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Just because society expects something doesn't make it right. My point is that if it truly wasn't part of our make up, who we really are, then it wouldn't hurt so bad when it's done to us. It's like how we raise our children. We don't raise our children because it's what society expects. We raise them because it's in our nature to do so. However, there's bad seeds there too. Not everyone is a good or even decent parent. Not everyone can or will be faithful. Jill....the instinctual aspect of us as a species is to find the best mate...for reproduction...and if that mate falls short...we will discard them and seek another better mate.(That's the anthropological aspect) Societally, we are spoon fed from infancy to meet, fall in love, and live happily ever after..(every fairytale has a happy ending).... that is continually reinforced by the hollywood guff we buy into. Add into that the religious components of our societies...the familial aspects, and the peer group aspects... It is CONDITIONED into us to believe this is so....and therefore is intensely painful...when our fairytale crumbles. |
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I am not sure it has to do on how kids are brought up. My mom cheated on my dad and neither me or my sister has ever cheated. (As far as I know for my sister.) Can you say that if it is around when you are young that you will do it when you grow up? I dont think so.
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For guys in order not to be cheated on you gonna need 2 things. 1. Lot's of money 2. Good sex skills. You got both of those, you are all set. Missing either or both, well good luck. For women to have the guys not to cheat on them. 1. Don't let them close to other hot women. Basically poke his eyes out and shut him in a dungeon. For men to keep their women INTERESTED in only them.... 1. Be emotionally responsive. 2. Be sexually confident and bold. 3. Have a job. 4. Be PRESENT...engaged, and truly INTO your woman. Yes.  OMG......That has got to be one of the funniest things I have ever read/seen......That cracks me up!!! LMAO   This is one of those threads I like to make fun of..if others didn't realize I've been joking all along. |
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Edited by
Jess642
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Tue 08/25/09 05:52 PM
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Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself. Yes....  and get, what ultimately you require. if thats your desired effect. Earthy...if you ultimately require monogomy (sp?)....then creating the eager want for it in another...is what you get... kind of reap what you sow stuff..
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haha
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Do all women cheat? Are you fecking kidding me with a question like that? Seriously? Maybe you just suck in bed? |
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Do all women cheat? Are you fecking kidding me with a question like that? Seriously? Maybe you just suck in bed?  
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Just because society expects something doesn't make it right. My point is that if it truly wasn't part of our make up, who we really are, then it wouldn't hurt so bad when it's done to us. It's like how we raise our children. We don't raise our children because it's what society expects. We raise them because it's in our nature to do so. However, there's bad seeds there too. Not everyone is a good or even decent parent. Not everyone can or will be faithful. We as a species are geared to pair up. With who and how many times is a social construct. The reason it hurts when someone cheats on you is the break of trust that goes along with it. |
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Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself. Yes.... and get, what ultimately you require. if thats your desired effect. Earthy...if you ultimately require monogomy (sp?)....then creating the eager want for it in another...is what you get... kind of reap what you sow stuff.. O sure, but ya know.. ya can lead a horse to water... I agree with the effort. Allthough, I dont do alot of trying to convince anyone of anything in relationships, i sell myself by being honest, and upstanding, its more internal. So Id imagine the desired affect for me comes from being something I am. However, in the ops case his post is going quite against what he is here for. A little defeating. If I want a man.. posting something negative about them in general I know for sure, is not the way to go. |
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Ya. ALL women cheat.
 Always asked in the most bitter of times but think how obvious the answer really is, therefore making the question moronic. |
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I think the most important aspect of this topic has been touched on. As a woman in need of more than her partner was willing to give, I started looking elsewhere. Actually, you could almost say I was waiting for the opportunity to present itself. I know what I did was not right, but after having the same discussion over and over with my partner about what I needed, I was tired of trying to keep it together. Listen to your woman. Don't try to fix all her problems, but at least pretend that you care. Women tend to want their partner to be their best friend as well as their lover. Be there for her, and love her well.
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Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself. Yes.... and get, what ultimately you require. if thats your desired effect. Earthy...if you ultimately require monogomy (sp?)....then creating the eager want for it in another...is what you get... kind of reap what you sow stuff.. O sure, but ya know.. ya can lead a horse to water... I agree with the effort. Allthough, I dont do alot of trying to convince anyone of anything in relationships, i sell myself by being honest, and upstanding, its more internal. So Id imagine the desired affect for me comes from being something I am. However, in the ops case his post is going quite against what he is here for. A little defeating. If I want a man.. posting something negative about them in general I know for sure, is not the way to go. So I spose a nice guy thread isn't gonna get me anywhere either? |
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far more men cheat than women...fact, period......we don't even need statistics here. if you ask any girl on this or any other site, most of the men that hit on them are married.....so much so, it is a common complaint here, and everyone on other sites including facebook and myspace..... according to lenient statistics, 75% of men cheat, but it's more like 90% i'm sure. bad shakes for women i think.....i wonder why they aren't all lesbian by now......some women cheat, merely because the man started it, and it's a t!t for tat thing then......i'm sorry women, but being security at one time along time ago for escorts, i will have to agree that ALMOST all men are complete scum. 10% are the exception. when you cheat...YOU'RE REALLY LYING TO YOURSELF MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE....lying to your own soul something eternity can never correct................ I had a very similar conversation last night, with his lordship....from a social anthropology view...not much has changed ....from behaviours in ancient times to now....the stats for children of a union....showed about a 1 in 4 progeny would not be the father's child... and now the stats are hardly any different....1 in 5 of progeny are not the father's... We as a species, are NOT monogomous....societally it is expected. Big difference. yep, i agree with you. i'd want a person to want to be with me....if they get tired of me, THEN, IT'S OVER....no cheating! what's the point? marriage is a trump card for control, period. useless! it's an INSECURITY BLANKET so to speak. i've had temptations beyond belief, and i go by natural law...what's wrong is wrong. we all pretty much get it, but who obeys it is what gives you the integrity to remain CLEAN and true to yourself! nothing! not one woman, or ten at the same time, will phase me in the least.....my exe's have actually tested me, and i passed....she **** a brick or two......it's what you have inside that make you what you are.......i just happen to be a now hidious monster with natural morals |
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Creating a desire is the only way to sell anything, including yourself. Yes.... and get, what ultimately you require. if thats your desired effect. Earthy...if you ultimately require monogomy (sp?)....then creating the eager want for it in another...is what you get... kind of reap what you sow stuff.. O sure, but ya know.. ya can lead a horse to water... I agree with the effort. Allthough, I dont do alot of trying to convince anyone of anything in relationships, i sell myself by being honest, and upstanding, its more internal. So Id imagine the desired affect for me comes from being something I am. However, in the ops case his post is going quite against what he is here for. A little defeating. If I want a man.. posting something negative about them in general I know for sure, is not the way to go. So I spose a nice guy thread isn't gonna get me anywhere either? ha ha, yes you may share my popcorn. |
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Do all women cheat? Are you fecking kidding me with a question like that? Seriously? Maybe you just suck in bed? LMAO OMG!! lol |
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People dont do thngs because you tell them to. They do them because that is what they WANT to do because they are inspired.
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o jeez, another brilliant one. Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh???  Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say? one of the best books in print...!!!! |
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o jeez, another brilliant one. Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh??? Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say? one of the best books in print...!!!! yep, some people grew up on hippie stuff, some people grew up on strict religion.. THIS is just the kind of stuff I gre up on. Wheres my night and shining Dr. Phil? PFFFTTT hahaha.. (probably only a joke I get) Maybe I should ask aunt Oprah. lol |
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o jeez, another brilliant one. Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh??? Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say? one of the best books in print...!!!! yep, some people grew up on hippie stuff, some people grew up on strict religion.. THIS is just the kind of stuff I gre up on. Wheres my night and shining Dr. Phil? PFFFTTT hahaha.. (probably only a joke I get) Maybe I should ask aunt Oprah. lol check out vital friends......another ground breaker....looks at things from a totally different point of view....excellent!!!! |
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o jeez, another brilliant one. Heyyy.. you readd thisss didnt youuuu??? Huh?? huh??? Ive never cheated. What chu tryin to say? one of the best books in print...!!!! yep, some people grew up on hippie stuff, some people grew up on strict religion.. THIS is just the kind of stuff I gre up on. Wheres my night and shining Dr. Phil? PFFFTTT hahaha.. (probably only a joke I get) Maybe I should ask aunt Oprah. lol check out vital friends......another ground breaker....looks at things from a totally different point of view....excellent!!!! I will check that out as well. May I ask, in your photo, are you dressed like a vampire? |
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