:40 PM
In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? im too picky. same here and then, like, after i decide not to, i always second guess myself and worry if i missed out on something.