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AH... I wouldn't worry so much about who you hang around with, your friends are YOUR friends. In my opinion, you seem like a great girl, based on your profile. the only complaint I have is that you like Dominos and you would prolly pwn my newb @$$ in Halo 3  but she isn't asking about more friends. she's asking about heterosexual potential suitors  Caught that... I am a hetero Male, I was paying her a compliment... I was also implying that it does not matter what sexual orientation her circle of friends are for finding said suitor. And the fact that IAreRei is 19 there is plenty of time in the world to find men that are her type. NO reason to force anything. I know it sounds odd and possibly a bit soon, but the fact is.. the guys I am looking for to date I am also keeping the possibility of one day marrying them as well. Not rushing it at all but I want to have ample time to get to know them as just friends..and then if we date and such. Perhaps it is because I saw my parents marriage fail and I am just fearful that if I don't spend enough time getting to know some one, that if we did get married with not enough time to grow as friends and then lovers, that it wouldn't work out and divorce would occur. I feel so much older than 19.. and I want to have a family before I am Thirty.. and I want to live to watch them grow. I guess I don't feel like I have enough time to live my life and I know I should. |
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AH... I wouldn't worry so much about who you hang around with, your friends are YOUR friends. In my opinion, you seem like a great girl, based on your profile. the only complaint I have is that you like Dominos and you would prolly pwn my newb @$$ in Halo 3 Gamer Tag: Xlasher Pssh.. what's wrong with Dominoes? And bring your newb ass on! : D I am actually at work right now but when I get online tonight around 9 or so.. be ready for a challenge...or.. an ass-whooping. However you want to take it. So far my ratio for meeting guys on Mingle2 who have Halo 3 and lost to me is 2-0.. meaning I won twice : D and so far no man on here has beat me yet 1 v 1. I would like that, but I am going to be rolling out of here in a few hours for Denver... I have the 360 in the truck, throw ya a friend invite as soon as I can. I already sent you an invite via xbox.com So once you get online you shall see that I have sent you a friend request =P Enjoy your trip. |
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In the words of Sean Connery"Well! then it's the FairMount Hotel"  But seriously U do need 2 check yourself & initiate an entirely diff.social circle.Not 2 mention the danger of Aids/Std's that U are leaving yourself vulnerable to.Careful sweetheart. Godspeed!Cy  Aids and Std's is just as prevalent in the "straight" community.......... Of course Bonny I agree w/ your comment.That is absolutely true.I imagine my thought process veered that direction initally because statistically in Mass this group is considered a much higher risk factor then w/ a hetrosexual partner.Protection is vital in either group actually.Good point Bonny.
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Well, I'm straighter than a laser beam and I think you're pretty darn cute.
So there's a compliment from a guy who's not gay. And I have that same problem. Unfortunately just about the only people who ever hit on me are gay guys. |
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Well, I'm straighter than a laser beam and I think you're pretty darn cute. So there's a compliment from a guy who's not gay. And I have that same problem. Unfortunately just about the only people who ever hit on me are gay guys. Huzzah! : D It's good to know that I am still attractive to some straight guys out there lol Thank you hun =) And here's a compliment from a chick who is also fairly straight.. you're quite the cute one yourself. I've actually never had a chick hit on me to be honest lol. |
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So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something: I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such. My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay. The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys... And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay. WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P Do I have a problem here? Does anyone have this same issue? To be fair, the only guy you can positively identify as gay in that group of guys you mentioned, is the your first. The second "gay" identification is tenuous at best and unfair to him (and flamboyant straight men everywhere) at worst. The third told you something that at best identifies him as confused,and at worst, Bi. I think you are putting far too much energy into this worrying business; three men is hardly a sufficiently large sampling to base any sound conclusions on. You are a very attractive woman (compliment from a straight man - I promise you that!!!)and still young, you have years ahead to attract straight men and you will, so stop obsessing over the one confirmed gay boyfriend and get on with a full life. After all - it's raining men around here! |
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I've actually never had a chick hit on me to be honest lol. how U doin'. hubba hubba  
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I've actually never had a chick hit on me to be honest lol. how U doin'. hubba hubba Huzzah! There's a first : D Lol thanks hun. |
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So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something: I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such. My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay. The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys... And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay. WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P Do I have a problem here? Does anyone have this same issue? To be fair, the only guy you can positively identify as gay in that group of guys you mentioned, is the your first. The second "gay" identification is tenuous at best and unfair to him (and flamboyant straight men everywhere) at worst. The third told you something that at best identifies him as confused,and at worst, Bi. I think you are putting far too much energy into this worrying business; three men is hardly a sufficiently large sampling to base any sound conclusions on. You are a very attractive woman (compliment from a straight man - I promise you that!!!)and still young, you have years ahead to attract straight men and you will, so stop obsessing over the one confirmed gay boyfriend and get on with a full life. After all - it's raining men around here! Perhaps I cursed myself a few years ago when saying that I wished I had gay friends...and now I have plenty.. but now I just need some good straight friends/ potential boyfriend(s).. lol |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Sun 04/19/09 05:25 PM
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Hmmmmm....you speak of these men from a sexual reference, ie' their sexuality...
what is the rest of them like? Personality? Nature? Behaviours? Sex is an aspect of a relationship.... and if you, yourself, are fairly quiet, gentle natured, a little 'fragile' in appearances... as in dainty, or 'petite'...if there is an air of vulnerability to you... I can see why it appears that a pattern of men attracted to you has happened... This is not a bad thing at all, and much safer than attracting the nasty 'predator' types.. The more you learn yourself, the more you become 'solid' in who you are, and like those qualities of yourself.... the more you will find similar natured men are attracted to you. |
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My sister hates Gay men, and my Mother explained it to me.
Its because they are in competition for the same thing, Hot Guys. |
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So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something: I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such. My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay. The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys... And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay. WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P Do I have a problem here? Does anyone have this same issue? they didnt TURN gay during the relationship... they just happened to "come out". and more than likely they were bisexual as you were able to turn them on, I assume... |
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Does anyone have this same issue? My first really serious girlfriend wound up as a militant lesbian activist. Of the ones I've dated since her, I am aware of only a handful who have gone that way. Most of them were smart enough to just hate me and not the rest of my gender. |
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Does anyone have this same issue? My first really serious girlfriend wound up as a militant lesbian activist. Of the ones I've dated since her, I am aware of only a handful who have gone that way. Most of them were smart enough to just hate me and not the rest of my gender. Lex, you crack me up!
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So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something: I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such. My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay. The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys... And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay. WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P Do I have a problem here? Does anyone have this same issue? I have a problem with attracting gay men too, I mean, Dan99 is always after me ffs! |
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 Don't date this person
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stop going to gay bars
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So... I seem to have a problem.. or ...something: I feel as though I turn men gay and/or gravitate gay men to me. My first relationship ended up with my ex boyfriend turning gay and experimenting with guys and such. My second relationship... though he never came out of the closet.. I am fairly certain that he was and is gay. The last relationship I was in.. well he didn't officially go gay but he did admit that he used to think that he liked guys... And while those are the only times that relationships have gone the wrong way.. in the past two days I have two gay guys compliment me.. but it was rather obviously that they were gay. WHAT THE CRAP? Where are all the straight men? And why can't they compliment me? Not that I don't like gay guys.. but they are into guys so obviously it would never work out =P Do I have a problem here? Does anyone have this same issue? Don't feel too bad- I seem to attract incredibly flaky chicks who aren't able to come clean with their true intentions. Dealing with them is frustrating as hell. |
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Don't date this person |
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stop going to gay bars LMAO wtf? |
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