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right all them. you cannot depend on what some of you ladys say you say that you want a lasting relationship right, us men say we like that also riht. then comes the money issue then you are asking us for money which this man does not have i barely pay my bills dont get me wrong im not saying that im not able to show a woman a good time. but everytime i try to get to know more about her her comes the subject about how much money i make its like aall they care about i wish that i could find someone like my donna again she loved me for me loved other people more tham herself. didnt care if i was rich or poor. shes out ther again i know.
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right all them. you cannot depend on what some of you ladys say you say that you want a lasting relationship right, us men say we like that also riht. then comes the money issue then you are asking us for money which this man does not have i barely pay my bills dont get me wrong im not saying that im not able to show a woman a good time. but everytime i try to get to know more about her her comes the subject about how much money i make its like aall they care about i wish that i could find someone like my donna again she loved me for me loved other people more tham herself. didnt care if i was rich or poor. shes out ther again i know. Well, then you are attracting some really lousy women. I have never asked a man for money in my entire life. |
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I set high standards for an physically unattractive person. It's hard to get any man to look past the cover & read what's inside, & even those that do seem to think I will settle for anything & be grateful.
I'd rather be alone than settle for less than I deserve. I deserve honesty, respect,& someone who is willing to work towards common goals. |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Wed 12/17/08 09:43 AM
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Puttytat~
I've never in my life asked a man for money, how much money he made, or anything remotely similiar. TMI, by the way. Oh, and misogyny. Glaring, pulsating, flashing.... |
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do i have a problem?? sometimes i'll do anything 4 any grl but she don't care
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You don't care who the girl is?
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people who ask what my biggest problem in a relationship is....lol
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Lexy, Not trying to hijack, although I do need a distraction... I found out recently I had wickedly unrealistic expectations. I wanted a man with immediate physicality, and many blue collar traits that were about immediacy. I also wanted a smart, steady, secure man who could challenge and inspire me, and that I could admire & respect. Duh..... it doesn't exist. It is a dichotomy, and I wanted both ends to fuse. So I had to go in the middle there... and re-prioritize. And then I met the professor. I definitely don't feel like I settled. Not one iota. And we use words like dichotomy in everyday conversations. OK, there IS such a thing as being unrealistic in one's expectations. I really don't think I'm guilty of that -- I say I need someone with a 160 IQ but I'd really be OK with 140. Seriously -- what I want is, admittedly, non-mainstream. And I have discovered that non-mainstream people don't use dating sites. I have a theory about that, but this is not the time or place for it. It just seems strange to me that they apparently no longer exist in the real world, either.... |
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Well, what I figured out was that I didn't know what I wanted.... my friend made me say it all out loud and had listened to me over the years. He then pointed it out to me.... I couldn't see it as I was too close.
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Well, what I figured out was that I didn't know what I wanted.... my friend made me say it all out loud and had listened to me over the years. He then pointed it out to me.... I couldn't see it as I was too close. Is he rentable?  ((( Lilith ))) |
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Edited by
special_guy
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Wed 12/17/08 11:20 AM
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Well one would think that to be sucessful at anything you would have to be able to define what sucess is....
(Where's spell check?) If you can't define what it is you want or what you are seeking then you will never know when you have it... even if it is right in front of you Confusions say: Man who stand on toilet is high on pot |
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My biggest problem is I want it all. A man who is passionate, intelligent and gets me. I'm gonna keep looking though.
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Well, what I figured out was that I didn't know what I wanted.... my friend made me say it all out loud and had listened to me over the years. He then pointed it out to me.... I couldn't see it as I was too close. Is he rentable? ((( Lilith ))) (((((Fade))))) Yeah, he is a consultant actually.... and of course a psychologist....
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Edited by
JayLy
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Thu 12/18/08 11:30 AM
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Knowing when your being lied to or mislead...every flipping time! It's a gift or a curse- I haven't decided yet. It's either it happens so much I'm catching some left overs. Or I have a gift. I have to admit it can put me in a pretty bad mood. B/c if I can't prove it absolutely...it's even a bigger fight for my bf & I. The fealing starts as a gut fealing and it just comes obvios after that. How does it happen for you?
--white lies--big lies--"some" of the truth= all the same: a lie. |
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 *scratches head* |
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I just can't seem to find someone that will stay with me.
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Liars.
And people who say they love me when they don't know what love is. I am a huge believer in unconditional love. You know, the kind a child has for their mother and a mother for her child? I give myself completely in a relationship. I love them whether during my years with them they get old or bald or fat, I still love them. But if they cheat or lie or steal from my children, get the f*ck gone. I am here to protect my family, and right now, my daughter is all I got. Although.... |
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Past relationships....Usually has to do with me, but i dont look at it as a fault just a character trait.. lol I bounce off the walls and it is very hard to deal with me. lol most men think they can "tame the shrew" but just get exasperated
 I thrive on change and men I meet say they are like that, but really arent....at least not yet
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 In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? apparently , I am. |
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Lexy, Not trying to hijack, although I do need a distraction... I found out recently I had wickedly unrealistic expectations. I wanted a man with immediate physicality, and many blue collar traits that were about immediacy. I also wanted a smart, steady, secure man who could challenge and inspire me, and that I could admire & respect. Duh..... it doesn't exist. It is a dichotomy, and I wanted both ends to fuse. So I had to go in the middle there... and re-prioritize. And then I met the professor. I definitely don't feel like I settled. Not one iota. And we use words like dichotomy in everyday conversations. OK, there IS such a thing as being unrealistic in one's expectations. I really don't think I'm guilty of that -- I say I need someone with a 160 IQ but I'd really be OK with 140. Seriously -- what I want is, admittedly, non-mainstream. And I have discovered that non-mainstream people don't use dating sites. I have a theory about that, but this is not the time or place for it. It just seems strange to me that they apparently no longer exist in the real world, either.... 140 to 160? Wow, you do have ridiculous standards. What's your IQ? Where did you get tested? Anyhow, my problem was that I was ****ing psycho. At least I'm willing to admit that I was the problem. |
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