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Topic: Black women play too damn hard to get.
Dhimir's photo
Mon 09/21/09 02:55 PM
Yes the hell they do!

franshade's photo
Mon 09/21/09 03:05 PM

Why is it that when I approach a black woman, she rolls her eyes and tries to embarass me, but when I'm with any other type of woman (asian, latin, middle eastern, white, etc), they'll say "Why is he with that white *****" ?(even when she isn't white) What the hell?!

So I should date no one if a black woman doesn't want to be with me? The hell with that. My problem, I'm also (naturally) into black women (along with others).

The issue is that this happens 99% of the time. The only black women into me are the ones I'm not into.

The black woman will complain that "We can't find any good men", but when one shows interest, they get shunned.

Those little games were fine in high school, but it's time to quit the BS. Life's too short to games.

There's my rant. Opinions are welcome.


Here's a thought: it's just a matter of preference, which you too have shown as the only women into you are the ones you are not into. waving


Dhimir's photo
Mon 09/21/09 03:09 PM
I've come to realize that. No need to post here any longer. I'd like this topic to fade into obscurity.

MzEm's photo
Mon 09/21/09 03:10 PM

:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

He just has bad attitude

No women. No matter what color goes for bad mouthin other women
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh





Okay now! *MzEm gives the high five*

franshade's photo
Mon 09/21/09 03:11 PM

I've come to realize that. No need to post here any longer. I'd like this topic to fade into obscurity.

I only ask for world peace flowerforyou

Monier's photo
Mon 09/21/09 10:52 PM
When somebody rolls their eyes at me, I tickle assault them, usually works

CatsLoveMe's photo
Mon 09/21/09 11:06 PM
But how do you know it's not a facial tick?surprised surprised surprised

Blackipino's photo
Mon 02/21/11 11:12 AM
A lot of women who have had bad experiences with men will almost naturally react to a man's first advance by cutting her eyes.

And this goes for women of any race.

I dunno, when I picture someone cutting their eyes, I get the vibe like their thinkin "Oh great, here we go again!" Maybe your approach is unoriginal? You may very well be sincere in your interest in the lady, but if she is conventionally attractive, she probably gets hit on a lot and doesn't see what's different and unique about you and the last 10 guys who tried talking to her that day.

Be original and unique! Don't over-flatter her cuz she's probably heard it all before!

BOTTOM LINE: It's probably not even your fault, hun, don't worry. If a man approaches me and I'm not interested, I'm too nice and classy and respectful to cut my eyes at them. Any woman who is rude to you for trying to be nice doesn't deserve you or any good man for that matter.

no photo
Mon 02/21/11 11:16 AM
They aren't any better with us white guys. I don't personally know a single black person. That isn't because I don't want to. It's just a matter of the circles we move in.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 02/21/11 11:18 AM
whos pulling threads from 09 noway noway noway noway noway

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Mon 02/21/11 11:21 AM
Ooops! Lost my bearing somehow.

no photo
Mon 02/21/11 04:42 PM
flowerforyou I AGREE SOME WOMEN DO PLAY TOO MANY GAMES, SOME OF THEM NEED TO CHILL OUT PEOPLE ALL THE GOOD BLACK MEN ARE TAKEN. DONT WORRY BOUT THEM THOUGH MAN, YOU NEED TO TRY TO STEP TO THE MORE MATURE BLACK WOMEN, INSTEAD OF THE LITTLE KIDS IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU TALKING TO LOL, I HAVE TO ADD ON THAT WHEN I DO COME UP TO A MAN HE DONT REALIZE IM A GOOD WOMAN, AND WILL PASS ME UP FOR SOME OF THE TYPES OF WOMEN YOU BE TALKING TO, SO IT WORKS BOTH WAYS, OUR BLACK PEOPLE ALONG WITH SOME OTHER RACES NEED TO JUST MATURE AND GAIN A LITTLE WISDOMflowerforyou

Lee4love3's photo
Mon 02/21/11 04:53 PM
Sounds like we are all in deep agreement about Black Women who act crazy. This is a across the board issue. Lately I have noticed women who can't get their ____ together and expect me to cater to them. When I refused to approach a certain sister, she assumed that I was weird. I said, I am not weird, but I have a thing I am doing at my advanced age of 53. I am getting a college degree and the time for the games, well I am not with them. Plus, I am not into the sisters over the size of a 16, it's becoming horrible to see these big women wondering why we men will not take them on. On the part of me being into Black Women, I want them first, but I also dig the asian, hispanic, mixed & white women as well.

Lee4love3's photo
Mon 02/21/11 04:58 PM
The Queen 1,partly you are correct about the immature women. But are women immature at 35-45? Maybe so, but how mature do we need to get?
Check this out, when I arrived in the location I am living now, I was 48 and a sister 35 always kept her eyes on me. So eventually I met her, and after I met her and gave her some vitals. Instantly I was no good, due to my age. Now I had not done anything to her at all, but smile and say hello. I've lived in my location for 5 years and a few months. Each time I see this woman--she is mad about something with the lips turned up--as if she has been hit in them.
Problem is, some of the sisters(some) have some unresolved issues to work out. If 5 years olast and your issues have not been worked out, then you need to see someone--quick. Let's not play the blame game and make excuses for any of the Women who act a fool. I say--date out of our race and go for the gusto

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Mon 02/21/11 05:02 PM
I say--date out of our race and go for the gusto


Bravo!

Chazster's photo
Mon 02/21/11 07:48 PM
Edited by Chazster on Mon 02/21/11 07:56 PM

True enough. So, why do black women play (way) to hard to get?


Who says they are playing hard to get? Maybe they are just not interested in you. If they don't like seeing you with other women its probably because they don't like seeing "black guys" with girls of other races. It could have nothing to do with who you actually are.

no photo
Mon 02/21/11 07:51 PM
I could have nothing to do with who you actually are
What? Is that what you meant to say?

Chazster's photo
Mon 02/21/11 07:56 PM
Edited by Chazster on Mon 02/21/11 07:57 PM

I could have nothing to do with who you actually are
What? Is that what you meant to say?

lol thanks i meant "it" as in the word not what i wrote.

msharmony's photo
Tue 02/22/11 12:13 AM
good men and women exist in all races,,,just wanted to say,,,

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