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 love is a choice
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Can someone who falls out of love with you fall back in love with you? I say yes. You just need to find the sparks and relight the fire. |
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A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person |
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Yes...I've personally experienced this...
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I think if they fall back in love with you, they had never really fallen out of love in the first place. 
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People change, perspectives change and sometimes for the better. Love is an emotion that requires action to find it and keep it. Yes I think you can *fall* again if you choose to acknowledge the emotion and do the loving things. Maybe you just might appreciate them more than before.
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Can someone who falls out of love with you fall back in love with you? Not bloody likely, unless they want something from you. And that's hardly what anybody would consider to be "love". |
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People change, perspectives change and sometimes for the better. Love is an emotion that requires action to find it and keep it. Yes I think you can *fall* again if you choose to acknowledge the emotion and do the loving things. Maybe you just might appreciate them more than before. 
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Sure, why not? You fall once, what's to keep you from falling again?
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Can someone who falls out of love with you fall back in love with you? Not bloody likely, unless they want something from you. And that's hardly what anybody would consider to be "love". I'm afraid I agree with the above more than anything...    
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Sure, why not? You fall once, what's to keep you from falling again? all the crap that happened in between, I suppose.... 
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Yes, I believe that a person can fall in and out of love again with the same person. You will not always be head-over-heels in love with your mate. Time and life sometimes gets in the way. Love is an emotion that needs care and nurturing to make it stay fresh. Sometimes you just need to stop and re-kindle the sparks before the coals go all the way out.
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Edited by
HappyFella
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Wed 05/13/09 10:06 PM
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I guess it comes down to that rather simple question 'what is love'.
When I love, it is unchanging e.g. I still love my ex loads... I believe it is the same in her in feelings for me.... we just don't get on (or like each other much of the time). But my love for her doesn't change. I think often it is too easy to think of love as all the nice parts which happen near the begining of a relationship.... So to answer your question... I don't think it ever goes away but how much you like the person differs greatly, and the two are very much connected when it comes to the feelings we have. |
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Sure, why not? You fall once, what's to keep you from falling again? 
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Sure, why not? You fall once, what's to keep you from falling again? all the crap that happened in between, I suppose.... Sometimes you have to put the past in the past. Then again, some situations are much worse than others. |
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Sure, why not? You fall once, what's to keep you from falling again? all the crap that happened in between, I suppose.... Sometimes you have to put the past in the past. Then again, some situations are much worse than others.
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I think once you truly love someone you will always have certain feelings for them and a connection... Even if it ended horribly and you really don't like some of the things they have done... I think after you forgive someone that has hurt you... You still care for their well being.. It is still part of you... an echo of the past.. Not something you dwell on but it is still there in a sense...
I think people can get back together if they were once in love... I think it's about truly forgiving the other person and seeing they have changed and you have changed your behaviors that made you break up in the first place and that you have new communication skills and a reborn friendship... ...But unfortunately when you brake up it's for good reason and some people just aren't willing to do the work to repair and or their personality turns out to just not mesh with yours... |
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i am magnetic that way...yes sireee...
as long as they have patience and understanding.. |
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I think once you truly love someone you will always have certain feelings for them and a connection... Even if it ended horribly and you really don't like some of the things they have done... I think after you forgive someone that has hurt you... You still care for their well being.. It is still part of you... an echo of the past.. Not something you dwell on but it is still there in a sense... I think people can get back together if they were once in love... I think it's about truly forgiving the other person and seeing they have changed and you have changed your behaviors that made you break up in the first place and that you have new communication skills and a reborn friendship... ...But unfortunately when you brake up it's for good reason and some people just aren't willing to do the work to repair and or their personality turns out to just not mesh with yours... 
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