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I trust people until given a reason not to. Mind you, it is not a blind trust, but I give them the benefit of doubt, at least.

Personally, I have a hard time believing a man when he tells me he loves me because I've seen so many use those words to get what they want (and saying it before they actually feel it).

But I try not to let it sabotage the relationship. JMO

Guilty until proven innocent!!

Ahhh how about the one in San Diego May of next year?

I cant plan that far ahead at this point......

what was ever decieved, except by anything that spoke forth to "trust it"???

will true trustworthy, ever declare itself as such???

what love that declare itself loving, if the hearer of such words deem and believe it not so, as does not the hearer of these words, even matter enough to be the tell of if it is true???

what that really care, does not allow the cared for, to be the tell if the care is what is needed, known as good, and as true care???

what is still inept, except what delcare itself as smart???

what is still only in love with itself, except that which declare it's love, only for what give to it???

what is only seeking self glory, except that which only hear words that give itself glory???

what is not still blind to itself, except that which only thirst for glory of itself???

what that seek validation from anything, to know what is true or not true, and only recieve what sound praise itself, show itself only still seek to inflate itself, so show it knows not any greater reality, nor will it recognize it, and be why it seek only praise as validation???

validation only seek praise, and affiramtion, so is led captive as a slave by vain swellings of kind and generous flattery to demise???

validation only seek to capture itself in it's own trap, not seeing all that love most self validation only all seek the same, so are each compelled by the same, and in such, suck in weakness and futility, and indeed why the saying, misery love's company, as it is indeed sheer misery to not know what what oneself is, except but for the flattery spoken forth by other's.

do not all things get caught in it's own web of manipulation, when it try to use professing's of love to try control another to give self what it want, as if such was love, would not the other's wants be deemed as equal???

total respect of mutual want in all ways and forms, be the only true love and trust that exist, and what does not do this, or practice it, can easily be seen when all words are heard as true, NOT JUST THE WORDS ONE WISHES TO BE TRUE.

nothing was ever led to disaster, who's own mind did not repeately give doubt, but wishes of self most caused all such things to be ignored.

if each try to coerce the other to change itself, to encourage it to please itself, even angry when it does not, then how then is there not infinite no solution, and no love ever possible to be created???

what is not truly still blind to all other things called humans, if it still see only what it can get from another, and invest in other's like a bank, only praying and hoping for a good return for itself, desperately and miserabley seeking with all it's will, to give itself what itself seek in it's misery, seeing not this very thing create the only misery that ever existed???

peace

To me the better question is how do you start trusting a best friend!!!

a perceieved enemey will give far better insight than anything that profess itself as a true and constant friend???

what be the tell of a true friend, except most one that wish for nothing for itself in return???

what that does not want from something, give itself it's own ulterior motive, seeing not within itself, that this will garner all words and actions that come forth, and eliminate any hearing of any true friends, that tell of it's oppressing ways???

there is only but one good ulterior motive, the happiness and equality of two, each as soverign equal individuals, two wants and desires seen as equal to each other, and if this does not exist, destiny only part the path, to move both toward something better for both???

what that love try in any way to control or subvert another's free will, with the constant telling "i would do the same for you"???

does this not show, itself is but inputting into the bank for itself, and be no friend at all, but to itself first and foremost???

expectations lead anything as a blind man, locking into a dungeon and self prison for anything, imposed with coercion and guilt and manipulation by so called friends, better described as wolves, but declaring itself as loving sheep, hiding it's own sharp teeth, with pretense's and constant tellings of how much itself love???

nothing that expect from another can ever be happy, as it can neither feel or know what it have, even while it have it.

trust everybody. but cut the cards.

Is that what he's been trying to say? I can't make sense of it as usual.

idk. i didn't read any of the above posts!

Date women.

keep em hogtied in the back of the barn

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in bib and brace denim overalls, and one shoe...

damn, i like that, that good!!!

anything that peer not, hate to peer.

anything that is but pulled by invisible force, not knowing itself, by not inspecting it's own true motive's, will not recognize, and even hate to see or know, what create all energy and forces that are controlling itself.

Not sure what to tell, And not sure if you want a serious answer or quick joke to lighten your spirits, but in all seriousness best thing I can say is don't let you emotions get in the way of the facts that are probably starring you right in the face. Most of the time when this has happened to me or I have seen this happened to a friend it is because we won't listen to the truth because are emotions tell us that we quote "love" this person. So the real question I would ask myself is how do I get in a relationship and not worry about having to lie to myself that things will work out if thing go bad. I guess I would also ask myself what I was looking for as far as a relationship goes a someone hot and sexy for a one-nighter, a rich pompous ass that will provide for me finacially, an emotionally stable person who might not be the most attractive or fiscally responsible but will be able to talk things out with you in a responsible fashion. Once you figure that out you can then make the adjustments and sacrifices needed to go about the dating process to hopefully lead in to a more sucessful relationship.

If you have relationships in your life chances are somewhere along the road you are going to get tangled up with somebody is going to break your trust.

If the majority of people you know treat you badly then you have to think about your choices. One rotten apple doesn't have to spoil the whole basket.

I do think trust has to develope over time and generally has to be earned simple because you have to establish a track record with someone. What I don't believe in is testing someones honesty.

insist on participating in all extramarital sexual escapades