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| Topic: How would you feel and what would you think | |
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together.
 Just a hypothetical....
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Confront them about it & if nothing changes away they go....
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Unless the sex was really, really, really, REALLY, good, I'd say bye bye.
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I'd feel lucky to find that out and hopefully find a more honest man
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
Usually a bad sign and a precursor of massive "lack of trust" issues down the road. One of the reddest of red flags.... |
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i would say......thats messed up....
i would think he is a dogg... then i would dissappear out of his life...... and leave him to cuddle his monitor and keyboard....... |
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
Usually a bad sign and a precursor of massive "lack of trust" issues down the road. One of the reddest of red flags.... I think I probably have to agree with what LexFonteyne said. |
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Unless the sex was really, really, really, REALLY, good, I'd say bye bye. You'd honestly stay, just for the SEX? No worries about catching anything? No hang-ups about "sharing"? |
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i would say......thats messed up.... i would think he is a dogg... then i would dissappear out of his life...... and leave him to cuddle his monitor and keyboard....... 
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It was ment as a joke. Anybody who would stay with somebody that was that controling for whatever reason has their own issues.
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It was ment as a joke. Anybody who would stay with somebody that was that controling for whatever reason has their own issues. 
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
But I still get to be in a relationship with this hypothetical cheater? I hate to say it, but it's been that long: I'd even take being abused right now. |
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It was ment as a joke. Anybody who would stay with somebody that was that controling for whatever reason has their own issues. 
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
Having actually discovered I was in such a situation (the idiot was even trying to hook up with MY OWN FRIENDS behind my back) I went with the "so long, don't look back" option. |
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
But I still get to be in a relationship with this hypothetical cheater? I hate to say it, but it's been that long: I'd even take being abused right now.
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
But I still get to be in a relationship with this hypothetical cheater? I hate to say it, but it's been that long: I'd even take being abused right now. You can't be serious. Sooner or later (hopefully sooner) you would reach your tolerance level. Also, doesn't there come a time when the pain and suffering outweigh the sham of a relationship? Isn't better to accept being alone indefinitely than to accept the destruction of your mind, body, and spirit? |
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But I still get to be in a relationship with this hypothetical cheater? I hate to say it, but it's been that long: I'd even take being abused right now. You are talking relationship, not casual sex, I gather? |
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I wouldn't continue seeing someone that told me to give up communicating with anyone in my past. That right there would sound off the warning bells of a control freak. As for them pursuing others, well I guess that would be fine being that I got rid of him to start with.
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if a lover said they wanted you to stop all communication with past loves and male friends - to be committed in body and mind only to them, but then you found out they were actively pursuing other women online and off the whole time you were together. Just a hypothetical....
But I still get to be in a relationship with this hypothetical cheater? I hate to say it, but it's been that long: I'd even take being abused right now.
Sweetie, I live in a town of 200 people, we don't have hookers here. However, if you know where I can find one.... |
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