If lusting after another, imagining what it would be like to have sex with them, finding oneself infatuated with their attention, luxuriating in the intensity of the crush...then I am a serial cheater.


If simply f* cking someone else whilst in a committed relationship is all there was to it....no one would be hurt, or crushed, or needing to forgive....


it is never the physical act...it is the intention behind it...

and no, I have not YET had the urge to manifest the fantasy in my head into reality.

NOPE! not ALL women cheat!! when you get good lovin' at HOME, ya dont need to look 4 it elsewhere!!!

not me either!!

guys cheat too.

Yep and they will rob you blind as well......

You have lost it

What?? He implied that ALL women cheat. So I was telling him that guys cheat too. I've been cheated on, but was never a cheater. Never will be.

Well... they do. I'm not saying that makes it ok for someone else to cheat. I don't think it's EVER ok to cheat, no matter your gender. My point is that BOTH genders cheat. It's not just women.

I find it hard to believe that a man would actually cheat on a woman. My My My what is this world coming to?

What if your partner came to you....openly and honestly, and said they found themselves deeply attracted to another....and wanted to have sex with that person?

Is it the dishonesty? Is it the feeling like a fool, and the last to know, that hurts? is it the secrecy, the going behind another's back?

is it breach of trust?

Who OWNS another person, really?

Stinkin' liars.....sneakin' around with their treacherous agendas.

Been cheated on... and for to long I blamed myself. Now I realize, it was him, not me. It REALLY was him and not me. Had to say that to myself a few times before I believed it.

You trust somebody and they lie to you. It sucks, but it happens everyday to somebody.

For guys in order not to be cheated on you gonna need 2 things.

1. Lot's of money
2. Good sex skills.


You got both of those, you are all set she will not cheat on you ever. Missing either or both, ...well good luck.

For women to have the guys not to cheat on them.

1. Don't let them close to other hot women. Basically poke his eyes out and shut him in a dungeon.














/sarcasm activated/

Good for you girl

For men to keep their women INTERESTED in only them....

1. Be emotionally responsive.
2. Be sexually confident and bold.
3. Have a job.
4. Be PRESENT...engaged, and truly INTO your woman.

It is true that some men do cheat. But I think women are more likely to cheat. I have never. But my girlfriends always said I was. Then found out that She was for over a year. So if a girl says your cheating, dos that mean she is?

the feeling of inadequacy is one answer
as far as ownership,i lease