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Topic: What do I do? She says shes depressed.
Trulou's photo
Thu 02/26/09 03:28 PM
Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?

Totage's photo
Thu 02/26/09 03:30 PM

Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?


Call the police and have them check on her to make sure she's alright. Try to talk to her to get her some help.

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Thu 02/26/09 03:31 PM
Let her go for now...if it was meant to be, she will find you...good luckflowerforyou

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Thu 02/26/09 03:35 PM

Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?


Let her know how you feel, thats about all you can do.

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Thu 02/26/09 03:37 PM
My tourm friend,
You can't force anyone to love you, all I can say to you is to give her space and maybe she will come around. If she doesn't just know that it wasn't meant to be. Also it would be best if she did call or try to contact you that you gave her the support she miight need, who knows maybe some thinhg have happned in her life and she just needs some time.

meca30's photo
Thu 02/26/09 03:39 PM
Sorry to say boo , but you need to move on. It sounds like she might have found someone else, and she's telling you that she's depress to cover up that she has another male friend.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 02/26/09 03:47 PM

Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?




bigsmile It sounds like she dont like you but she is making excuses.flowerforyou If a girl likes you they will do almost anything to be with you.flowerforyou

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Thu 02/26/09 03:51 PM
O my laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 02/26/09 03:56 PM


Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?



To the OP -- if she is depressed or being emo then just give her space. It might be a game or it might be genuine. Regardless, you can't fix her; she must fix herself. Don't play games with her to makes matters worse. Be a bigger person, and just wait until she contacts you.

Good vibes! :banana:

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Thu 02/26/09 03:59 PM

wow you have me scared...not really though i said what i had to say and its true, most women dont know what they want and your standards are too high
And, I will say once again...we don't do that here...be kind, keep it nice...or go away...we are a family and we don't call each other names or put anyone down....stick to the rules or leave us be! And as for me...This woman does know what she wants...don't judge anyone that you do not personally know...you know nothing about me or the many other women on here, but I can tell you one thing...we are intelligent enough to know we do not want someone that speaks to us the way you do

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Thu 02/26/09 03:59 PM
i can relate, had a short romance that I THOUGHT was going fine, he said he wanted to step back. Guess he is still stepping back, haven't heard from him since even tho he said he would call.....

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Thu 02/26/09 04:00 PM

wow you have me scared...not really though i said what i had to say and its true, most women dont know what they want and your standards are too high


Um ... you must be really young! This is almost more idiotic than the first statement you made. grumble

Your logic is askew: first, women don't know what they want, but they also have high standards? slaphead

PEOPLE may take a long while to figure out what they want in life. So what? Keeping their standards high will keep them from discfunctional relationships until they decide what they want from a relationship.

UGH -- frustrated

DvDstyle's photo
Thu 02/26/09 04:01 PM
haha you are too funny and your gorgues for 40 i lied in ur case

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 02/26/09 04:03 PM

ok fine....for the 2 old ladies,...i just want to let you know your most likely going to die alone, whats thats young smart and his an asshole


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Obviously, you were born without common sense and you are not open-minded enough to have adult conversations.

Don't be so defensive. If you are going to insult people then be prepared to take the comments without being a jerk.

Not worth an ounce of time.

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Thu 02/26/09 04:04 PM
Let her go man I have been done like that too.Show her that you can get someone else if you don't and you keep hanging on you what they say smouther her and then she will turn to hate.

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Thu 02/26/09 04:06 PM



Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?


women are dumbasses...just dont call her and pretend you found someone new...and if she cares then she will be back if not...well then you can jam to some white snake...


Wow, that is a pretty immature reply. The irony is you calling women 'dumbasses' while in the context of your message you are telling him to lie about his situation. Wouldn't that make him a 'dumbass' too? The games some people play .... that is sad. sad2

To the OP -- if she is depressed or being emo then just give her space. It might be a game or it might be genuine. Regardless, you can't fix her; she must fix herself. Don't play games with her to makes matters worse. Be a bigger person, and just wait until she contacts you.

Good vibes! :banana:


So true.


DvDstyle's photo
Thu 02/26/09 04:07 PM
i have know right? thats a funny thing to say, whats also funny is how you still think your right which in ur case you might but sweetheart i look at facts and i think no one person can handle life alone and if you love someone that someone should help you its gods plan, and if they dont do that then they dont love you and but the thing with women is that they think they need to test all there men, and it hurts, it ****s you up, so based on my past women cant think for themselves and men cant live with themselves

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Thu 02/26/09 04:08 PM
my grammer sucks

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Thu 02/26/09 04:08 PM




Things were going great. Just got done moving her, her parents had me spend the night at there house with her, talked every day, sex awsome for both of us. Then just before valentines, she breaks up with me because she says she doesn't feel the same way about me as i do with her. She says shes depressed and can't love anyone right now and she hasn't answered her phone since. What should I do? Let this beautiful girl go, or try keep trying to talk to her in hopes she'll come around?


women are dumbasses...just dont call her and pretend you found someone new...and if she cares then she will be back if not...well then you can jam to some white snake...
oh boy:smile:
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl drinker drinker

is that a i agree oh boy or you just said something retarded oh boy

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Thu 02/26/09 04:12 PM


wow you have me scared...not really though i said what i had to say and its true, most women dont know what they want and your standards are too high
And, I will say once again...we don't do that here...be kind, keep it nice...or go away...we are a family and we don't call each other names or put anyone down....stick to the rules or leave us be! And as for me...This woman does know what she wants...don't judge anyone that you do not personally know...you know nothing about me or the many other women on here, but I can tell you one thing...we are intelligent enough to know we do not want someone that speaks to us the way you do

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