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Topic: Just Venting!! Grr! *sigh*
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Mon 02/02/09 02:03 PM
sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!!

I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!!
Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks!ohwell

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Mon 02/02/09 02:06 PM

sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!!

I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!!
Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks!ohwell


Because people suck, do what I do and limit interaction with the swine!smokin

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Mon 02/02/09 02:08 PM
Yea, the guy sounds like a two-face imo ohwell

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Mon 02/02/09 02:08 PM
Hey don't feel bad ... we ALL need to vent once in a while ..:thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Mon 02/02/09 02:11 PM
Thanks guys! Already starting to feel better!

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Mon 02/02/09 02:12 PM

sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!!

I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!!
Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks!ohwell


he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou

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Mon 02/02/09 02:13 PM
Wow! I give the triple lindy swan dive into the empty swimming pool a 10!!!!

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Mon 02/02/09 02:13 PM
there are a million and one seniro's that could of happened,


i guess better now then laterflowerforyou

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Mon 02/02/09 02:15 PM
Sometimes you run across Schmoes....

This one was a Choad in disguise.

All you can do is learn from it and move on.

So how is it weather wise in Northern Kali? I used to live in Redding! Chico State is a WILD college!!!!

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Mon 02/02/09 02:15 PM
That was a good vent! Gives standing ovation.

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Mon 02/02/09 02:15 PM



he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou


lol yea I hear yea...and thats what irritates me...I gave him several oppertunities to tell me and he would be like "oh no no! Ive jus been busy". yea it sucks that it didnt work but thats not what bugs me...jus be HONEST! didnt think that was soo hard???ohwell

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Mon 02/02/09 02:17 PM

Sometimes you run across Schmoes....

This one was a Choad in disguise.

All you can do is learn from it and move on.

So how is it weather wise in Northern Kali? I used to live in Redding! Chico State is a WILD college!!!!


eh right now sunny kinda cold bout 65....yea hella wild...riot last weekend

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Mon 02/02/09 02:17 PM

That was a good vent! Gives standing ovation.


lol thanks

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Mon 02/02/09 02:18 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Mon 02/02/09 02:18 PM


he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou


lol yea I hear yea...and thats what irritates me...I gave him several oppertunities to tell me and he would be like "oh no no! Ive jus been busy". yea it sucks that it didnt work but thats not what bugs me...jus be HONEST! didnt think that was soo hard???ohwell


Been there, seems the more distance there is to cover the less honest the people seem to be...of course this is taking into account that anyone near you is honest, which they are not here.

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Mon 02/02/09 02:20 PM



he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou


lol yea I hear yea...and thats what irritates me...I gave him several oppertunities to tell me and he would be like "oh no no! Ive jus been busy". yea it sucks that it didnt work but thats not what bugs me...jus be HONEST! didnt think that was soo hard???ohwell


Been there, seems the more distance there is to cover the less honest the people seem to be...of course this is taking into account that anyone near you is honest, which they are not here.


lol yea true true

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Mon 02/02/09 02:22 PM


sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!!

I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!!
Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks!ohwell


he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou
i believe u are right

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Mon 02/02/09 02:25 PM


Sometimes you run across Schmoes....

This one was a Choad in disguise.

All you can do is learn from it and move on.

So how is it weather wise in Northern Kali? I used to live in Redding! Chico State is a WILD college!!!!


eh right now sunny kinda cold bout 65....yea hella wild...riot last weekend



GO CHICO!

Is it still the DUI related accident week still?

I remember the local radio constantly reporting at least one drinking fatality and one or two drinking related accidents a week while I was in Redding!

I'm surprised parents let their kids go there. it was the #1 party college in California and #3 nationally.

Halloween is the best. I never seen a city shut down for it before!

Hopefully you are not feeling as blue as you were earlier!

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Mon 02/02/09 02:25 PM



sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!!

I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!!
Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks!ohwell


he lost interest and doesnt know how to tell you, I say save yourself and run! flowerforyou
i believe u are right

lol well I already did even got the satisfaction of deleting him from my friends on myspace! HA! Take that!! lmao:laughing:

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Mon 02/02/09 02:28 PM



Sometimes you run across Schmoes....

This one was a Choad in disguise.

All you can do is learn from it and move on.

So how is it weather wise in Northern Kali? I used to live in Redding! Chico State is a WILD college!!!!


eh right now sunny kinda cold bout 65....yea hella wild...riot last weekend



GO CHICO!

Is it still the DUI related accident week still?

I remember the local radio constantly reporting at least one drinking fatality and one or two drinking related accidents a week while I was in Redding!

I'm surprised parents let their kids go there. it was the #1 party college in California and #3 nationally.

Halloween is the best. I never seen a city shut down for it before!

Hopefully you are not feeling as blue as you were earlier!


Still a lot of dui but there are a bunch of check points, and yea halloween shuts the town down, they even bring in cops from sac and san fran. Umm I believe Playboy even said Chico was a #1 party school a few years back...its getting better, but the first two weekends of school and the last weekend of school are crazy...two years ago I go stuck in the middle of a riot..it was scary stuff...and yes I am feeling better thanks!

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Mon 02/02/09 02:28 PM
I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance.

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