Topic: what do women mean when they say?
lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:25 PM
People use condoms.

No condoms. NO SEX.

Period. Anyone who says different? They are an idiot. Especially if they say they don't have sex until they know the person well enough to trust them. To trust someone with my life? With my health?

Hell, in my world you aren't getting fvcked for ten plus years.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:26 PM

are you serious, come on what type guys have you been seeing,


The kind of guys that agree with me and are respectful of their health and mine!

Again, you don't know the history of their partners or the partners before that .....

What if 'she' sleep with someone, who sleep with another guy who was an IV drug user? You are talking 3rd and 4th generation sex partners! It's crazy out there!

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:26 PM
that is so funny , you guys must have had really bad incounters or what?

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:28 PM
ok i take the hint , maybe its not like it used to be anymore , maybe just maybe i will do that from now on, i will think about it the next time

davidben1's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:28 PM
a body may be alive, but no heart is alive, to see the "love", less it feed not it's own body first, with no regard of what it only take from other's, to indulge itself.

the disease of self satisfaction above all, rot the eye's from the socket's, making them not able to see love, so to never find any love.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:29 PM

that is so funny , you guys must have had really bad incounters or what?


If you assumed we had bad encounters from our messages then your logic and thought process is more askewed than I thought. sad2

We've had GOOD encounters! Healthy, educated partners who agree with us! shades

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:29 PM
We were taught to respect ourselves. We were educated about disease and something called a "LATENT CARRIER".

Usually, they are men. They are asymptomatic of numerous diseases.

No way I am going to trust some loser with my life. I have a kid. I'm not an idiot.

RKISIT's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:29 PM



come on do you ladies date someone and then ask them "have you got a certificate that you are clean, from your doctor"give me a break.blah blah blah


No, I don't ask for a certificate when I become sexually active with someone. We use protection every time/all the time or no action!

If the relationship goes to a committed, monogamous level then we BOTH make appts with the doctor for blood tests and swab tests (HIV, the whole gammit). That's easy! winking


flowerforyouI live by those rules as well flowerforyou
i could of said more but i'll just respect these answers,you know.... keep the peace:smile:

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:30 PM
a) Should i fµck anything the moves?

b) Be responsible and not fµck anything that moves?

spock

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:30 PM

ok i take the hint , maybe its not like it used to be anymore , maybe just maybe i will do that from now on, i will think about it the next time


In what world is bareback okay?

In the alley where you fvck a ten dollar whore and slip in an extra five for the risk of getting HIV?

That world?


DUDE.... get real. And if there is a next time, count yourself lucky.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:30 PM

We were taught to respect ourselves. We were educated about disease and something called a "LATENT CARRIER".

Usually, they are men. They are asymptomatic of numerous diseases.

No way I am going to trust some loser with my life. I have a kid. I'm not an idiot.


Thanks for busting out with some facts, Lilith! flowerforyou


nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:31 PM
ok ok ok i get the picture , us condoms , look im not against them , if they say they want me to use one i use one , not a problem , ok back to the main topic guys her friend says that she wants me to move in but i havent heard from her mouth yet?

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:33 PM
ouch i feel my nuts in the nut cracker ,

franshade's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:34 PM

ok ok ok i get the picture , us condoms , look im not against them , if they say they want me to use one i use one , not a problem , ok back to the main topic guys her friend says that she wants me to move in but i havent heard from her mouth yet?
dont pack yet

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:34 PM
enough knees to the groin ladys, i am really respectfull i have no problem pleasing the ladys though

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:34 PM
You just said you don't enjoy sex if you use them and just wait til she proves herself clean.

There is no getting past that or backpeddling now. You said it. Want me to quote you?

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:35 PM
no lilith but to make you guys and gals happy i would do it

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:36 PM
And therein lies the problem.

nickelback9's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:36 PM
and of course my own safety of coursegrumble

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/11/09 12:37 PM
Your enthusiasm for the grumbled remark is underwhelmingly convincing...