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Topic: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go?
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:45 AM


:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:

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Mon 08/31/09 09:46 AM
If you don't "have" them....what is the point in holding.....

writer_gurl's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:46 AM
:cry: alot and realized in the end that was the best choice

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:47 AM

If you don't "have" them....what is the point in holding.....
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MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:47 AM

:cry: alot and realized in the end that was the best choice
flowerforyou

BettyB's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:52 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:

Are you talking about a partener. a child or some someone dying ?

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Mon 08/31/09 09:52 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


I un-cuffed her, opened the door, and told her to get the h*ll out of HER house!! drinks rofl

silly's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:55 AM
By realizing in the end it is the best thing for me.:cry:

adj4u's photo
Mon 08/31/09 09:57 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


what is the point of keeping one that does not want to be there

if they are adults they have the right to make their own choice

if they choose to go who am i to stop them

but i do have the choice not to let them come back

as has been my choice in the past

do not do reruns if they left once they will probably leave again

silly's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:04 AM




:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


what is the point of keeping one that does not want to be there

if they are adults they have the right to make their own choice

if they choose to go who am i to stop them

but i do have the choice not to let them come back

as has been my choice in the past

do not do reruns if they left once they will probably leave again
flowerforyou flowerforyou


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Mon 08/31/09 10:05 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:
There was no forcing........just too much water under the bridge. Its not hard when its best for your child.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:06 AM

By realizing in the end it is the best thing for me.:cry:



Exactly!!!



TxsSun's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:12 AM




:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


what is the point of keeping one that does not want to be there

if they are adults they have the right to make their own choice

if they choose to go who am i to stop them

but i do have the choice not to let them come back

as has been my choice in the past

do not do reruns if they left once they will probably leave again



I agree flowerforyou

auburngirl's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:18 AM
Sometimes, in the literal sense, you don't have a choice.

happyhottie's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:19 AM
you don't have to stop loving them in your heart. love them from a distance and write to them but never mail the letter. just get your feelings out for your health. loving someone who is gone is not wrong but not allowing someone else to love you who is deserving is wrong. love the one who is gone but save room in your heart for another who can love you back

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:23 AM
Yea keep a little spot in your heart for them and the memories

And give your all to the one who truly loves you !!

Good way to say it Hottie


And welcome!!


Tammy:heart:

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Mon 08/31/09 10:24 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


tried brute force (emotionally with self).... amazingly it did not help... it just happened over time...

flowerforyou

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:26 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


Bury them under the stoop...

Dragoness's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:30 AM



:heart: How did you force yourself to let a loved one go even though it was the hardest thing you ever had to do?:heart:


First you have to accept that loving someone does not mean they are "yours", second you have to accept that loving someone does not mean you have to be together, third, you have to understand that sometimes people are not good for one another regardless to the love involved.

After that you grieve the relationship and move forward.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 08/31/09 10:38 AM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 08/31/09 10:38 AM
Counsiling..

and


Telling myself that everything is the way its supposed to be at this time.

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