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Just the other day, the 13th, my world came crashin down!
My boyfriend and i had been togethere for 6 months! He was good to my kids at christmas, even sent me a dozen roses for valentines day. everything was wonderful. Then things got strange,his texts werer short and he didnt call me honey or baby anymore. I got to wondering what was up when just last weekend we were hangin out and things were great.....so i thought. I started wonderin about what was up, and then i found his secret! i was on the computer and an aduult sex dating site ad poped up. I thought about for a min and said what the hell. so i checked it out and looked him up on the site........Dammit he was on there his profile said single and he was lookin for sex and it said he had a web cam and he had naked pics of himself on there. OMG six f..kin months i gave to him. i was completely honest with him from the start. I showed him my profile here on minmgle and my myspace page. I just dont understand why people do this. I was so hurt but then i was so angry that he took my love for granted |
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ouch...
but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. |
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Just the other day, the 13th, my world came crashin down! My boyfriend and i had been togethere for 6 months! He was good to my kids at christmas, even sent me a dozen roses for valentines day. everything was wonderful. Then things got strange,his texts werer short and he didnt call me honey or baby anymore. I got to wondering what was up when just last weekend we were hangin out and things were great.....so i thought. I started wonderin about what was up, and then i found his secret! i was on the computer and an aduult sex dating site ad poped up. I thought about for a min and said what the hell. so i checked it out and looked him up on the site........Dammit he was on there his profile said single and he was lookin for sex and it said he had a web cam and he had naked pics of himself on there. OMG six f..kin months i gave to him. i was completely honest with him from the start. I showed him my profile here on minmgle and my myspace page. I just dont understand why people do this. I was so hurt but then i was so angry that he took my love for granted Shocking shocking shocking.... 
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How has he lied and cheated?
Did I miss something? Did he deny it? Has he met women and had sex with them, after he promised monogamy? I'm lost. SOunds like a guy got horny and got caught in a fantasy. |
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Edited by
MsCarmen
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Sun 03/15/09 06:09 AM
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ouch... but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. "or maybe you gained weight?"  I think that part could have been left unsaid.
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Im sorry you were hurt. Its good that you noticed things had changed tho. Remember, he gave you signals by the texts, the honey, etc. You surely know you are now smarter and ready for the next one. Dont shut down now that you have more to offer. People that do that are not men/women, but children. So sorry, you got hurt. I suspect that such a pretty woman will not stay single long unless by choice. Good luck sweetheart. |
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Cyber-player burns another decent person.
 Sorry for your pain. 
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I'm always told by friends to play games...but I just figure I am who I am and with the right one I won't have to...he will love me and only me just for who I am...this man you speek of is NOT worthy of you...but the right one is out there waiting for you...unfortunately you must kiss a lot of toads to find your prince!
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ofdrywit.....no i did no gain weight i actually have lost weight and am in better shape now than when we first met.
Well, lets see, he has been un reachable since wed and yes he has met other women since we started dating. It said so on his profile i saw. he has testimonials from other women he hooked up with and ****. |
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Wow, what a jerk!! Creepy, too. Don't you hate it when you are honest and the other person isn't? There are so many game players out there. Another example of how cyber stuff can degrade real relationships and render them impossible.
You will fare better. I hope you let him go and move on. |
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What an *ss. Sounds like he's a major player. Good riddance.
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ofdrywit.....no i did no gain weight i actually have lost weight and am in better shape now than when we first met. Well, lets see, he has been un reachable since wed and yes he has met other women since we started dating. It said so on his profile i saw. he has testimonials from other women he hooked up with and ****. It has nothinng to do with your weight...if they love you they love you! |
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I called him friday night when i found the profile.It went straight to voice mail.
I basically told him that i found him out and really let him have it. told him to never ever contact me again |
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ofdrywit.....no i did no gain weight i actually have lost weight and am in better shape now than when we first met. Well, lets see, he has been un reachable since wed and yes he has met other women since we started dating. It said so on his profile i saw. he has testimonials from other women he hooked up with and ****. It has nothinng to do with your weight...if they love you they love you! Yeah, and we're just so sure he's a Brad Pitt look-a-like!!!  That weight thing should be a non-issue. Living a lie is the same as telling lies.
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ouch... but yeah, it's not just men. some people just suck. maybe he's insecure or confused. or maybe you gained weight. it's hard to tell why people do things like that tho. "or maybe you gained weight?" I think that part could have been left unsaid. sorry but it's the truth. i've done it and i know plenty of other fellas have too. u stop respecting and taking care of yourself and i will too. |
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I called him friday night when i found the profile.It went straight to voice mail. I basically told him that i found him out and really let him have it. told him to never ever contact me again Heres some sound advice...give him the silent treatment...you see he thinks you will be there for him anytime he wants...but if you put him on IGNORE...then things can change. It works...I've done it! You may be surpriaed how differently you feel when he comes creeping back! |
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Edited by
MahanMahan
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Sun 03/15/09 06:29 AM
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 Tower being constructed that consists of seven separate tiers. Men and women help to construct the tower. Mud bricks and tools lie on the ground and other rubble. Some people facing other way, losing interset. Nimrod stands in red dress supervising. |
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective...
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Sorry for your pain sugarjen some "people" don't have any respect for others.
 
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consider also what site you found him. if it was sexually oriented then he might be looking for something sexual you don't provide. maybe he really likes you but he's a pervert as well. not trying to offend. just a dirtbag's perspective... 
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