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I met this super nice girl like 2 months ago in her office, we talked for a long time and I really felt comfortable talking to her. But that was it, just a nice chat with nice girl. A month later, I had to go back to that office to check on something and she remembered my name, and started complaining about her boyfriend and telling me how jerk he was with her. She said she loves him more than he loves her, and despite that she was thinking of ending her relatioship with him because she wanted to get married and have kids and he didn't want that. I met her again in the office for like four times and everytime I go there we talk about almost everything for a long time, she does things to keep me there like telling her costumers to come back later if they show up, she opens subjects and keeps the conversation going, she asks me a lot of questions about my family and asked me once why I didn't get married, and oneday she said I have to get married and have kids because she knew I like kids. She does sexy movements and I noticed her body language, it says she likes me, but I'm not sure as a friend or something else. I really like her and we keep sending each other emails. When I saw her this morning she hugged me and showed me her family pictures. What is that mean? I don't understand what she is trying to say? By the way she is my apartment leasing office manager. Ladies and gentlemen, help please.
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 Ask her out already!
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Dude she thinks your just a nice guy and friend....
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out?
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Maybe she just likes talking to you? Maybe she thinks you're interesting? Maybe she needs someone to vent to about her bf? I don't know.
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out? Unless she's broken up with the bf, I wouldn't ask her out. |
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Invite her over for a couple shots of tequila........
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Get to know her a little...
Then ask her out! |
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Invite her over for a couple shots of tequila........ 
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 08/31/09 01:22 PM
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out? No wonder guys are so clueless and women have to take over!  Pull up your big boy pants, ask her out, and have a good time. Don't put any pressure on yourself. One date is no big deal. You’re not asking her to book the band and find a church  If you guys like each other then continue to date. Don't analyze the hell out of a simple situation. |
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out? No wonder guys are so clueless and women have to take over! Pull up your big boy pants, ask her out, and have a good time. Don't put any pressure on yourself. One date is no big deal. You’re not asking her to book the band and find a church If you guys like each other then continue to date. Don't analyze the hell out of a simple situation. |
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I met this super nice girl like 2 months ago in her office, we talked for a long time and I really felt comfortable talking to her. But that was it, just a nice chat with nice girl. A month later, I had to go back to that office to check on something and she remembered my name, and started complaining about her boyfriend and telling me how jerk he was with her. She said she loves him more than he loves her, and despite that she was thinking of ending her relatioship with him because she wanted to get married and have kids and he didn't want that. I met her again in the office for like four times and everytime I go there we talk about almost everything for a long time, she does things to keep me there like telling her costumers to come back later if they show up, she opens subjects and keeps the conversation going, she asks me a lot of questions about my family and asked me once why I didn't get married, and oneday she said I have to get married and have kids because she knew I like kids. She does sexy movements and I noticed her body language, it says she likes me, but I'm not sure as a friend or something else. I really like her and we keep sending each other emails. When I saw her this morning she hugged me and showed me her family pictures. What is that mean? I don't understand what she is trying to say? By the way she is my apartment leasing office manager. Ladies and gentlemen, help please. This is too long to read, I agree whatever others said. Just ask her out, even if you were writing a recipe here, from a cookbook. |
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 In short, Im not sure how she feels, and she has a boyfriend. Is that short enough?
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if you are under 18 .....you are not supposed to be on this site...
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sounds to me like your a nice guy, and she's talking to you like a friend... not that I completely understand women, but if they are talking to you about their "other" relationships, your in the friend zone...
BUT - it never hurts to ask her out... unless you want to remain her friend... good luck man! 
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if you are under 18 .....you are not supposed to be on this site... But....he's a medical doctor at 25 yrs. old. |
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Edited by
HunniHubbi
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Mon 08/31/09 01:34 PM
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out? No wonder guys are so clueless and women have to take over! Pull up your big boy pants, ask her out, and have a good time. Don't put any pressure on yourself. One date is no big deal. You’re not asking her to book the band and find a church If you guys like each other then continue to date. Don't analyze the hell out of a simple situation. I think you should ask her out already, you dont marry someone for looks, sex, money ect you marry them because they are your bestest friend in the world and would love to be in their company for the rest of your lifes. Also lifes too short to miss, never hesitate, ever. Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.......but all this depends on how you feel about her as you dont say much about how you feel. |
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The he should act like it!
if you are under 18 .....you are not supposed to be on this site... But....he's a medical doctor at 25 yrs. old. |
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She's in a relationship and not getting the attention/feedback she wants but hasn't yet found it in her to leave. She gets some of that feedback and attention from you, but she's still in the relationship. You're helping to boost her self-steem.
I don't think you want anything to do with her. Even if she does eventually leave her boyfriend, you'd have to deal with the aftermath of the breakup and you would likely be the rebound guy anyhow. Keep being a friend and if she ever does break up and get her life settled and she still pays you attention, maybe then ask her out. |
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Thanks for the super quick reply, but don't you think it is kinda early to ask her out? No wonder guys are so clueless and women have to take over! Really?????......
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