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| Topic: Just Venting!! Grr! *sigh* | |
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darkowl1
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Mon 02/02/09 02:30 PM
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i think the guy needs to learn how to spell in english, not computer gibberish, as well. at 15, it's excusable, but not at his age. he's not worth your time. you've got much better things to do, and you'll find someone long before he will.......it's just the way of the world.
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. yea specially since I was the one drivin there every freakin weekend!lol |
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I live in a small city and it can take an hour just to get to "the other side of town" so to speak. I don't consider it a great distance until it is more than 3+ hours.
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I live in a small city and it can take an hour just to get to "the other side of town" so to speak. I don't consider it a great distance until it is more than 3+ hours. Yea I agree with u... |
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. yea specially since I was the one drivin there every freakin weekend!lol why ? how come he couldn`t make the distance ? |
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. yea specially since I was the one drivin there every freakin weekend!lol why ? how come he couldn`t make the distance ? I dunno, never really talked about it...I like driving, Im sure if it had gone farther we would have talked about it...cant do it all the time lol...oh doesnt matter now 
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. Exactly what went through my mind. Seriously?! Long distance to me is having to plan my weekend to make the trip lol. |
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lots of jerks (cowards) have a hard time being honest, especially when it's more satisfying to them to lie like a fly with a booger in their eye and they know they can string you along
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Now I know it is bad form talking about exs here but my last serious relationship I was living in Redding and had a GF living in Los Angeles. It is an 8 1/2 hour drive from LA to Redding Non stop predisposing traffic and fuel and potty stops...
I would go to LA at least Every other month for two weeks because I was in school in Redding. Shasta Community College was the BEST hands down getting my pre reqs going for transfer to a four year. I also spent my vacation time in LA when I had it. I made more money in LA in my off time then I did working up there. Now i am back in LA and my how things have changed! I'm a FREE Man now... Actually I am kind of expensive! None the less... A 2 hour drive? That is sissy. I was willing to do some DRIVING for love... I have no idea what some people's trip is. It's like they want everything handed to them... On a GOLD platter! Oh Yeah! SHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! |
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lots of jerks (cowards) have a hard time being honest, especially when it's more satisfying to them to lie like a fly with a booger in their eye and they know they can string you along There should be a TV show: When your date starts like this:  To THIS!!  All because of a total... 
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He lost interest, for whatever reason, and is not the kind of person to just come out and say it. I know its hard, been there done that. Best thing is to just move on.
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I agree with everyone about this guy, but I'm curious about something. I have seen many times people referring to "distance" and then saying that they are less than a couple hours apart. I assume everyone here are adults and probably most have drivers licenses. I don't see how people call this a long distance. yea specially since I was the one drivin there every freakin weekend!lol why ? how come he couldn`t make the distance ? I dunno, never really talked about it...I like driving, Im sure if it had gone farther we would have talked about it...cant do it all the time lol...oh doesnt matter now ahhhhhhh,..are you sure,..? speaking for myself,.I`m one of those who unfortunately who always DO more than my share,..and it always backfires,.. Woman who LOVE to Much -- excellent read |
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sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!! I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!! Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks! |
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sorry to take up space, but I jus needed to vent!! I started dating this guy, everything was really good, thought something might come of it in the future. He was older, mature, fun, ect. I even met his son, parents, friends, and other family members (his choice not mine). But then all of a sudden he stops talking to me, except for if I call, text, email him and his replys were always the bear minimum. Now Im not stupid, I knew something was goin on and I gave him several chances to tell me that it jus wasnt working. Instead I would jus catch him in lies. Today I finally called him on it, told him it jus wasnt working, I couldnt deal with the hot and cold. And again his reply was bear minimum, "its not that ur not what Im looking for u jus live to far away"...intresting since that was my concern at first and he told me that was crazy (we live an hour away and we've been seeing eachother for like 3 months now). Why cant people jus be honest...say whats goin on...Im seriously tired of being treated like an idiot!! Again sorry for takin up space, jus needed to vent!! thanks! lol exactally...kinda intresting isnt it? |
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If those guys say they are looking for a commitment then you ran into a liar!
Commitment scares a lot of guys. |
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^^^AndyB makes a good point.
There's fishing, and then there's catching. Being on the receiving end of catch-and-release leaves you sore-mouthed. Not a lot of guys will say, "I'm into the thrill of the chase, the romance, the commitment talks, and getting somewhere! And then, I flake out and do not know what to do with the real deal when it's in my grasp." |
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