Topic: Black women play too damn hard to get.
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Mon 08/31/09 02:30 PM


"Don't take no chit" Clearly written in code. The problem is that it's too vague.

As for generalizations, I should have said "Black women in "hoods".


You have something against hats?????.........smokin


he meant "ghetto" women.:tongue:

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Mon 08/31/09 02:31 PM


"Don't take no chit" Clearly written in code. The problem is that it's too vague.

As for generalizations, I should have said "Black women in "hoods".


You have something against hats?????.........smokin


lol, good one!

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Mon 08/31/09 02:33 PM

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Mon 08/31/09 02:33 PM



"Don't take no chit" Clearly written in code. The problem is that it's too vague.

As for generalizations, I should have said "Black women in "hoods".


You have something against hats?????.........smokin


he meant "ghetto" women.:tongue:


These crazy kids with there slang........smokin

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Mon 08/31/09 02:34 PM




laugh drinker

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Mon 08/31/09 02:37 PM


Those little games were fine in high school, but it's time to quit the BS. Life's too short to games.



Games are not fine in high school or any other time life. whoa


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Mon 08/31/09 02:42 PM
True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?

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Mon 08/31/09 02:46 PM

True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


I thought we just realized that they're not playing hard to get with you, they're not interested. You just said you don't have much in common with them, so why would they be interested in someone who doesn't share their interests? Are you trying to date them because someone told you you're supposed to date within your race or out of genuine attraction/interest or whatever?

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Mon 08/31/09 02:47 PM

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Mon 08/31/09 02:47 PM

Why is it that when I approach a black woman, she rolls her eyes and tries to embarass me, but when I'm with any other type of woman (asian, latin, middle eastern, white, etc), they'll say "Why is he with that white *****" ?(even when she isn't white) What the hell?!

So I should date no one if a black woman doesn't want to be with me? The hell with that. My problem, I'm also (naturally) into black women (along with others).

The issue is that this happens 99% of the time. The only black women into me are the ones I'm not into.

The black woman will complain that "We can't find any good men", but when one shows interest, they get shunned.

Those little games were fine in high school, but it's time to quit the BS. Life's too short to games.

There's my rant. Opinions are welcome.


Maybe this has nothing to do with the color of someone's skin but it might have to do with your advance.

The rolling of their eyes might be in response to your "game" or what you say to them.

I have no idea how you approach a lady that you wish to meet but if you are trying to use pick up lines, slang, or anything schmarmy -- that might be the problem.

A guy who approaches with a smile, a nice "Hello, my name is _________ and I wanted to meet you." goes a long way in etiquette. winking

I'm sorry you’ve had bad experiences. I wish you well in your dating search. flowerforyou

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Mon 08/31/09 02:50 PM

True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


How are you approaching these women? Maybe it has to do with the way you're approaching them?

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Mon 08/31/09 02:51 PM

True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


Women who are not interestied in a guy, are not interested in a guy.

Playing hard to get is really not even a game played by women anymore. A woman has a certain standard of how soon she will kiss or whatever but it is not because she wants to play hard to get, it is for her own integrity that she has those standards.

It sounds to me from the OP that hard to get is not your problem, you seem to want women who are not interested in you. Look for more interested parties, I would say.

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Mon 08/31/09 02:53 PM


True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


Women who are not interestied in a guy, are not interested in a guy.

Playing hard to get is really not even a game played by women anymore. A woman has a certain standard of how soon she will kiss or whatever but it is not because she wants to play hard to get, it is for her own integrity that she has those standards.

It sounds to me from the OP that hard to get is not your problem, you seem to want women who are not interested in you. Look for more interested parties, I would say.


Thank you!!! That's what I've been trying to say, maybe he'll listen to you, since he's not paying this "evil black woman" any attention.laugh flowerforyou

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Mon 08/31/09 02:53 PM
bad pick up lines with only get you so far.hit her with a giant fish

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Mon 08/31/09 02:57 PM



True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


Women who are not interestied in a guy, are not interested in a guy.

Playing hard to get is really not even a game played by women anymore. A woman has a certain standard of how soon she will kiss or whatever but it is not because she wants to play hard to get, it is for her own integrity that she has those standards.

It sounds to me from the OP that hard to get is not your problem, you seem to want women who are not interested in you. Look for more interested parties, I would say.


Thank you!!! That's what I've been trying to say, maybe he'll listen to you, since he's not paying this "evil black woman" any attention.laugh flowerforyou


:thumbsup:

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Mon 08/31/09 02:58 PM
It's a pretty straight forward approach. No slang, smarmyness, pickup lines, or anything. My "game" doesn't switch when speaking to a black woman. It's fine when dealing with other types or women, just not most black women.

What I do notice is that the "Slang", "Game", etc. tends to work for them, at least the "ghetto" ones. Maybe it is me. Oh well. Then let's switch it up then. Where can I find normal black women?

And to answer Calleigh, it's genuine interest.

Also, to answer Dragoness, why should I not go after what I'm interested in? I am not the type to settle with someone cause their interested. Cause if I'm not interested, why bother?

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Mon 08/31/09 02:58 PM

bad pick up lines with only get you so far.hit her with a giant fish


then he won't want her 'cause she'll smell bad.:laughing:

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Mon 08/31/09 03:01 PM


bad pick up lines with only get you so far.hit her with a giant fish


then he won't want her 'cause she'll smell bad.:laughing:


well i didnt say it was going to smell pretty or be effective lmao rofl happy bigsmile

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Mon 08/31/09 03:02 PM
Good one Cal. Yeah, maybe I should give up on black women, as as Cal so bluntly put it, we don't share common interests. My thing is that I hear the term "open mindedness" tossed around like failed juggle attempts, yet when it comes down to it, it's a ruse.

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Mon 08/31/09 03:04 PM



Thank you!!! That's what I've been trying to say, maybe he'll listen to you, since he's not paying this "evil black woman" any attention.laugh flowerforyou


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