i didnt say that i said i dont want to make chit chat with people FOR NOTHING, read the whole thing before you critisize

I could never get on with the whole process of trying to get talking to women online. After a couple of dozen emails that didnt really get anywhere, i pretty much gave up trying. Instead i just made myself known within the forums and after a while, the emails did start coming to me. Over the last few years, the majority of conversations i have gotten in were not started by me.

One way or another, if you want a good chance of meeting someone, you gotta advertise. You can do it by contacting people directly, or you can make a name for yourself through posting. But if you sit back just waiting for ladies to contact you without doing anything at all, you are relying on A LOT of luck.

i was on here like every day posting all the time for a couple months but got tired of it, cause yea i made friends, but i didnt really know them i knew theyre cyber personality, i guess this internet dating isnt right for me!!

This isn't a dating site! Is it?

haha u serious man lol

I don't think it is because i've never got any emails from any ladies

Hey, Hinkle. . .good to see ya posting again! Welcome Back!

yea ive been in and out for about 2 months now its been kinda busy for me!! but it is good to see everyone again!!

internet dating...lmfao...

I just blow kisses at every decent looking single chick in a 15 mile radius of my location. There is a damn good chance a few will like your profile.

Life is ending. Fast. My newest philosophy is "man-whore it up".

will you be my e-girlfriend? we can giggle at each other via webcam whilst remaining virgins.

perhaps...
a. your pic shows you as couple.
b. I'm pretty sure you've no idea what punctuation is.

Do you talk like that? How do you breath?

If that is your philosophy why not be more inventive than just blowing kisses? You would get a better response if you could tailor a message suited for each one, based on their profile.

Is this the part where you sit back and wait for zillions of women to throw themselves at your feet???

I wanna give up my turn........pass

I am by no means the prettiest guy on this site... I get messages all the time... play with your profile some.

Same here. I learned pretty quickly that it's a complete waste of time trying to send out first messages -- it doesn't even matter if you actually DO have something to say, or how well you're able to say it.

I don't write anybody first anymore.

And, after I was here for awhile, and got "known," then people started writing to me. In large numbers, as it turns out. Nobody within 897,000 miles, but still....



It always amazes me when I see the posts from people who say "I met THE ONE on this site!" and they signed up three days ago and this is their first post. I do have to wonder how that happens, when I've been here 2 1/2 years and have yet to meet anyone. Oh well....I suppose it's partly bad luck, partly the fact that none of the local people on the site ever use the forums, and partly the fact that I'm not domesticatable....

It's not surprising with all the people who are refusing to write to each other first that, of all the sites of which I've been a member, this is definitely the one where I receive the least amount of email, and it's less than 1 or 2 random emails a week. Granted, my profile is written in such a way as to deter email, but that hasn't stopped them on other sites.

If "no"s were bullets, I'd look like a spaghetti strainer...

If the lack of interest were taken personal, I be a preacher...

If you whine about it, you come across as weak
If you don't care, you're crass
If you make a comment, you're chauvenistic

Man up like the rest of us and just deal with the hand dealt to you. You're a man and basically, it's a woman's world since they are what you are pursuing, right? This too will pass.....













When you're about 65,,, lmao