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It's hard to tell if he's a perv or just making sure you're not a prude... I'd play it off innocently and see where he goes with it... I always say extend the roped as long as they need it, if they hang themselves that's their bad...  Great advice Joy .. I love it |
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Honey..."top" and "bottom" are BDSM terms. Ummm not always. Sometimes it's just a guy wantin to know which position you prefer 
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Sorry to hear about that. I never joke about sex on the first couple of dates because I don't want things going in the wrong direction. I was having a conversation with my male roommate the other day about this and told him that I end up losing guys I'm dating because I won't sleep with them for a few weeks or a month while I get to know them and decide if I really want a relationship with them. I don't really care because they are apparently not guys I wanna date anyway. He mentioned this to a group of his friends who all said they would dump me after a week or two if I hadn't put out. One guy said he had an $80 rule. If he'd spent $80 on a girl and she hadn't slept with him he was gone. Is this really what we've come to??? doesn`t matter,.you want one that will wait an eternity if has to,...just to be with you,.. |
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If you're interested in him, based on your coffee together, then it seems like a good thing to me! If you don't want to discuss those details yet, just explain that to him, and invite him out for lunch or dinner or something. Keep in mind, too, that there's nothing wrong with what he's doing--many people want to know your preferences in the bedroom. Unless you NEVER want it to get there, you only have to decide whether you'd rather talk about it now or wait until later. I just can't figure it out...how can you be so respectful and then just text something like that? LOL Another text was "SEXY LACE OR GRANNYS?" LOL,I just said certainly not grannys... I wouldn`t play along with him if the whole senerio is making you uncomfortable, it`s a sign he`s crossing your boundaries,..follow your guts,..or Mr. Right could be very wrong,.. |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Fri 01/30/09 06:48 AM
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here is something people should do before they go out on a date or put in their profile...please do not dicuss sex on the first couple of dates we go on...which in return means they're not gettin any or it makes you feel uncomfortable..sex is usually a topic of discussion among adults. unless it is brought to someones attention that you don't like to discuss it on the first couple of dates, it will be brought up.
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here is something people should do before they go out on a date or put in their profile...please do not dicuss sex on the first couple of dates we go on...which in return means they're not gettin any or it makes you feel uncomfortable..sex is usually a topic of discussion among adults. unless it is brought to someones attention that you don't like to discuss it on the first couple of dates, it will be brought up. |
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here is something people should do before they go out on a date or put in their profile...please do not dicuss sex on the first couple of dates we go on...which in return means they're not gettin any or it makes you feel uncomfortable..sex is usually a topic of discussion among adults. unless it is brought to someones attention that you don't like to discuss it on the first couple of dates, it will be brought up.
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Honey..."top" and "bottom" are BDSM terms. Ummm not always. Sometimes it's just a guy wantin to know which position you prefer Do you really think thats possible? |
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Sorry to hear about that. I never joke about sex on the first couple of dates because I don't want things going in the wrong direction. I was having a conversation with my male roommate the other day about this and told him that I end up losing guys I'm dating because I won't sleep with them for a few weeks or a month while I get to know them and decide if I really want a relationship with them. I don't really care because they are apparently not guys I wanna date anyway. He mentioned this to a group of his friends who all said they would dump me after a week or two if I hadn't put out. One guy said he had an $80 rule. If he'd spent $80 on a girl and she hadn't slept with him he was gone. Is this really what we've come to??? no pricks like that tend to live in packs... and 80 dollors on a date..YA RIGHT... im taking her to the zoo and to get some ice cream and then a walk in the park...80 dollors... ya right only if shes my girlfriend |
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Welcome your officially in the catergory of a FWB..................
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oh your one of those that need him to spend 100 dollors on the first date.. those are the guys that take you to the movies because they have nothing to talk about
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the zoo, ice cream, and a walk is a good first date... tons of time to talk... and you dont feel like a clown the next day when you have money to put in the gas tank
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thats just because i learned the hard way.. and you can weed out the ones that want you to buy them what ever they want.. tell if im wrong guys
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rule. If he'd spent $80 on a girl and she hadn't slept with him he was gone. Is this really what we've come to??? I hope that date ended early. |
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So somebody please tell me if this guy could turn out to be nice...could it just be somewhat normal?
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Sorry to hear about that. I never joke about sex on the first couple of dates because I don't want things going in the wrong direction. I was having a conversation with my male roommate the other day about this and told him that I end up losing guys I'm dating because I won't sleep with them for a few weeks or a month while I get to know them and decide if I really want a relationship with them. I don't really care because they are apparently not guys I wanna date anyway. He mentioned this to a group of his friends who all said they would dump me after a week or two if I hadn't put out. One guy said he had an $80 rule. If he'd spent $80 on a girl and she hadn't slept with him he was gone. Is this really what we've come to??? no pricks like that tend to live in packs... and 80 dollors on a date..YA RIGHT... im taking her to the zoo and to get some ice cream and then a walk in the park...80 dollors... ya right only if shes my girlfriend They didn't mean $80 on ONE date but that is very easy to do in St. Louis anyway... It wouldn't be hard to get to $80 dollars on three of your ideal dates either so is that the cutoff??? Even if it takes 10 dates to get to the established cutoff, I am deeply saddened to hear that men who have made it to their early thirties could still think this way... |
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OMG... I just realized you are only 21... Your thinking is very clear to me now...
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Hmmmm....80 dollars on a date, eh??
Let's see..... 50 bucks for concert tix....20 ( at least ) in gas money....40 for dinner....another 20 for drinks at the concert.... Hell...80 bucks is kinda low end....lmao |
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So somebody please tell me if this guy could turn out to be nice...could it just be somewhat normal? Yes it could. Just see how he reacts when you make your needs clear. If he says "He is just thinking about you and didn't mean to make you uncomfortable and backs off the bedroom talk until you make it clear it is welcome fine. If he doesn't poney up with a real date soon you can pretty much figure he is not that into you. |
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Edited by
PacificStar48
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Sat 01/31/09 01:40 AM
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here is something people should do before they go out on a date or put in their profile...please do not dicuss sex on the first couple of dates we go on...which in return means they're not gettin any or it makes you feel uncomfortable..sex is usually a topic of discussion among adults. unless it is brought to someones attention that you don't like to discuss it on the first couple of dates, it will be brought up. A guy who is so insecure about his desireability and sexual ability to make a woman want a normal sex life with him that he has to ask you to immediately define his sexual quota so he can laud it over you is a guy you don't need. Guys that piss and moan that their previous partners were fridgid if you talk them will tell you it has a lot to do with how bad the guy was in bed. |
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