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Topic: Why must guys send messages to girls who aren't interested?
laprincessatx Joined Sun 07/19/09 Posts: 1	Mon 07/27/09 12:59 AM
(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 01:00 AM
They message everyone, not just lesbians. I think they message guys too. Just ignore them and block them, that's what I do. Welcome to mingle.

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Mon 07/27/09 07:30 AM
Lot's of people only look at the pic & not the profile...shrug It ain't no big thang... Guess it's better than having to start a thread about not getting any mail at all, eh?

catseyes1 Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 1459	Mon 07/27/09 07:36 AM
Just delete them, no biggie.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76382	Mon 07/27/09 07:55 AM
Hummm just curious how are they suppose to know that your not interested at all. Since the fact you do in fact list you have dated both men/women in the past. Even though your only looking for women as friends at the moment hard to say one would not consider more if the right one showed up. Could that not be just maybe what they were thinking as well. Hey some figure it is worth a try for you never know till you do try. JMO

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 07/27/09 07:59 AM
Hummm just curious how are they suppose to know that your not interested at all. Since the fact you do in fact list you have dated both men/women in the past. Even though your only looking for women as friends at the moment hard to say one would not consider more if the right one showed up. Could that not be just maybe what they were thinking as well. Hey some figure it is worth a try for you never know till you do try. JMO If someone says they're looking for a woman for dating, that's probably what they're looking for. Guys thinking she will change her mind are reaching a bit. Most likely, the guys are not even looking at her profile before emailing her.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Mon 07/27/09 07:59 AM
(First time posting in the forums) Is it just me or are there a lot of Indian guys who message the lesbians wanting to communicate? I've gotten three tonight and even more over the course of the last week or so. in hopes of a threesome someday.

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Mon 07/27/09 08:00 AM
Lot's of people only look at the pic & not the profile...shrug It ain't no big thang... Guess it's better than having to start a thread about not getting any mail at all, eh? i thought if i posted said thread, i would only bring about mails from indian men

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76382	Mon 07/27/09 08:06 AM
Hummm just curious how are they suppose to know that your not interested at all. Since the fact you do in fact list you have dated both men/women in the past. Even though your only looking for women as friends at the moment hard to say one would not consider more if the right one showed up. Could that not be just maybe what they were thinking as well. Hey some figure it is worth a try for you never know till you do try. JMO If someone says they're looking for a woman for dating, that's probably what they're looking for. Guys thinking she will change her mind are reaching a bit. Most likely, the guys are not even looking at her profile before emailing her. But............as I stated she says that she has dated both men/women the profiles only let you choose either or not both. And there are a lot of guys that like to date women that are bi am I not right?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 07/27/09 08:10 AM
Hummm just curious how are they suppose to know that your not interested at all. Since the fact you do in fact list you have dated both men/women in the past. Even though your only looking for women as friends at the moment hard to say one would not consider more if the right one showed up. Could that not be just maybe what they were thinking as well. Hey some figure it is worth a try for you never know till you do try. JMO If someone says they're looking for a woman for dating, that's probably what they're looking for. Guys thinking she will change her mind are reaching a bit. Most likely, the guys are not even looking at her profile before emailing her. But............as I stated she says that she has dated both men/women the profiles only let you choose either or not both. And there are a lot of guys that like to date women that are bi am I not right? I'm sure there are a lot of men who are hoping to get a chance to date someone who is bi.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76382	Mon 07/27/09 08:14 AM
I'm sure there are a lot of men who are hoping to get a chance to date someone who is bi. Hehehe no doubt your right there but ... that is what I was trying to point out hey you can't down them for trying can you?

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Mon 07/27/09 08:15 AM
i just want a women without a voicebox is there a categary for that? nooooooo

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 07/27/09 08:16 AM
Hmmm why not ask THEM. I mean really how is anybody but them supposed to know? Not liking it, then tell them and move on. Not a big deal. Just because you are not interested in them as a dating partner, does not mean that friends cannot be made. And unless you are talking about people from idea, then I do believe the correct term is NATIVE not Indian.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Mon 07/27/09 08:16 AM
i just want a women without a voicebox is there a categary for that? nooooooo Ya Ive been looking for my blind/deaf/mute guy too but to no avail!!

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Mon 07/27/09 08:22 AM
That wont solve anything. She'd just flap about with alternative gestures n such. perhaps some comfy earplugs. like watching a silent movie? excellent.. it just sounds like fun to me

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 07/27/09 08:22 AM
I'm sure there are a lot of men who are hoping to get a chance to date someone who is bi. Do they taste better than straight ones? Err...what I meant was...oh son of a...

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 07/27/09 09:15 AM
Hmmm why not ask THEM. I mean really how is anybody but them supposed to know? Not liking it, then tell them and move on. Not a big deal. Just because you are not interested in them as a dating partner, does not mean that friends cannot be made. And unless you are talking about people from idea, then I do believe the correct term is NATIVE not Indian. I'm pretty sure she means people from India. I get them all the time, I think they think I'm one of them when I have my leg pic up and they never bother to read the ethnicity, LOL

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 07/27/09 09:15 AM
at least someone's running some game

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/27/09 09:51 AM
These things happen, some people complain about the emails the get & some complain about emails they don't get..... it's a free site

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 07/27/09 09:59 AM
Hmmm why not ask THEM. I mean really how is anybody but them supposed to know? Not liking it, then tell them and move on. Not a big deal. Just because you are not interested in them as a dating partner, does not mean that friends cannot be made. And unless you are talking about people from idea, then I do believe the correct term is NATIVE not Indian. She probably is talking about people who are actually from India. So, using the term "Indian" is fine.