Topic: Would You Tell Them How You Feel?
Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:12 PM



well for the record it's kinda freaky when it does happen scared


yea, but can't ya get past that and be good friends? My gay friend is my bud..I trust him more than most of my female friends.


oh yeah thats not a problem and its also flattering but the one's i mean really go for it scared


oh, like wanting to convert ya...whoa

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:13 PM

smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


I'm in love with Fifer...and he is gay. Might just work if I can get my *** to Scotland.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:14 PM

same as if they are str8 for me, hope and dream love i'd chat them up but then i chat anybody up!
flowerforyou

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Tue 08/18/09 05:16 PM




well for the record it's kinda freaky when it does happen scared


yea, but can't ya get past that and be good friends? My gay friend is my bud..I trust him more than most of my female friends.


oh yeah thats not a problem and its also flattering but the one's i mean really go for it scared


oh, like wanting to convert ya...whoa


yeah, drunk wimmen who don't 'believe' u freak me out, lol

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Tue 08/18/09 05:17 PM


smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


I'm in love with Fifer...and he is gay. Might just work if I can get my *** to Scotland.


i was even thinkin how alike we are too - emotionally sterile!

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:18 PM





well for the record it's kinda freaky when it does happen scared


yea, but can't ya get past that and be good friends? My gay friend is my bud..I trust him more than most of my female friends.


oh yeah thats not a problem and its also flattering but the one's i mean really go for it scared


oh, like wanting to convert ya...whoa


yeah, drunk wimmen who don't 'believe' u freak me out, lol
laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:19 PM



smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


I'm in love with Fifer...and he is gay. Might just work if I can get my *** to Scotland.


i was even thinkin how alike we are too - emotionally sterile!


But that really isn't my fault.rofl

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Tue 08/18/09 05:20 PM




smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


I'm in love with Fifer...and he is gay. Might just work if I can get my *** to Scotland.


i was even thinkin how alike we are too - emotionally sterile!


But that really isn't my fault.rofl


nor mine rofl

TxsSun's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:37 PM
I would tell because I tell everything but wouldn't expect anything to change.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 09:15 PM

I would tell because I tell everything but wouldn't expect anything to change.
flowerforyou

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Tue 08/18/09 09:17 PM

smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


Nuh-uh. If they're battin' for the "other team", they're battin' for the other team. No amount of wussy emotion-spilling will change any of that.

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Tue 08/18/09 09:35 PM

smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


Yeap, this has happened to me, he was gay and we worked side by side everyday (we worked together). We were in love just not with the sex part. Everyone thought we were engaged and of course we just laughed about that. He was so good looking too. We had a special relationship. The feelings we had for each other were mutual.

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Tue 08/18/09 09:39 PM

smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


Heck, might as well try to lick carpet and see if I really can swallow it...:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/19/09 09:14 AM


smile2(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.)smile2Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian,how would you deal with this?smile2Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation,would you tell them how you feel?smile2


Heck, might as well try to lick carpet and see if I really can swallow it...:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Pink_lady's photo
Wed 08/19/09 09:23 AM

i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:

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Wed 08/19/09 09:32 AM


i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:


unfortunately there are a great deal of gay men and women who do reciprocate and marry/live with members of the opposite sex for whatever their reasons may be. also a great deal of women fall in love with and again marry/live with gay men and again for whatever reasons. so i suppose it's not always as clear cut as we would like to believe (imo)

Pink_lady's photo
Wed 08/19/09 09:38 AM



i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:


unfortunately there are a great deal of gay men and women who do reciprocate and marry/live with members of the opposite sex for whatever their reasons may be. also a great deal of women fall in love with and again marry/live with gay men and again for whatever reasons. so i suppose it's not always as clear cut as we would like to believe (imo)


Theres a diff between reciprocating, and loving someone back. Ppl who r hiding from their sexuality r selfish imo, because they r robbing the other person of true happiness.

papersmile's photo
Wed 08/19/09 09:42 AM



i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:


unfortunately there are a great deal of gay men and women who do reciprocate and marry/live with members of the opposite sex for whatever their reasons may be. also a great deal of women fall in love with and again marry/live with gay men and again for whatever reasons. so i suppose it's not always as clear cut as we would like to believe (imo)


yeah, maybe years ago, but i don't think there's a stigma attached to being gay any longer and people aren't hiding away behind some door in an attempt to be 'normal'.

besides, if they'd had a sexual relationship with me, doesn't that make them bi as opposed to gay or lesbian?

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Wed 08/19/09 09:44 AM




i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:


unfortunately there are a great deal of gay men and women who do reciprocate and marry/live with members of the opposite sex for whatever their reasons may be. also a great deal of women fall in love with and again marry/live with gay men and again for whatever reasons. so i suppose it's not always as clear cut as we would like to believe (imo)


Theres a diff between reciprocating, and loving someone back. Ppl who r hiding from their sexuality r selfish imo, because they r robbing the other person of true happiness.



there is indeed a difference and for all we know perhaps they do love back. some ppl however are not hiding from their sexuality and unfortunately still go along with the whole thing for whatever reasons. i do not believe ppl that are hiding from their sexuality are selfish as we have no idea what is going on or has gone on in their lives. personally i don't get it but thats just me. also i'm not sure they are robbing the other person of true happiness the other person may however be robbing themselves. relationships and sexuality are not always how they seem to outside parties. but each to their own i suppose.

Pink_lady's photo
Wed 08/19/09 09:44 AM




i don't think i could get to the point of being in love with someone and not know their sexual orientation.

surely, there'd have to be at least some reciprocation on their part before the feelings progressed to that level.




This is my opinion also, thanks Lisa! :thumbsup:


unfortunately there are a great deal of gay men and women who do reciprocate and marry/live with members of the opposite sex for whatever their reasons may be. also a great deal of women fall in love with and again marry/live with gay men and again for whatever reasons. so i suppose it's not always as clear cut as we would like to believe (imo)


yeah, maybe years ago, but i don't think there's a stigma attached to being gay any longer and people aren't hiding away behind some door in an attempt to be 'normal'.

besides, if they'd had a sexual relationship with me, doesn't that make them bi as opposed to gay or lesbian?


Yeh, thats wat i was thinkin....a gay man CANT hide it....therefore, if he manages to maintain, he must be bisexual.