Topic: How long can you date without sex?
Annet's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:21 PM
If I like a guy and it's mutual, it happens within six dates. If I'm not interested, we will break on my part. Am I wrong with this dating scene? I want to be right. I go out here and there and sometimes it'll be three or four dates without interest and then we fall apart which is o.k. by me as I'm really not attracted.
I would like courtship but it never works that way.

Thanks.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:22 PM
I've gone on many dates without sex.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:24 PM
Forever I wish. So over sex.

no photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:24 PM
i dont have a set limit per se, since i havent gone on any dates, however i would maybe say 6-10

metalwing's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:25 PM
I've gone on many many dates without sex.

s1owhand's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:25 PM
laugh

Indefinitely...But WHY?!

laugh

no photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:25 PM
I don't think there is a right or wrong answer. Just do whatever you feel comfortable doing.

Gumbyvs's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:26 PM
I just go with it, no expectations, whatever happens, happens.

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:26 PM
I do not think there is a given number to go by. It is all up to the 2 people involved for they are the only 2 who truly know when that time is right! It's just something the 2 know without even having to say it. The guy may know it after 1 date, but if he is good at reading body language and is a gentleman, he will know that if the woman is not ready he will wait. Good things come to those who wait!

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:27 PM
Meh. Just depends on her for the most part.

If she wants to wait a bit...no big deal.

I will say this though. Let a guy try saying " I just want to wait " when the woman is the one who wants it....yer gonna get more backlash than you ever thought possible....lol

s1owhand's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:28 PM

If I like a guy and it's mutual, it happens within six dates. If I'm not interested, we will break on my part. Am I wrong with this dating scene? I want to be right. I go out here and there and sometimes it'll be three or four dates without interest and then we fall apart which is o.k. by me as I'm really not attracted.
I would like courtship but it never works that way.

Thanks.


Ok Ok...

I subscribe to the tantric dating principle. Put off the sex as long as you can stand it. Then when you can't stand it any longer....Put it off just a little bit more. Then? Well, we're only human!!

bigsmile

But do it slowly.

devil

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Sat 06/06/09 02:29 PM

Meh. Just depends on her for the most part.

If she wants to wait a bit...no big deal.

I will say this though. Let a guy try saying " I just want to wait " when the woman is the one who wants it....yer gonna get more backlash than you ever thought possible....lol
true :laughing: but it depends on the circumstances.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:30 PM

If I like a guy and it's mutual, it happens within six dates. If I'm not interested, we will break on my part. Am I wrong with this dating scene? I want to be right. I go out here and there and sometimes it'll be three or four dates without interest and then we fall apart which is o.k. by me as I'm really not attracted.
I would like courtship but it never works that way.

Thanks.



flowerforyou I focus on just being a pleasant person to go on a date with and I don't think about sex.flowerforyou

s1owhand's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:34 PM


If I like a guy and it's mutual, it happens within six dates. If I'm not interested, we will break on my part. Am I wrong with this dating scene? I want to be right. I go out here and there and sometimes it'll be three or four dates without interest and then we fall apart which is o.k. by me as I'm really not attracted.
I would like courtship but it never works that way.

Thanks.



flowerforyou I focus on just being a pleasant person to go on a date with and I don't think about sex.flowerforyou


me neither...

I almost SEX never SEXsexSEX think about DOING IT over and over and over again when we are just SEX talking and looking at each other sex and wondering if she kisses oral sex sweetly or jumping each other is some kind of crazy inferno SEX waiting to happen orgasm.

drinker

Annet's photo
Sat 06/06/09 02:54 PM


If I like a guy and it's mutual, it happens within six dates. If I'm not interested, we will break on my part. Am I wrong with this dating scene? I want to be right. I go out here and there and sometimes it'll be three or four dates without interest and then we fall apart which is o.k. by me as I'm really not attracted.
I would like courtship but it never works that way.

Thanks.



flowerforyou I focus on just being a pleasant person to go on a date with and I don't think about sex.flowerforyou

Mirror, it just happens. A sexual being attracted to another being. I do expect him to be mine after that. If not, my horns make me the angriest person. Adult like, I can't expect the one thing I expect from him. I'm his one and only.

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/06/09 03:14 PM
well..I can't really speak of going to dates, because I haven't gone to any dates for 8 months.....and come to think of it...I had like 4-5 dates all together that didn't work out (so, minus my ex girlfriends), and out of those dates I would say I only had sex with 2.


no photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:29 AM
as long or short as it takes with the specific connection.

a woman(!) made me think when she said 'in the end, whether we have sex the first day or in six months won't decide if we'll stay together'

hmm

bastet126's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:33 AM
i say, have sex immediately, if you're not compatible there, it ain't gonna work :tongue: ((okay...and i am kidding...a little bit :wink: ))

no photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:36 AM
about...........15 minutes..........



ok.....


truth is sex is something special for me.....gotta feel something for her........

so ....


as long as it takes!!!!!!!!!!!

ReddBeans's photo
Sun 06/07/09 09:38 AM
I have no set time table. It happens when we're both ready. shades