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Topic: What do ya think?
earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/16/09 03:48 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sat 05/16/09 03:49 PM
i would leave him alone its already drama and you have knwon him how long? dont appologize for crap then he knows your in his pocket, tell him like it or leave it buddy sorry its obvious i can get other men why are you special? O hes for sure not getting another text from me after his bs today, hell have kiss my ass and apologise before THAT happens, i apologised yesterday, today i told him.. ok.. good luck.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 05/16/09 03:49 PM
His ego was hurt. He may be okay with you seeing other people as long as it is out of sight, out of mind, and not serious. The message you meant for guy 2 implied a long-term connection. Long term connection possibly adds up to serious in guy one's mind. Yep, he is insecure. This is one of the main problems with the "open relationship" and typically why it doesn't work out in the long-run or lead to anything aside from an argument...in my opinion, you're in or you're out, there is no "open relationship". It's not love.

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Sat 05/16/09 03:49 PM
well if theres no ring on your finger and you both agred to see other people then i dont understand the problem... tell him not to be a wet flapping douche bag grow and move on....it sounds like he likes highschool drama even though I love him, after hearing that, I feel a little better oddly.. he was so mean to me today 'i dont care if u "f*ck half of Texas". What mixed messages! Hes being so mean. Ok, woah! You "love him" but your seeing other people? Yeah, that's an odd sounding kind of love to me. I have al different kinds of love for all kinds of people.. my mother, my friends, my dogs.. yes love.. Hmm... ok. I guess I just have an old fashioned view on "love".

soloplustwo Joined Mon 05/11/09 Posts: 141	Sat 05/16/09 03:52 PM
maybe he just gives you attention doll... trust me tell him to fuc@ off hes just a guy and there are plenty of us out there i promise.. be paitient

coz1976 Joined Sun 07/13/08 Posts: 1196	Sat 05/16/09 03:54 PM Edited by coz1976 on Sat 05/16/09 03:55 PM
well if theres no ring on your finger and you both agred to see other people then i dont understand the problem... tell him not to be a wet flapping douche bag grow and move on....it sounds like he likes highschool drama even though I love him, after hearing that, I feel a little better oddly.. he was so mean to me today 'i dont care if u "f*ck half of Texas". What mixed messages! Hes being so mean. Ok, woah! You "love him" but your seeing other people? Yeah, that's an odd sounding kind of love to me. [/quote I have al different kinds of love for all kinds of people.. my mother, my friends, my dogs.. yes love.. Hmm... ok. I guess I just have an old fashioned view on "love". yeah old fashions out and new fashions in

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/16/09 03:56 PM
maybe he just gives you attention doll... trust me tell him to fuc@ off hes just a guy and there are plenty of us out there i promise.. be paitient Thanks.. well i would love to think so. yeah, at my age I cant deal with freaking out on this crap too long.. i can only extend myself as far as someone else does, I just wonder what really goes through his head.. as far as "open relationships".. to me its the same as dating.. no exclusivity, and doesnt have to be, i dont think one should have to put all the eggs in one basket if shes just checking people out, going out and having a good time. To me dating is important. Im not just giving myself fully to one person until they prove themselves, or say they want commitment with me. ps.. were not having sex, never have.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 05/16/09 03:59 PM
He's hurt and not handling it well. How would you feel if it had happened to you?

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/16/09 04:01 PM
He's hurt and not handling it well. How would you feel if it had happened to you? I would expect it... I know hes with, and talks to others. It also was a tell off to someone else.. he should of been pleased in my view.

soloplustwo Joined Mon 05/11/09 Posts: 141	Sat 05/16/09 04:06 PM
are you sure he sees others and isnt just saying it to upset you..or make you jealous cause he might think your siiting at home.... well my advice dear is to run in the other direction take it from a guy PLEASE!! you will find someoneits ther just go out and be the life of a crowd... its called the peacock theory if you stand out and are above the other women then you will get attention. if you sit there in a crowd quietly what makes me think that your better then any other one of the women around you.... the biggest thing a man looks and notices is a big smile and laugh

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Sat 05/16/09 04:10 PM
He's hurt and not handling it well. How would you feel if it had happened to you? I would expect it... I know hes with, and talks to others. It also was a tell off to someone else.. he should of been pleased in my view. It's one thing to know about it and it's another to have it in your face. Just saying.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/16/09 04:10 PM
are you sure he sees others and isnt just saying it to upset you..or make you jealous cause he might think your siiting at home.... well my advice dear is to run in the other direction take it from a guy PLEASE!! you will find someoneits ther just go out and be the life of a crowd... its called the peacock theory if you stand out and are above the other women then you will get attention. if you sit there in a crowd quietly what makes me think that your better then any other one of the women around you.... the biggest thing a man looks and notices is a big smile and laugh he knows im seeing others, weve discussed it plenty.. hes a big baby.. he knows im never home.. ive wondered does he really see a girl, he said he does many times.. asked me if im col with it.. i said yes, no problem, ive always been cool with him, i figure if i am the best in his eyes, hell want to commit, and then ill measure my feelings then. I dot know, ive done all i want to do now.. I just think he must be crazy about me.

soloplustwo Joined Mon 05/11/09 Posts: 141	Sat 05/16/09 04:18 PM
maybe he is into you... but it sounds weird i would just let it go and see what happends if hes crazy then run

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21441	Sat 05/16/09 04:25 PM
I believe you are both playing with peoples emotions and that one day it will come back and bite you.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Sat 05/16/09 04:31 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Sat 05/16/09 04:36 PM
I believe you are both playing with peoples emotions and that one day it will come back and bite you. Doubtful.. thats what dating is.. spending time with others, its not marriage.. everyones not for everyone..

now69 Joined Mon 06/02/08 Posts: 428	Sun 05/17/09 06:34 AM
old saying... Dont burn the candle on both ends.. Come on..Think about it.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sun 05/17/09 06:37 AM
I believe you are both playing with peoples emotions and that one day it will come back and bite you. Doubtful.. thats what dating is.. spending time with others, its not marriage.. everyones not for everyone.. I finally got you! You like having back burner people don't you? Love or dating, which is it? Do you love everyone you come into contact with? You are sending off mixed signals in your relationships and here. I think you would be doing guy one a favor by stopping "loving" him. Let the poor bastard move on.