I honestly can not figure out why some women feel the need to cheat? Does anyone have an idea or something that could fill me and the other men in?

I have no ides...
Welcome anyway

They feel bored
Unwanted
something is lacking in their eyes
they don't feel as committed
That's what I came up with


Now, it's your turn to tell me why men cheat



Oh yes, welcome

yeah I think writer_gurl has it.

something is missing in the relationship or they are just nasty like that.

I miss the Maury show now.

Your all right. Mentality differs from person to person. I never had any complaints though. Anyways, thank you all for the welcome. Oh man Redhead. If you only knew how nasty some of these relationships were.

Men cheat too! I can personally say I've never cheated, but have been cheated on. I could ask you the same question... Why do men feel the need to cheat?

March Ides may be?

Guys do it,

Girls do it,

Even Chimpanzees in the zoos do it!

Men and women cheat.

We are all dogs to some degree.

Even I have had my temptations while in relationships.

It hurts but all you can do is move on with your life and hopefully learn from the experience.

Usually it is better to focus on yourself sometimes and not fall into the whole "Why ME?" thing.

Relationships come and go just like the weather. Sometimes they are good and sometimes they are bad.

Sounds like you have a thing for superficial and self centered women. Try changing some of your perspective criteria but do not lower your standards.

That and patience and coming from me...

...that is saying A LOT!!!

Other than that...


Onward through the fog!

Don't you mean, "why some women and some men cheat"?

no, he clearly said why do women cheat...

well actually he said "why some women feel the need to cheat?"

There is no way I could answer that question hense I have never cheated on any woman I have been with.

I assume men do because they can, the woman is not open to things the man is and so forth.

Well...Lady and Quiet....I think that he forgot that men do it too.

I have heard a lot of reasons why cheaters say they cheat but what is consistent is many say it has very little to do with the person being cheated on.

Usually it is boredom. Sometimes it is just so easy. Desire for excitement or romance. Anonomous sex. Drug addiction. Desire to feel popular. Fear of ageing. Attention junkies.

Personally I think a lot of it is an inner generational learned behavior. If someones parents cheat, you can just about count on them either cheating or ditching you. If their peers cheat you might as well make the fix up.

What knocks me out is the number of fools who think that they will be the one who someone cheats with but who will not be cheated on.

Only slightly brighter are the ones who date a known cheater. People who do this kind of behavior are really pretty obvious. Serial relationships. Sometimes a clear reputatation as a cheat. If a female is being passed over by your peers there is probably a good reason. Most men won't be that big a crybaby to tell you the whole story on why you shouldn't date someone but if they are subtle suggesting this is not the greatest choice catch on. And if your gal pals are decidely cool or tell you they don't like her don't just chalk it off to jealousy.

the sad thing... I do know.

I am told even penguin females cheap I mean cheat too

Thats because ALL woman are players and you got played. Ducks and runs.....

Yeah I have no idea, why people cheat. The line I always get is they aren't ready for a long term relationship, but I had been dating them a year or more or a little less than a year. It sucks, but just gotta find someone who is real, and has values and looks at themselfs with a higher value than cheating on someone.

i think weve all been through our doozies....the important part is not letting it affect how you treat your future relationship(s)



and welcome.