Girl, and boy know each other 6 mos. They meet online, and talk, and text all that time.. both are agreed, and understood each other see other people, date, whatever.

Girl is in middle of texting boy,and another boy texts her. She says shes busy, 2nd boy hassles her, she sends text to 2nd boy saying.. "call or dont call, ive lived this long without you."

Boy number one recieves that text by accident.

Girl realises immediately she sent the text to the wrong person.

Girl tells boy 1 "sorry, that was meant for someone else."



Boy 1 totally flips out.. "your talking to someone else"?

"you want someone else to call you"?

"your talking to someone else the way you talk to me".?

Hes very upset.

Boy 1 after vigorous reassurance, is upset with girl 2 days now..Saying things like "go call the other guy" and "im in bed with 3 other women right now."

What is going on with boy 1. We have an understanding... I dont understand. Whats he saying? He denies being in love with girl, doesnt want to be exclusive(says so when prompted).. What does he really want? How does boy really feel?

Girl confoosed.

the key word here is "boy"

tell boy one to get over it and call boy 3.that's me

His ego was hurt. He may be okay with you seeing other people as long as it is out of sight, out of mind, and not serious. The message you meant for guy 2 implied a long-term connection. Long term connection possibly adds up to serious in guy one's mind.

I finally said to boy 1.. "your in love with me".. he said Im crazy.

^ I agree with the above..

Lol might have to...

I have found that anytime you... "both are agreed, and understood each other see other people, date, whatever..." that someone is not going to along with it and people get hurt.

Saying it and meaning it are two different things.

yep

Even though I know I didnt wrong boy 1.. I still apologised a whole lot, ad was totally destroyed for 2 days knowing I hurt him.

well if theres no ring on your finger and you both agred to see other people then i dont understand the problem... tell him not to be a wet flapping douche bag grow and move on....it sounds like he likes highschool drama

but i understand his pain haha my ex is dating another guy named ryan and thats my name aswell and she "accidently" texted me with some nasty **** and i was just like what? and she said oops sorry wrong ryan, i think she did it on purpose crazy *****!

even though I love him, after hearing that, I feel a little better oddly.. he was so mean to me today 'i dont care if u "f*ck half of Texas". What mixed messages! Hes being so mean.

F...ing with you and playing games to get control of you. Making you feel guilty when you did nothing wrong. Don't apologize any more. He needs to, not you. If he does, procede with caution. If he doesn't, f... him. You are in the the right and can do much better than that.

Yep, he is insecure. This is one of the main problems with the "open relationship" and typically why it doesn't work out in the long-run or lead to anything aside from an argument...in my opinion, you're in or you're out, there is no "open relationship".

Mmm also high school bs

Ok, woah! You "love him" but your seeing other people? Yeah, that's an odd sounding kind of love to me.

yes she did

i would leave him alone its already drama and you have knwon him how long? dont appologize for crap then he knows your in his pocket, tell him like it or leave it buddy sorry its obvious i can get other men why are you special?

I have al different kinds of love for all kinds of people.. my mother, my friends, my dogs.. yes love..