I don't understand why some men come up here and they have someone in their life. I have exchange phone numbers with this guy and we started talking on the phone some. At first I was interset in him and then I have seen him on another dating site and he was lying. Today we got into it and he went and updated his profile. On his profile it says at the moment I am dating a dark skin sister then why are you on a dating site if you are dating someone. He ask me if I will get marry again and I say yes. He was like I am not trying to get marry. It not like I am going to ask him to marry me. Some people take stuff the wrong way. This man had two profile on the other dating site. It is like he think he is all that and he is not. When we talk on the phone, he always talking about his house. He alway cuts me off. He talking about he is looking for friends only. Yeah right, he looking for a booty call. If I had a man in my life, why I want to be up here and meet men. He said in his profile I am not insecure, who said he was insecure. I believe he is and he want everybody think he got it going on and he don't. The list goes on about this guy. Some men are full of s--t. Now I know why I am single. The more older men I meet, the more stupid they are.In away I was hurt, because I thought I meet someone. I am not looking for marriage now, but I do have enought good sense to know you have to become friends before lovers. You do have to let the person know where you stand. What is up with these people on these dating site?

You will find stupid people in all walks of life, male and female, young and old.

Sorry for your inconvenience.

They are idiots!!

Your guess is as good as mine. I'm just here for the pain and suffering and abuse.

There is nothing wrong with a man or woman being here fo the forums or to make friends...

He sounds like a narcissistic jerk with no respect for his partner... He's not worthy of yours or anyone else's time....

You will meet more like him and you will meet a lot of great people so don't stress or sweat the small stuff...

I'm on here and I have a bf... but I really am only looking for friends. I also don't give out my phone # and I keep most of the chatting strictly in the forums. I also don't have myself listed on other dating sites. I only stay on this one because I enjoy the forums so much

They just want friends and fun?

Yep, and just because you have someone in your life doesn't mean you spend every minute of the day with them.
The first sentence in my profile reads.
"Just so you know , I am seeing someone"

I didn't know that. Congrats! I am happy for you!!!!

There is happiness somewhere!

Not me ... I am kinda like him in a way, but I am not going to lie about my intentions. I am here for one thing and one thing only ... I like sex, safe sex that is. If I can get in women’s drawers and we have a nice safe time, then I have accomplished my goal here. There are relationships that the couple loves each other but sex has died out or one of the people just can't produce due to some medical condition or something and leaving their loved one is not an option. He or she should be allowed to release that pressure with a consenting adult. Now that's word...........

and that's forealness.

NO that is wrong!

Okay you are in a relationship and you only come up here, because you enjoy the forums. That all good, but when you have someone in your life and you going on dating sites and you are not on the forum, you have a problem. The guy have lied and now he try to change it around. What it was is that he thought he was going to get some booty and that was it. That is not going to happen and if I needed sex, I don't need to come up here to get it. He don't have any respect for his lady. One thing I hate about some men is they alway bragging about their ladys then why are you out here cheating. If someone was to ask me, is being online chatting with the opposite sex was cheating then I would say yes. How would anyone feel if their bf/gf or whatever did that to them. He was the first and the last I will exchange numbers with.

There are liars and cheaters everywhere and in all areas of life.

Do not let the bad ruin it for the (FEW) good ones.

im only here for the free beer ~
what there is no beer ????? {damn}

You are right. They are online and not online and I should have known better.

Let's all sing Scrub together!

*I don't want your number (no)
I don't want to give you mine and (no)
I don't want to meet you nowhere (no)
I don't want none of your time and (no)

I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me
I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hanging out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holler at me

But a scrub is checkin' me
But his game is kinda weak
And I know that he cannot approach me
Cuz I'm lookin' like class and he's lookin' like trash
Can't get wit' no deadbeat

Beer

Ahem:

Ooooh, Ooooh
A pigeon is a be walking by
Wearing dark blue brand new sparkling five
Her feet hurt so you know she wants a ride
Cause she's frontin' like she can't say hi
What?

(Uh, oh) Your chicks ain't getting nada
(Uh, oh) A pigeon ain't worth the Ramada
(Uh, oh) Anyway your friend looks hotter
(Uh, oh) A game is something we got a lot of

I don't want no pigeons
Them be the s who get no dubs from me
Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me

In the front of the club I see this like, "Yo love"
Thought she called me a thug
A scrub? What? This must be a joke
Broke Pigeonhead freak, you're lucky I spoke

This ain't my Benz there, it's my man, yeah
But this ain't my car like that ain't your hair

(Uh, oh) Pigeon, take your friend's shoes off
(Uh, oh) Pigeon, take your fake jewels off
(Oh, oh) Pigeon, to hell with that crazy bit
Y'all make me sick,
Go home and babysit!

My big dogs don't like this
Concur , get a brush and scrub this.

I don't want no pigeons
Them be the s who get no dubs from me
Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me

I don't want no pigeons
Them be the s who get no dubs from me
Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me

Yo, chill cousin, these birds is I'll cousin
Cause they call me scrub like I can't even bill cousin
Trick Donald's, you ain't worth the McDonalds
Throw you on the street make you spit vinyls and

Hey yo Flex, shorty tried to flash me wrong
How you gonna wear sandals with those corns?
That be wrong
I'm gonna play cards
In the dirty draws with the skidmarks

More than one baby father
(Oh yes , we're talkin to you)
If you strip all week to go clubbing
(Oh yes , we're talkin to you)
Buy a dress to front and take it back to the store
(Oh yes , we's talkin to you)
You wanna smoke with me, with no money?
Oh no, I don't want no

No pigeons,
No pigeons.

I don't want no pigeons
Them be the s who get no dubs from me
Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me

(No pigeons) I don't want no pigeons
Them be the s who get no dubs from me
(No pigeons) Playing the bar dumb broke with her best friend's coat
Trying to holler at me