nice new pic! very fresh air! how are ya?

I am good...tired. Thank you, kind sir

let's just say this........what were you aiming for in that statement? a friendship? we need as many friends as we can get, no matter who you think they are. i'd back you up if you were in trouble, and right now, i'm backing up fear and smiller, and an appologies i'm sure would be accepted at this point, but not past this for them. i never judge on any impression, so you can be always straight with me....friend.

Yep, I third that nomination.

me too, i helped my ex move yesterday, and had to put up with her pushy, trying to bully, fiance.... i wanted to drop furniture on him, but i refrained and i'm moving stuff of mine in storage about ready myself for bed.

I am glad that you didn't hurt the guy! And it was very nice of you to be such a big help to her


OP - this is the kind of wonderful people you meet on mingle! They are the best!!

I completely agree with you on this one. I went from being plus size to being thin and it was amazing how many guys that didn't even look my way before were all of the sudden trying to ask me out. I am a big girl again :) and I think it is easier to meet a guys that aren't so shallow, looking for beauty without the brains as a plus size woman. You can always lose weight after getting into a relationship, at least you will know what the foundation of your relationship is truly based on.

Confidence is what makes a woman attractive. Be proud of who you are no matter what!!!!

thanks for the compliment! and i do try to help anyone when i can, even my enemies if i had any. he's just threatened that's all. i can at least see that far, lol.

you're a chef!

i'd marry you on that alone, if i swung that way

i agree on your thoughts about solidity on the relationships, in fact when one does lose the weight, it's usually the guy that loses his confidence, so he'd be best gettin busy with himself, getting in shape too, or you'd have to give him reassurance so he doesn't fall apart, lol.

That's just one more thing you could do together in the relationship! If you get in shape together, you already know where your relationship stands, you are doing it for each other and for yourselves not anyone else!!

cheers! awesome one! it's mandatory for the long run, and nobody has to be in a hurry, we have all our lives, but it's better sooner than later, for all concerned.

That's fukcin' cold Audie. There's a point of discretion before being brutally honest, being just plain brutal, and just keeping your damn mouth shut.

Vegas is right. We all got something to be picked apart for. Perhaps that's yours. Mine is that I'm shy and don't have a clue how to approach women in public. We all got something but we don't need ourselves picked apart in our moments of desparation such as joining a website looking for prospects of love.

OP, I notice you have something like 25 posts after joining the site like 2 months ago. I hope you're trying harder in the private messaging sector than you do here in the forums. If not, you're not putting enough effort into finding someone. They don't just come crawling after you out of the woodwork. If you are sending lots of messages and it's not working for you, seriously, try the forums. The more attention you score here, the more attention you score in your private inbox.

Agreed, I would like to lose weight, Im not ready yet, and am a little shyer first when getting naked, but i feel sexy, and for sure, I wish I could work out with my partner. Im happy either way. Lifes too short. xo

We have some of the sweetest guys here on Mingle....(and some rude ones, but ignore them. They ain't worth the time it takes to type a response.) Show that pretty smile more in the forums here and you will have your choice of guys in no time. I am definitely a plus size woman and I found the man of my dreams here on this site.

Good luck to you and keep your head held high----that way you will over-look the *worms*.


*{guys not worth your time....}

I'm sorry. I can't do BBBW. Not since that movie 'Big mommas house' came out. Martin lawrence scarred me for life.

uhhhh, yep

There are some BBW dating sites online! Check'em out, SISTA! I happen to be a size 12/14 myself, sure i could starve myself down to a SKINNY size 8, but i would rather be a little meaty plump than give up My chips & salsa. I do try to have a fairly healthy diet ~ skim milk, cook with olive oil, whole wheat bread, love fresh fruit & juices, etc....

Thank you.

i not going to lose any weight because that would justb say that i am doing it just to please a man. I should lose it for my self and no body else